If you try to do an online search for “roleplay ideas”, you’re likely to end up with a treasure trove of amazing ideas that work flawlessly for in-person play. But what about online sex roleplay ideas?
Not all roleplay ideas will translate well to cam2cam. While pretending to hire an escort might work flawlessly in-person, it doesn’t really have the same “vibe” if you’re doing it while video conferencing. The webcam format just happens to feel very different, and realistic “chance” meetings are near-impossible on webcam!
However, there are a few online sex roleplay ideas that can lend themselves really well to the online format.
Online Sex Roleplay Idea #1 – The Job Interview
Online interviews have been a standard “staple” for the last decade or so. It has really revolutionized how applicants apply for jobs – especially if this job will require a relocation that makes it impossible to attend an in-person job interview.
To start, both of you should clear out a space in your home to do the “interview”. Removing personal possessions and cleaning up the area can make a major impact on how “realistic” this online sex roleplay will eventually feel. If you have the ability to turn on bright, office-like lights, take advantage of it. A simple switch from warm, comforting home light bulbs to the impersonal cold hue of office lights can make a big difference for just a few dollars.
Both attendees should show up to this online sex roleplay dressed their best. The job interviewer should be in their “work” attire while the interviewee should simply look great. If either of you have a particular kink for a specific profession, feel free to incorporate that. It could be a flight attendant, accountant, retail associate, or whatever you’d like.
The job interviewer should come with a few pre-written interview questions. I recommend starting this as formally as you realistically can to really set the scene for the rest of your erotic play.
You can have a lot of fun with this job interview online sex roleplay. Perhaps the interviewee has no interest in the job – but simply finds it hot to toy with someone in a position of power? Maybe the job interviewer is high up on the company food chain – and this was the best way for an undercover cop to get a face-to-face to squeeze information out of them? Maybe the entire job interview is going to be completely serious – but the whole while, one of the participants is wearing a hands-free vibrator and trying not to orgasm. It’s all about what you both find to be a turn on.
(Love the idea of a job interview…but want to make it kinky? You could be a dominant interviewing for a submissive – or a professional dominatrix interviewing for a submissive assistant. You could also be a porn director looking for your new star, too. Your interview would probably include watching your potential candidate show you their skills on the most realistic sex doll. It’s all about what you want to do!)
Especially if roleplaying with a stranger, be careful about how much personal information you divulge, but you can certainly create your own “fantasy employee persona” to interview with! You’ll also want to be careful about sexual assault tropes. Many people have, unfortunately, been pressured into giving sexual favors in order to get (or keep) a job, and this may be an instant turn-off to some people. Make sure to clear that storyline in advance if that’s how you want things to go.
Online Sex Roleplay #2 – The Online Doctor Consultation
Turns out, telemedicine is an up-and-coming field, and meeting your doctor online is becoming more common by the day. (Whether that’s a good thing or bad thing can be argued, but the fact that it’s real can make for one of the best online sexual roleplay ideas!)
One of you will be the doctor/nurse while the other one is the patient.
You can make this as life-like or as streamlined as you want. Some ways to add to the realism of the experience:
- Have a pre-appointment “check-in”. The doctor/nurse can change into a secretary outfit and go through all of the standards (why are you here? What’s bothering you?), or you can use a pre-appointment check-in form that the patient is expected to fill out before the appointment. Use this as a pre-scene negotiation tool; it’s really helpful!
- Make the patient wait, by themselves, on webcam. Depending on your kinks (like if the doctor “walks in” to a masturbating patient!), this can lend itself well to your scene, too.
- Require the patient to have some medical equipment to perform some clinical tests on themselves. Blood pressure, heart rate, temperature, reflexes, prostate “checking”, and heart sounds can all be done by a standard person without too much expensive equipment. This can be a great fit if someone involved has a medical fetish.
- “Prescribed medications” for the scene can be sugar pills or candies (brown-only M&Ms can sorta look like meds). If the patient has to take “powder” medicine, FunDip powder can work.
Some kinks that lend themselves well to an online medical consultation:
- Premature ejaculation
- Sexual addiction/nymphomania (a good lead in to chastity play)
- Constipation (lead in to enema play)
- Incontinence (can lead into omorashi or diaper play)
- Trouble urinating or frequent, small urinations (great fit in for an “enlarged prostate” that needs to be milked)
- Inability to focus (great lead in for orgasm torture to release all the “pent up” energy. You can go Victorian with this one with a “Hysteria” diagnosis with a Magic Wand as your medical tool)
- Difficulty achieving intercourse as a penis-owner (pretty much all the small penis humiliation you could have in mind)
- Want to get sterilized to prevent future children (this can be a great way to push your buttons with a vasectomy kink)
- Inability to stop eating, smoking, or an oral fixation (great fit-in for feederism, mouth gags, or smoking kinks)
If none of those medical conditions press your buttons, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with making up pretend or fake medical conditions. As long as you and the “doctor” all agree that it’s a “real” medical condition, it can be a lot of fun to make up symptoms and “treatments” for unexpected conditions.
Online Sex Roleplay Idea #3 – The “Streamer” and their Superfan
Have you ever watched a live video game or sex cam stream? They’re exclusively online – so they’re a natural choice.
This online sex roleplay can be a great fit if you find the idea of parasocial relationships hot or have fantasies that surround gaming streams or sex chat streams that include behavior that would be nonconsensual in the real world.
One person pretends to be a streamer while the superfan watches and interacts. I recommend starting this online sex roleplay with as much realism as possible with a semi-uninterested interaction until the superfan offers to “pay” to go private.
Once private, your conversation can progress as you had in mind. Does the streamer offer to play a multiplayer video game with the superfan with a bet on what happens to the loser? Does the superfan offer to pay for an unexpected fetish? Does the Streamer find the superfan’s shyness adorable and try to seduce them? Does the superfan respond inappropriately (but with the Streamer’s pre-scene negotiated consent!), but the Streamer surprises them by liking it?
If you’re exploring a roleplay involving a sex cam streamer, you can really help bring this online sex roleplay idea to life with the use of online-controlled sex toys. The “fan” can “tip” and simultaneously add powerful vibrations to the sex toy based on how much they’re “tipping”. A love doll can also be a great fit that mimics the usual sex toybox of a camming professional.
Other helpful accessories could include actual streaming accessories (headphones, video game set-up, etc.). The streamer might also choose to type sometimes – and verbally respond sometimes – just like a real streamer would do while multitasking with hundreds of simultaneous conversations.
You can choose to explore the “Streamer” Fan scenario with actual money for realism, but be very careful about exchanging financial details with a complete stranger. It may not be worth it.
For added inspiration and realism, feel free to check out video game streaming platforms to see what’s trending right now and how the communities behave. This can give you a good base for realistic interactions in your online sex roleplay.
Online Sex Roleplay Idea #4 – The Real Estate Consultant
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If your brain is sparkling at the idea of a sales consultant trying to impress their client, a real estate agent and their prospective buyer might be a great fit for you. Ever since the pandemic hit, virtual “tours” of potential homes have become commonplace – especially if someone is moving cross-country on a limited timeframe.
One person pretends to be a real estate agent showing up to their scheduled appointment to “show” the home to the prospective buyer. Once connected, the professionally-dressed agent will walk the buyer through the home, showcasing all of its beauty and appeal. You both might find that the two of you have a natural chemistry that leads to more – very quickly.
If added desperation really appeals to you, the real estate agent could need to sell this home today to keep their license.
This real estate online sex roleplay also leaves a lot of room for kink play. If you’re turned on by the idea of watching someone make cookies while naked, this one could deliver. If you love an alternative universe where everyone is naked (or the freeuse kink!), attending a home showing with a naked real estate agent could be a blast. It even could end up being a great fit for those with a diaper or omorashi kick as the real estate agent tries not to expose themselves.
Be careful acting out this real estate roleplay with a stranger online, though. Your home can have a lot of personal details in it that you may not give a second thought to. A family photo, quick glance at an outdoor street sign, or pile of bills to be paid can give away a lot more personal information than you should. If you want to take this real estate idea online for stranger play, consider “public-proofing” a room or two of your home. I’d recommend a bathroom and two other rooms to still get the “tour” feel. If you have the fund, keeping this roleplay to hotel rooms (and shutting the curtains) can also be a good fit.
Online Sex Roleplay Ideas Final Tip: Finding Partners
It’s all well and good if you have a few naughty friends that are up for it, but most of us don’t automatically have someone available for acting out these online sex roleplay ideas. Your best bet is probably to look online at sex dating sites or sites that specialize in online sex chat.
Even after that, though, online sex roleplay is a different beast than simply talking dirty online. It requires a lot more effort and creativity. Let’s be real: it’s also a lot more time-intensive, and it may require scheduling a time for you and your partner to play.
This can weed out a lot of your candidates. Many people are using online sex chat sites for instant gratification – preferably within the hour and with very little effort. There’s nothing wrong with that (everyone should orgasm how they prefer to orgasm!), but it won’t fit into what you’re looking to do.
With that in mind, expect your search for someone for your online sex roleplay ideas to take a little bit. Even with chat rooms full of people looking for online fun, their ideas may not match up with your own, and your roleplay is only as fun as the effort both people are willing to put into it. If you’re able to post a Personals ad somewhere and be explicit about what you’re looking for, that may help narrow down your candidates.
Ensure that you’re specific about what you’re looking for as well. That might require some thinking on your end. Are you really set on a specific roleplay? Do you need to see their face during it? Do they need to have a specific costume? How long are you expecting this online roleplay to last, and does it include orgasms at the end?
And in the end, if you find someone who’s down (and fun!) for your online sex roleplay ideas, make sure to exchange contact information! You might find that you both want to regularly try out new online sex roleplay ideas with one another.
Anyway, you get the idea! Just look around for inspiration. Think about some situations you’ve been in the past, and remember that there’s no limit to the fun things you can do!
Updated: September 2023, May 2023, April 2023, February 2023, January 2023.
Originally Published: June 8, 2017.
