Keeping your Sex Live Private in an Apartment

September 24th, 13   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comment

Apartment living can be awesome. After all, you don’t usually have to pay for repairs, and you get the flexibility to move a whole lot easier than if you owned a home. Plus, apartments usually mean you don’t have to keep up the yard, and you can mostly just deal with your own little space.

At the same time, apartments have their downsides. It pretty much means sharing close living quarters with other people. In many cases, you may share two or more walls with neighbors, and when you’re sharing walls, that also means that you might be sharing some of your noise. Depending on how your apartment building is built, it may be harder or easier for your neighbors to hear, but you should definitely be prepared with some ideas to keep your noise to yourself. Plus, apartment living means that people may be in your living space regularly (whether to tour the place or just to fix something).

First thing’s first. Get a general idea of how much you can hear from your neighbors. If you can easily hear loud conversations, you should be prepared to put more effort into keeping things quiet. If you never hear a peep from them, though (and are even unsure if the apartment is occupied), then taking steps to reduce your noise may not be such a high priority.

Your first line of defense can be trying to mask the sounds of sex. This means playing the television or playing music. I recommend music over the television to help limit the distractions. Plus, you can make a “Sexy Time” playlist that might even up getting you both in the mood when you randomly hear songs off of it – and that’s a definite benefit!

The next choice is to try and move your activities to another room. If your bedroom happens to be right next to a shared wall, try having sex in the kitchen. When you’re not right next to the offending wall, it’s going to be much easier to keep your neighbors from listening in. Plus, if you bring a new sex partner home (like an Australian babe), you’ll automatically score points for being creative with sex.

If those methods don’t appeal to you, you might consider trying to keep quiet during sex. Turn it into a game – you’ll be surprised how sexy it can be to try and avoid making noise when the two of you are usually pretty vocal. This can be especially fun if you have thinner walls and can hear someone in the next room. It tends to bring out the exhibitionist in most of us.

There’s always the option to just let go and not worry about it as well. At the same time, make sure to be respectful. You have no idea if your next door neighbor works 60 hours a week, and he only gets to sleep a couple hours, so try to keep your loud sex to normal “noise” hours.

As for what to do when people are touring your apartment, it’s not too hard to hide some of the sexual things. Get some form of sex toy storage, and use it to hide the condoms, lubricants, and all of the sex toys. Have lingerie? That can be stored in a drawer. If you know you’re going to have company, just make sure to do a quick run-through of the bedroom and see if there’s anything sexual just hanging around.

See? It’s not TOO hard! You can definitely let yourselves go and forget about if anyone can hear, but if you want to be respectful neighbors, try to keep the noise to a (mostly) minimum if at all possible. It’s awesome to have great sex, but just in case your neighbor is recently-single, you don’t want to make them sad.




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