Maybe have a men’s lingerie fantasy – or maybe you really just love the look of soft, frilly pieces on a “stereotypical” male frame. Whatever it happens to be, with the amazing breadth of online shopping, finding lingerie for men is not nearly as difficult as it used to be. In fact, some online stores specifically specialize in it!
On my end, I particularly love to do femdom feminization on my partner. I particularly love putting him into feminine clothing complete with lots of lace and straps – and really, the equivalent of “women’s lingerie”. That being said, I’m also a bit of a stickler for wanting things to fit correctly. If I’m going to buy him women’s panties for men, I want the panties to actually work well for the parts he has going on down there.
We tried women’s panties for a bit, but they never actually quite fit the testicles (and that looked a bit odd for me). Not only did that look a bit odd, but it wasn’t really comfortable for him, and he never wanted to wear just-panties in case some bits escaped.
We tried padded bras for awhile, but it just annoys me that it looks like a bra that doesn’t quite fit right. (If there was that much space in a bra fitting on someone with “breasts” on their chest, we’d consider that much excess space in the cups an ill-fitting bra.) Since his chest is so broad, underwire bras would poke into his pecs, too, and the fit wouldn’t feel “right” for him either.
So, that led me to my ever-lasting quest to find amazing sexy lingerie for men that was also feminine. I wanted sexy lingerie for men that looked like it was specifically designed for the “male” form – that is, designed for people with generally larger pecs, less fat on top of their pecs, and men’s panties that had extra room in the front for the added space that a penis and testicles takes up.
And you know what? With the popularity of online shopping, being a femdom putting guy into lingerie, I’ve been able to find quite a few options! Some are most costly than others, and some are more size limited (only up to Extra-Large), but the amazing thing about the internet is that there are a lot of companies who now specialize in lingerie for straight men – whether you’re using that for feminization, forced feminization, or just some femdom scenes – or maybe you just want to look hot!
Check out my list of amazing women’s lingerie for men options.
Is There Lingerie for Men?
Yep! While it might have been hard to get ahold of sexy lingerie for men five or ten years ago, the popularity of the internet has made it surprisingly easy! You can even get custom-made lingerie if your proportions are outside of the ranges you think the pieces will fit comfortably.
Heck yes for small businesses doing their creative thing – and offering panties for dicks that will make everybody feel hot!
What is Lingerie for Men?
Lingerie for men is effectively as “generic” as a category as “lingerie for women” – anything that makes you feel sexy can be your own lingerie. Traditionally, “lingerie” is defined as anything designed for sexual arousal that shouldn’t probably be worn in public or around family. Y’know, things that make you feel confident, hot, and sexy!
In the case of most sexy lingerie for men, most pieces focus on bras designed for flatter chests as well as pairs of panties that have added material in the front to comfortably accommodate the extra flesh on the front side of the torso.
Recently, some lingerie for straight men manufacturers have been expanding out into more types of lingerie like robes (especially designed for broader shoulders), bodysuits (designed for longer torsos), babydolls, and more. Bras for men and panties for men will be most-common, but you can definitely find some of the more specialized items if you look around!
READ: How to Force Feminize for Beginners
XDress
A little more focused on crossdressing and fabric fetish choice, but XDress has some great lingerie for men none-the-less. They also sell costumes (French maid outfit for men) and other accessories like make-up and shoes.
XDress stuff fits broader chests and narrower hips fantastically – and their dresses are especially designed for broader shoulders without being too huge at the waist. Their fabrics are silky smooth – especially panties – which is exactly what you want if you’re purchasing it as a fabric fetishist.
We get a good chunk of our “everyday” panties from XDress – including the ones he wears to work. I love the matching sets.
Homme Mystere
I haven’t ordered from Homme Mystere, but they’ve been a cornerstone of men’s lingerie options for awhile now. Their styles tend to appeal to an older crowd (compared to some of the other options on here), and they offer men’s bras, men’s panties, and men’s lingerie like men’s bodysuits. Their sizing tends to stop at Extra Large as well.
Secret Male
Secret Male used to have their own website, but they’ve recently closed that down, and I’ve found the easiest way to get ahold of Secret Male items is to shop through Skiviez. (The company still seems to be around and put out new options through Skiviez, but they don’t seem to have their own website anymore.)
Secret Male has matching bra and panty men’s lingerie sets, but a lot of their stuff only goes up to an Extra-Large.
I’ve especially fallen in love with Secret Male, and I stalk their new offerings constantly. Their bras look great on flatter chests, and their underwear does a great job of offering enough space for all of the extra “goods”. It’s by-far the most sexy lingerie for men I’ve found.
(The bralette shown in the header image is from Secret Male!)
CantiqLA
One of the more expensive options on this list, I just recently finally got the chance to order from CantiqLA. The entire custom-made lingerie site is designed for people of all genders and body types – you just select if you need “extra space” (for a penis) or not on their men’s panties options. (CantiqLA has also done custom work for me when I needed lingerie outside of their stated size chart.)
Unlike other items on this list, CantiqLA allows both you and your partner to get matching lingerie sets – especially if you and your partner are different in body size (like one plus size and one straight-sized).
(Our matching lingerie in the header image for this pegging article is from CantiqLA!)
BodyAware
Owned by the same people who own XDress, Body Aware is less-focused on men’s lingerie options that are feminine and more focused on men’s underwear styles made from “traditionally feminine” fabrics like satin or mesh. That being said, their selection is different than XDress’s, and they have a few options that are feminine enough to make it onto my list of men’s female lingerie options.
We’ve bought a few of their swimsuits in the past, and those have held up nicely.
CandyMan Fashion
While specifically advertised as a men’s underwear store, CandyMan Fashion has a whole lot of cute pieces that look pretty close to men’s lingerie options. CandyMan Fashion also has plus size men’s lingerie as well. If you’re just looking for women’s panties made for men, this is a great store to shop; don’t expect a ton of bras and other types of men’s lingerie.
Their options change constantly and some of it is pretty “out there”, but I’ve really liked all of the stuff I’ve bought from there in the past. Tons of lace, so be ready to do lots of handwashing.
Moot Lingerie
Handmade in England with just a handful of employees, Moot Lingerie is headed by a self-described “ordinary guy who loves lingerie and couldn’t find what he was looking for”. The result of that was the creation of Moot Lingerie, a company that seems to specialize in underwear (for people with packages) and stockings and garter belts. (I’m particularly lusting over the Westwood Suspender Belt. Wow!)
I’m particularly fond of their nylon product pages with model height measurements to give you a good idea of whether the nylons will be long enough to be high enough on extra-long legs.
MOB Lingerie
Looking for unique men’s lingerie that toes the line between femme and masculine? The MOB brand might be a good fit for you. With lace-trimmed jock straps and g-strings, MOB offers a mixture of designs that is unique enough in the world of men’s underwear to be worth mentioning.
Origami Customs
A boutique small business focused on “underthings for everyone”, Origami Customs offers swimwear, underwear tops, and underwear bottoms for most body sizes and configurations. For those looking to better affirm their own gender identity, they also have gaffs, packing bottoms, binder tops, and strap-on bottoms.
Their regular “bottoms” category might be the most applicable to anyone in this article, as it allows you to custom-order (all of their items are custom-order!) any of their lingerie bottoms with extra room to fit a penis and balls.
Origami Customs is another company where you and your femdom could purchase matching lingerie in different sizes (plus ranges here too!) to match. They also are one of the few companies on this list offering femme-style swimwear with more gusset coverage for peens.
Cosabella
Cosabella is a high-end, luxury lingerie brand that also carries men’s lingerie. Think “traditionally male underwear styles but made from soft, delicate lace“.
Most of the underwear here looks like “masculine” underwear but with a touch of femme. If that’s what you’re going for, you’ll probably fall in love.
Wicked MMM
I was introduced to this option through a Reddit user. A small business, Wicked MMM is Canada-based and offers lingerie sorted into gender-neutral, for people who need more space in panties, and people who need less space in panties. They offer a selection of panties, bralettes, and a few lingerie-type accessories. Their selection is small, but it appears to be handmade – with prices that are relatively cheap for handmade items.
Their sizing stops at an Extra Large. As items appear to be handmade, there are notes around the site that mention they can help items “fit for you”, so they may do custom orders outside of their size range.
Spangla
If you’re located down in Australia, Spangla might be one of the best options for you. (International shipping is getting so pricy!) Splangla was a tip from a helpful Fetlife message – and it’s nice to add an Australian-based site to this list!
Splangla, previously, was a small business that made its own line of male-bodied lingerie. After the owner’s retirement, though, it looks like the Spangla brand has been purchased by a company that’s using the brand for reselling other mainstream brands of men’s lingerie.
Still, Spangla is Australia-based, and if you’re located down under, you’ll appreciate the ability to get some of the mainstream brands without the same shipping times or import fees. At the moment, it looks like Spangla is carrying Secret Male, Candy Man, Pikante, and a few other brands.
Les Belles Tights
If you need hose or tights, Les Belles offers options designed for all bodies – with extra-stretchy, seam-free fabric designed to work with the extra space needed between the thighs for penis owners. Many of their options are gusset-free (seamless near the crotch) to reduce the standard uncomfortable tights seams that usually cut into the testicles with standard hose choices.
They’re also designed to be rip-free and made in a zero-waste factory in Italy with a focus on an inclusive design and company. It’s pretty neat!
Carmen Liu
Perfect for the UK residents out there, Carmen Liu is a lingerie brand that specializes in lingerie-like tucking thongs and bras for broad chested people. Even their non-tucking thongs offer more space in the front for better coverage of all of the goods. Unlike many other options on this list, their “Comfort Me Collection” also offers comfortable everyday bras and panties for people who don’t necessarily want to deal with the scratch of lacey lingerie on a daily basis.
The Rack Shack Lingerie for Men
While it’s a small selection, the small business, The Rack Shack carries a few femme-esque lingerie pieces designed for people with packages. You’ll see Cacique heavily featured there as well as a few high-end brands. If you’re US East Coast or simply want to support a small lingerie business, they definitely have a few cute things!
Chromat
No, it isn’t quite “lingerie”, but Chromat sells most of their swimsuit styles in more (and less!) crotch fabric to work well with a vulva, packer, or a peen. Their size range is surprisingly large, too, and with most of their styles available for this customized fit, I feel like “matching swimsuits for the hotel takeover” could totally be on the menu.
(You’ll see plus-size models and bulges on a lot of their models, and it’s a seriously refreshing look!)
Elias Gurrola
Specializing in gay and femme-esque swimwear and lingerie, Elias Gurrola offers leotards, socks, shorts, briefs, and thongs in a variety of colors and designs. While they don’t exclusively sell femme lingerie, there’s quite a few options within their catalog that could easily fit within a men’s lingerie photoshoot.
I’m particularly fond of their socks which offer longer lengths for longer bodies.
Perlseo
If you’ve always been jealous of the “strand of pearl” panties made for vulva owners, I have a treat for you!
Perlseo makes an entire line of pearl underwear for those with penises that have double strands of pearls that press against, and stimulate, the anal entrance when worn. At the current moment, they’re available in multiple “masculine” underwear styles (thong, boxer, and brief), but with the strand of pearls that runs alongside the entrance.
Only Maker Heels
If you’re looking for “normal” heels that don’t look like they belong in a burlesque show, Only Maker Heels offers a wide selection of heels up to a size 15.
I have not ordered from them, but their @Tagged section on Instagram is very active with a wide range of gender identities wearing their heels.
Pleaser Heels
Now, if you do want to look like you belong in a burlesque show or on a stripper pole, you’re going to want to go to Pleaser Heels. Pleaser’s Pink Label was specifically made to fit a wider range of sizes than their standard lines. Most of their Pink Label goes up to a size 16.
Many of Pleaser’s “standard” stripper lines are surprisingly broad in sizing too. One of my favorite stripper boots goes all the way up to a size 14.
I’ve ordered way too many pairs of heels from Pleasers for pole dance, and most of my submissive‘s heels are from Pleaser as well.
Tiger Man Underwear – Etsy
An Etsy shop based in Ukraine, this shop offers a whole lot of strappy stuff adorned with lace. You’re not going to get a whole lot of “coverage” with most of their pieces, but especially if you’re looking to add layering pieces over your current men’s lingerie for a serious visual treat, Tiger Man Underwear looks like they have some fantastic options.
(Some Tiger Man Underwear pieces go up to a 4XL as well! And like many Etsy shops, if you reach out, they may be able to do a custom piece for you if you need it larger.)
Honestly, I just discovered Tiger Man Underwear just for this post while gathering resources, and I am now seriously jonesing over so much of their stuff. Please buy gorgeous stuff like this and show off your sexy self!
Fire Pony Shop – Etsy
Another shop from Ukraine, all of the men’s ligerie here is handmade. Fire Pony Shop offers some strappier offerings as well as some men’s panties options that have a bit more coverage. A lot of their items are modeled on a real person (I’d guess they’re the owner) in addition to some mannequin pictures.
Fire Pony Shop items seem to go up to an XL. While they primarily focus on panties for a penis, they do have a few mens bra and chest offerings as well.
(If the term “sissy” bothers you, I’d skip the Fire Pony Shop. A lot of their items are named that way.)
In Cities Lingerie – Etsy
Another femboy lingerie shop based in Ukraine (I’m starting to think Ukraine is the place to be for femme lingerie), InCitiesLingerie sells quite a few panties for a penis. This shop also sells “standard” lingerie, but they have quite a few lacey panties for men. All of their lingerie is shown on human bodies.
And ALL ITEMS ARE MADE TO ORDER! So you’ll provide your individual size needs and Olya will make what works for your body. (Seriously, I love made-to-order items.)
Forever 21
If you’re purchasing men’s lingerie for someone with a flatter chest and are on a budget, a whole lot of the bralettes from Forever 21 can work fantastically. Quite a few of our “experiment with different colors” bralettes have come from Forever21 clearance racks for less than $5 a pop. Crop-top camisoles from there tend to fit broader, flat-chested frames really nicely too.
We’ve had zero luck with their panties, though. In fact, Forever 21 panties seem to have even less fabric in the gusset than most regular for-vagina panties we’ve bought. I’d stick to the bralettes.
Buying Women’s Lingerie for Men in Stores
Are all of those options a no-go? Or maybe you’re unable to purchase anything through the mail? Whatever the case may be, here’s some of my wisdom as someone who has been putting men in women’s lingerie for going on ten years now:
When searching for bras, “bralettes” will make better bras for men. If it has sizing like XS, S, M, L, XL instead of the 36B sizing, it’s likely going to be underwire-free and without a padded cup. These bralette styles can be a lot more snug on a chest with smaller breasts than some of the padded options. If looking for a bra for men, I also suggest trying to look at the cup itself as best you can. How much extra material is on the cup? Is it mostly taut when you press your hand against it, or is there a lot of extra material? Excess material might look baggy on a male frame without some squishy bits to fill it in.
And when in doubt, look for an unpadded sports bra. Most of those are designed snug (for athletic needs!) and can fit a wide range of chests.
If you’re looking at store-bought panties, try to go with boyshorts. Boyshorts happen to have excess material along the crotch that can help provide more support to the extra bits you have going on. Spandex-y boyshorts can especially make good women’s panties for men.
Of course, wearing men’s lingerie for a “proper fit” isn’t necessary – just like any clothing in the world. If you feel sexy wearing it, wear the fuck out of it. If you’re looking to find women’s lingerie that has a higher chance of being snug against your frame, though, these are some of my men’s lingerie suggestions and lingerie for men tips.
(Author’s Note: While the word “male”/”men” was used throughout this article, this article was designed to be helpful for anyone with a penis or packer. The word “male/men” was used throughout the article as that’s what people will be searching to find this advice – and I genuinely want people to be able to find this advice if they want it. That being said, all advice within this article can be helpful for anyone, of any gender identification, who wants to wear panties and lingerie that is designed for extra flesh – like a penis – on the front-side of the torso or slimmer/flatter/broader breasts.)
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