Over ten years in the making (it’s astounding how long I’ve been running Kinky World!), the BDSM Advice Series is a collection of BDSM education topics and articles I’ve written over the years. This collection of BDSM knowledge is constantly expanding with new information and new topics as I get the chance (and time!) to throw my knowledge onto the metaphorical paper.
While not everyone shares my love of a constantly expanding knowledge base around kink education topics, I hope that this list of BDSM education resources will help you – whether you’re looking to expand your knowledge for the fun of it or need help with a specific kink activity.
Social aspect articles explore the social aspect of BDSM. While you can enjoy kink solo and never step foot into your local kink community, finding your local kink community can open up a whole new way to experience (and learn about!) BDSM activities. Learn about attending your first BDSM play party, safe calls, femdom advice, negotiating a BDSM scene, attending your first kink conference, finding play partners when you travel, and more.
There are also articles about how to do power exchange relationships. Consensual power exchange relationships (like Dominant/submissive and Master/slave) are a backbone for many kink relationships. Learn about fun ways to reinforce your power exchange dynamic or different ways to find inspiration for your BDSM scenes.
As a femdom myself, I also find myself regularly writing femdom help articles. While most general BDSM articles can apply to femdom dynamics, there are some special considerations for femdom relationships that can be helpful. Learn the basics of CFNM 101 or find ways to use sexting to try femdom. Chastity and orgasm denial is also a common kink in femdom communities, and you can learn 5 games for teasing your partner in chastity or choosing a chastity device.
While BDSM and kink gear can be expensive, it doesn’t have to be. After years and years of making “pervertibles” (using random everyday objects as kink toys), these articles help you do BDSM on a budget. Learn about kink toys that are multifunctional on a tight budget or household furniture with BDSM uses.
Of course, any BDSM help without articles on impact toys, bondage, and sensory deprivation wouldn’t be complete. These articles focus on saran wrap bondage, how to use BDSM gags, how to use nipple clamps, tips for buying paddles and riding crops, and more.
If you’re looking for more specialized knowledge, check out the articles about edgeplay. This page lists articles about how to do kinky enemas, how to use electrosex toys, how to do BDSM mindfucks, pee fetishism, ageplay, how to use adult diapers, and more.
BDSM 101 Series
What Is BDSM Drop? What is BDSM Aftercare?
An Introduction to Self-Bondage – and Easy Tips to Make It Happen
Primal Play 101
Ultimate List of Online Service Submissive Activities (All Free!)
Social Aspect
Everything You Need to Know about your First BDSM Play Party
Audio Education: Kinky Play Party 101
Everything You Need to Know about Attending your First BDSM Munch
Everything You Need to Know about a Safe Call
Helpful Suggestions for Setting Your Sexual Limits
Everything You Need to Know About Negotiating a BDSM Scene With a Stranger
Everything You Need to Know About Attending Your First Kink Conference
5 Tips for Finding Kinky Play When You Travel
Accessible BDSM for All: How to Create your Space
Power Exchange Relationships
Protecting Yourself in Case of a D/s Break-Up
9 Creative Ways to Reinforce Your D/s Dynamic Using Sex Toys
9 Ways to Reinforce Your D/s Dynamic Using Technology
How to Find Inspiration for the Hottest BDSM Scenes
7 Ways to Challenge your Creativity as a Dominant
Is a BDSM D/s Contract Worth It?
Femdomme
CFNM 101 (Clothed Female, Naked Male)
Discovering your Femdomme Persona
How to Use Sexting to Try On Your Femdomme Heels
7 Fun Ways to Try Your Hand at Gentle Femdomme
Best Domme Books to Introduce Femdom to Your Wife
How to Be a Dom Woman
Top Tips for Easy Femdom When You Hate Making Decisions
How to Give a Male Stripper Femdom Lapdance
Everything You Need to Know about Femdom Cocktail Service
How to Give a Femdom Blowjob
How to Give a Small Penis Humiliation Handjob
How to Give a Femdom Handjob
How to Give a Femdom Titjob
Femdom Kissing Tips
Femdom Service Ideas to Surprise (and Please!) Your Femdom
Sissy Date Ideas for Connection, Fun, and Identity Reaffirmation
How to Give Jerk Off Instructions
Best Pegging Positions for Beginners
Plus-Size Strap-On Tips
How to Force Feminize for Beginners
Where to Find Lingerie for Men
Football Femdom Scenes
Femdom Goon Scene Ideas
Scenes for Public Femdom Teasing
My Favorite Remote Control Vibrators for Men (for Femdom!)
Your Humiliating Facesitting How-To Guide
Orgasm Denial/Chastity
Christmas Chastity Game
Femdom Locktober Calendar
How to Measure for a Chastity Cage
How to Put on a Chastity Cage
Do Chastity Cages Hurt? (And how to fix it!)
Menstrual Period Chastity
Male Chastity Training: 6 Weeks From Chastity Device Beginner to 24/7 Chastity Slave
Impact Toys
Paddles
Riding Crops
Floggers
Bondage
Saran Wrap Bondage
Plastic Wrap Bondage Positions
Bondage Tape
Water Bondage 101
How to Sleep in Bondage
What Rope is Best for Bondage?
Mental Bondage in BDSM
Sensory Deprivation
BDSM Gags
Nipple Clamps
How to Do a Clothespin Zipper in BDSM
Getting Started in the Tickling Fetish
Types of Edge Play
Enema Play 101: Everything You Need to Know about Giving Enemas in a Kink Scene
Mindfucks
Exploring the World of Pee Fetishism
Diaper Wearing Fetish 101
What is Omorashi and Why Do People Like It?
Bondage Omorashi Tips to Minimize Mess
How to Cuckold for Beginners by Using a Sex Doll
Femdom Vasectomy: How to Eroticize Your Once-in-a-Lifetime Medical Procedure
How to Explore a Money Kink as a Couple
Roleplay Scenes
3 Scenes for a Beginner Femdomme to Try
Beginner’s Guide to Pet Play
Pet Play Scene Ideas
Gear to Make Your Pet Play More Realistic
Easy Home Roleplay Ideas
3 Creative Online Sexual Roleplay Ideas
BDSM Scenes, Step-by-Step Series
Updated: August 2026.
