“So You Wanna Be a Sexy Bitch” is a small, easy-to-read guide to being more sexually attractive to others, and it is published by Amorata Press. The tagline for this book is “Raise your game from overlooked nice girl to skilled chick everyone wants to get with”. The author is Flic Everett, and the book is 120 pages long and takes about an hour and a half to read. The book is split into eight different chapters, and it’s a pretty small book at about five inches tall and four inches wide, so it’s very easy to hide if need be.
This book doesn’t really focus on flirting techniques. Honestly, when I opened this book, I was expecting a good that covered how to dress, how to present yourself, and how to flirt with others. What I got, in fact, was mostly a book about how to have sex. I feel like, while the information is good, the title is very misleading, and I feel like it’s going to give a lot of people to give it lower ratings since they were expecting something completely different. The information in it is good information, but it just isn’t what I was expecting when I picked up the book.
One of the first things I’ll mention is that I like how the book starts off by saying that anyone can be a sexy bitch regardless of your attractiveness, weight, height, or anything else. It stresses how confidence is the most important thing, and that your body doesn’t matter when it comes to being attractive. However, there’s a section in their orgies/swinging chapter that really rubbed me the wrong way, and I feel like it completely destroyed the original message they were trying to make. It says: “Most swingers aren’t that lovely, so if you are going t try it, you may want to investigate the possibility of joining a very exclusive, members-only club that only permits beautiful people to swing”. That just destroyed their entire message throughout the book, and there’s a nicer way to say that that they chose not to. It actually made me stop and go “wow” while reading it.
The book covers a wide variety of information. It has an introduction about how confidence makes you sexy, how to be flirtacious, seduction and foreplay, how to have good sex and increase your orgasms, how to undress and get into bed sexily, being single and masturbation and bicuriousity, sexual fantasies and kinks such as multiple-person sex and BDSM, and background information such as how to communicate, what if something goes wrong, and STI information.
All of the information is pretty basic since the book is so short. It’s not going to dive into a lot of in-depth information, and this book is probably best for those who have never read a sex-help book before. If you have, most of this book is probably repeat information to you. However, if you’ve never delved into attempting to add more confidence and variety into your sex life, this book could really help. The sexual chapters are all pretty basic, and the chapters basically focus on trying to help you be more confident and have better technique to impress your lovers and raise your confidence.
My favorite chapter is the “Sexual troubles” chapter. It talks about common problems with sex and how to handle them including if he can’t get it up. It also talks about STIs and how to best avoid them, and it talks about how important communication is – even if it’s a one-night stand. The entire chapter is something a lot of sexual education books don’t do, so it was nice to see them in this book.
The book also includes a neat little list feature which shows itself every chapter or so. The lists include things like “Top Five Ways to Orgasm” or “How to Strip in Ten Steps”. These little lists are short, but they’re neat little lists that are actually helpful if you want to do what the list is trying to teach.
My final analysis? It’s not amazing as a sex book, but it’s not horrible either. There are better sex books out there, but if this one’s title makes you more comfortable reading a sex book, then it’s definitely worth a read compared to other blatant sexuality books. It has okay content, and while it’s not perfect, it’s not horrible either. Thanks to Amorata Press for sending me this book for my “So You Wanna Be a Sexy Bitch?” review.
