Welcome to my Secret Kisses Luxe Gold Bracelet Cuffs review! This discreet bondage option are elegant cuffs with a special secret: they attach to one another for simple bondage. The set includes two wrist bracelets – both fully adjustable via lobster claw clasps. The set also then includes an unattached, matching gold chain that includes a lobster claw clasp on both sides of the chain. This chain allows you to “connect” the two bracelets together for instant, elegant bondage.
The Secret Kisses Luxe Gold Bracelet Cuffs are made from nickel-free metal.
The Secret Kisses Luxe Gold Bracelet Cuffs are part of the Secret Kisses line – which offers a variety of “discreet” kink items that go from “sexy accessory” to “bondage toy” within seconds. The line is very approachable for newbies to bondage – and aficionados who want discreet toys that can go out in public with ease.
How Do These Bondage Jewelry Cuffs Fasten?
Each one of the bondage jewelry bracelets is its own bracelet. They do not have to be used for fetish purposes, and if you remove the connecting chain, they look like regular bracelets without a second thought.
However, when you want to use them for their bondage purposes, there’s a double-sided, matching gold chain that includes clips on each end of the chain. Each clip fastens onto each cuff to fasten the two cuffs together at a moment’s notice. Since this chain that binds the two bracelets together is fully removable on both sides, it means the Secret Kisses Luxe Gold Bracelet Cuffs can quickly become “normal” cuffs without anything suspicious hanging off of them.
Since this chain is entirely detachable, though, it does require a bit of extra forethought to figure out how to store the chain. You certainly can store it in a pocket, bra, or purse until you’re ready to use it, but that does risk losing the chain – and making it less discreet when you want to go to fasten the two bracelets together.
I’ve had a bit of luck taking the double-ended chain and fastening both sides of that chain to the same bracelet. It leaves a dangling loop off of one of the bracelets (which can look a bit odd), but it means that your bondage bracelet is only one unclipping away from fastening the two cuffs together – whereas other storage methods for this chain require multiple clippings.
Alternatively, you can also fasten the fastening chain on a loop around your partner’s wrist. So you can wrap it around your partner’s wrist just like its its own bracelet – then attach it back to itself. It’s probably the most “discreet” way to store the chain on the wrists.
How Durable are the Secret Kisses Luxe Gold Bracelet Cuffs?
As you’d probably imagine for elegant bracelets designed for fashion, these cuffs are not durable in the slightest. If you’ve ever fastened a necklace onto someone’s neck, the connecting “bondage chain” is made of the same, lightweight, easy-to-break necklace chain.
It’s not so much an “if” this bondage set will break; it’s more of a “when”. I’ve had those necklace chains break on me if I’m just wearing them around the house – much less attempting to do bondage with them.
On the bright side, when one of the clasps breaks, depending on the clasp, it can be as simple as replacing a chain on the bracelet – or using a needlenose plier to close a chain loop that had started to open up. Fixing jewelry like this is surprisingly simple, depending on the type of break, and you can get the supplies to fix up these chain jewelry options at most hobby stores.
How Do I Use the Secret Kisses Luxe Gold Bracelet Cuffs?
With the website title of “Kinky World”, it’s no secret that I’m kinky. With that kink comes a need for gear that actually binds – and isn’t prone to breaking. That isn’t necessarily an accurate descriptor for the Secret Kisses Luxe Gold Bracelet Cuffs.
But that doesn’t mean that it doesn’t have a fit for us. We’ve primarily used these cuffs while out in public. While straight-up BDSM cuffs aren’t going to work while we’re out in public, these cuffs don’t get a second glance from strangers. This makes them pretty – and very hot for the two of us.
We’ve actually had a bit of fun fastening them at restaurant tables where we’re away from other people. As long as he keeps his wrists on the table, no one has any idea that the bracelets are fastened, and if someone is fast approaching, sliding his wrists together means that it hides the “fastening’ chain all-together – which makes them look like regular bracelets. I’ve found this to be a pretty hot form of public play. I get the public ownership feel that I really enjoy while keeping things discreet for public use.
We get a bit more forward with the bondage options when we’re playing at kink parties. In fact, we’ve gotten quite a few impressed glances from other kinksters when we show how this pretty jewelry turns into a bondage toy in seconds. While walking through hallways with his wrists bound in front of him, quite a few people have stopped to compliment us on the cuffs. Despite them not holding up to rough BDSM play, they definitely make a lovely visual that’s very different than the standard leather cuffs.
Secret Kisses Luxe Gold Bracelet Cuffs Review: Final Thoughts
Secret Kisses Luxe Gold Bracelet Cuffs Review
Summary
With everything in mind, I’d best recommend Secret Kisses Luxe Gold Bracelet Cuffs for people who are looking for faux bondage. If you’re someone who needs to “struggle” against your restraints, you’re likely to quickly break the Secret Kisses Luxe Gold Bracelet Cuffs – and that’s not going to be very fun for you. Instead, these jewelry bondage cuffs need to be treated with a light hand (and very, very light tugging if you want to “struggle”). There are sturdy, strong bondage cuffs out there, but they don’t look like elegant bracelets, and the blending-in aspect of these cuffs was the priority here.
The public-friendly design of these bondage cuffs also makes the bondage jewelry cuffs a good fit if you’re someone who loves the “secret thrill”. Much like wearing anything on your body that has a “secret“, sexual use, these bondage cuffs can be erotic just because they are designed to be used for bondage – even if you never actually use them as such. Just knowing that you’re wearing bondage can be the aphrodisiac.
With the cheaper price of these jewelry bondage cuffs, you might also consider making their durability a game. Once your partner is bound, set a punishment if they happen to break the cuffs. This will ensure that your partner treats the cuffs with the gentle touch that the cuff’s durability requires – and it will still give you a good, fun “scene” when the cuffs end up breaking.
As long as you’re open to babying the cuffs – and don’t expect them to last particularly long if you attempt to use them for actual bondage purposes – the Secret Kisses Luxe Gold Bracelet Cuffs add a bit of fun to the bedroom.
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