Naughty Games for Naughty People Book Review

December 12th, 14   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »
Naughty Games for Naughty People

The front cover of the book

Naughty Games for Naughty People is a book full of games that are meant to be played in a group setting that have a sexual feel to them. It’s a paperback book that has 112 pages to it, and it is published by Kheper Publishing in 1999. This means that some of these games are certainly outdated a little bit, but the idea is still the same behind them. Because this is from about ten years ago, some of these games that they considered “extreme” may seem relatively normal now in our share-all culture. The front of the book shows three cartoon players in general states of undress playing a game where they are rolling a dice. You could possibly read this away from home, but since this book doesn’t have much value as a straight read-through book, I’d recommend just keeping it at your own home.

Naughty Games for Naughty People

Back cover of the book

The book, sold at this adult toy store, includes eight different “types” of games: Gossip, Criminal Activity, Vulgarity, Dirty Talk, Couples Only, Physical Contact, Risque Drinking, and Traditional Drinking. Each category has a variety of an amount of games – the average amount of games for each category is just four with the most being seven and the least being two. The games are all listed on the table of contents, so if something sounds interesting, you could highlight it on the table of contents and come back to it later to play.

Naughty Games for Naughty People

Inside example of the book

The book includes a symbol table that makes some of the symbols of the book easier to understand. There’s symbols to show that a game is good as an icebreaker, one to show that a prize should be offered to the winner, the game should be played outside, if the rules of the game shouldn’t be shared, and if the game requires stripping. The icons make it easy for the reader to know what to expect from the game at a glance instead of getting into the game before realizing that it doesn’t suit their needs.

Something about this book is that most of these games are most well-suited for groups of four or more people. They can be done in smaller groups, but it just seems to work better if there are more people to play. Unlike a small, intimate gathering, these are probably more easily done at a larger gathering where there will be a lot of people to play who don’t know each other quite so well. However, the icons will show you if it’s better set for strangers or for intimate friends, so it really depends on the type of game. I do recommend flipping through the book before inviting friends over though – just so you have a good idea of what games would be best to play with that particular group of people.

Naughty Games for Naughty People

Inside example of the book again

Just to give you an example about what the categories are like, the gossip category includes games that just deal with gossip. In the first game, you name a piece of gossip you know about someone, then the players try to guess who the gossip is actually about. In the second game, you have a checklist, and basically go “Scavenger hunting” with people who have had sex with people with the descriptors on the list such as “7+ years than you”. In the third, and final game, a large group of people attend a party where the host will spread three false rumors about the attendees. At the end of the night, everyone lists all of the rumors that they’ve heard and try to guess which three are fake.

For the most part, the “Naughty Games for Naughty People” book does include some neat party games that I haven’t thought up before. Some of the games are a little old or silly and might require some fine-tuning to make them fun, but the book does provide the inspiration that’s needed to actually come up with the updated version. There are thirty different games in this book split into eight different categories, and honestly, I think you’ll enjoy playing most of the games. It’s a great way to come up with new ways to amuse guests, and I’d recommend it if you have friends or parties often. This store of Adult Sex Toys sells this party games book, so check out Naughty Games for Naughty People today. While you are there, check out the rest of their adult books.

Bondage Tips for your Sexy Suction Cuffs

December 05th, 14   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »

Perhaps you’ve dabbled in bondage, but you want to try something else. Maybe you love playing in the shower, but you’re ready to add something special to the mix. It’s possible that you will be find yourself in a private pool or Jacuzzi soon, and you want to make sure the experience is memorable as possible. No matter what your situation includes, if bondage is a-okay with both you and your partner, sexy suction cup bondage cuffs could be on the menu.

Unlike standard bondage cuffs, most suction cup bondage cuffs were designed for use in aquatic environments. Many leather bondage cuffs will become damaged (and feel quite “unsexy”, truth be told!) if left in the water for a long time. However, most suction cup cuffs are made from neoprene material and fasten with Velcro which allows them to be perfect for underwater adventures! Since the “bondage point” is built right in (the suction cups!), you just need a flat surface, and you’ll be ready to start playing with bondage right away.

Ready to make the most of your sexy suction restraints? Here are some tips and suggestions to help you enjoy them to their fullest potential!

Pick Your Surface: This is a bit of trial and error as each “suction cup” has its own unique sticking rules, but figure out what type of surface your suction cup cuffs enjoy sticking to. As a rule of thumb, most of these suction cup bondage cuffs stick best to a flat, glossy surface. If there’s any texture, it may not stick as well. It works best if there aren’t any breaks or uneven surfaces underneath the suction cup as well. Make sure to push your suction cup firmly against the surface to allow it to adhere to the surface. For removal, most suction cups come with a small “tab” that you can pull up, and it will help break the seal between the suction cup and the surface. Alternatively, you can do anything that will break the seal between the two, so you could try sliding a butter knife between the cuffs and the wall as well.

Try Non-Aquatic Environments: Anywhere with a flat surface will allow you to use your fun suction cup cuffs. Why stick to just the bathroom and other water environments? Most kitchens are equipped with flat tiles or kitchen counters. Try having sex while the wrists are restrained on the kitchen counter. Of course, safety first, so make sure the restrained partner is completely stable as they won’t be able to catch themselves if they’re falling.

Think About the Ankles: Most suction cup bondage cuffs use flexible Velcro to fasten them. That means that their sizing is adjustable. With that in mind, why are you only using them on the wrists? Don’t have a good reason, huh? While you might need to get creative to come up with great ways to use the cuffs on the ankles, it’s going to be a blast.

Play With Other Suction Cup Toys: Suction cup bondage cuffs aren’t the only suction cup sex toys available. If the idea of making more of your toys waterproof for play with your cuffs sounds appealing, consider looking into suction cup dildos, suction cup thigh cuffs, or suction cup collars. They all will allow even more fun alongside your suction cup bondage restraints.

Remember Safety: Of course, all of these suggestions should be taken with the utmost care. Remember that, when someone is bound, they may not be able to catch themselves if they fall. In a wet surface like a shower, it’s very, very important that you ensure you and your partner have a good standing arrangement to ensure everyone’s safety. Before playing, please also agree upon a “safe word” that, if spoken, will end all sexual activity because something is wrong. This will allow you both to relax and not worry about accidental miscommunication.

Are you ready to try out new things with your sexy suction cup bondage cuffs? I hope so! Whether you want to explore with your long-term partner or have one of the Babes of London waiting for you, bondage can be a new way to enhance the intimacy between the two of you. Keep your eyes open towards new adventures and keep an open mind as you both explore some of the fun things that bondage cuffs have to offer!

Embrace Body Massager Vibrator Review

November 20th, 14   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   2 Comments »
Embrace Body Massager Vibrator

Embrace Body Massager Vibrator

One of the latest releases from California Exotics, the Embrace Body Massager is a powerful wand massager for pleasurable vibrations. Made from silicone with ABS plastic, the massager is entirely waterproof and is dual-ended for vibrations exactly how you want them. It’s a rechargeable massager that charges via USB (with the charging cable included), and the head size is 2.25″ in size with an overall length of 8.75″.

The Embrace Body Wand Massager comes in a nice package. As it’s a nice, sturdy rectangular box, you could easily end up wrapping this in gift wrap to give as a present. The vibrator comes in a sturdy black box with a lift-top lid. The exterior of the box is wrapped in a cardboard sleeve that explains what the vibrator is, but once the sleeve is removed, the box is entirely discreet with no mention of the vibrator (for great storage!) The interior is lined with a foam that’s designed to hold the vibrator in place, and it even includes a small cut-out for the USB charging cable. It also includes a small piece of paper about instructions. The box really was designed for storage, though, so if you like discreet boxes to keep your toys safe, you’ll love this one.

Embrace Body Massager Vibrator

Embrace Body Massager Vibrator in the original box

If you don’t want to hassle with batteries, this massager is for you. However, in the history of every rechargeable vibrator I’ve ever owned, I’ve never had such a problem getting the vibrator to charge. The charging port was designed to be difficult to penetrate to allow the vibrator to be waterproof. However, it is nearly IMPOSSIBLE to penetrate the first time. As in, I couldn’t push it in. I tried placing it on the corner of a table and pushing the vibrator onto it with my full weight to no avail. We ended up having to do a delicate process of NAILING the thing into the vibrator. It was absolutely ridiculous. It seems to have “loosened” the seal, though, and subsequent charging attempts have been much better. They still aren’t easy, but it does actually go in like it’s supposed to, so it’s a definite improvement.

In a unique design, the Embrace Body Wand Massager is actually dual-ended. It comes equipped with two motors. One motors is situated in the “handle” while the other is situated in the wand massager head itself. You wouldn’t think that looking at the vibrator since the handle honestly just looks like a handle, but it actually doubles as an insertable vibrator. These two motors are individually-controlled via the buttons on the front of the vibrator.

Embrace Body Massager Vibrator

Packaging for the Embrace Body Massager Vibrator

When it comes to controlling your vibrator, the Embrace Body Wand Massager seems really confusing at first, and I mean REALLY confusing, but once you figure out how it was designed to be controlled, it makes quite a bit of sense. It has two buttons. Each button controls the motor that it’s situated closer to. Press the button to turn on the vibrations. Press the button over and over to increase the intensity of the vibrations. Hold down the button to turn off the vibrations. Understand that you can control both motors separately, so you’ll need to turn on and turn off the motors separately.

This wand massager comes equipped with 7 functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation. The head of the massage wand portion is actually flexible, so it will bend when pressure is applied. The insertable/handle portion doesn’t have any flexibility at all, and with its smooth design, it actually works pretty well for insertion. Be aware that the handle gets slippery after inserted, so if you like to have a good grip on your massage to use the massage head side of it, you might want to keep some paper towels around to wipe off your toy.

Embrace Body Massager Vibrator

Control buttons on the Embrace Body Massager Vibrator

The Embrace Wand Massager provides an okay sensation for some. However, be aware that it doesn’t have the strength of a usual wand massager. The wand massager head has more “rumbly”, “deep” vibrations while the handle end has lighter vibrations. The wand massager side’s vibrations are slightly more powerful than many standard vibrators. If you require extremely strong vibrations to orgasm, this may not be a good choice of vibrators for you.

As another note, the button placement may be problematic for some. With the design of the buttons, they pretty much fall exactly where I’m used to “holding” a vibrator. This means I’ve accidentally pressed a button. SInce the vibe was on the highest setting, it instantly pushed the vibrator into the patterns of vibrations which isn’t a steady vibration setting any more. The only way to reset that is to hold down the button, turn off the vibrator, and then start back from the beginning to get back to your preferred setting. You may have to find a new way to hold your vibrator if you find yourself doing it on accident as getting back into the setting is relatively frustrating.

Embrace Body Massager Vibrator

Another of the buttons on the Embrace Body Massager Vibrator

Cleaning up this vibrator is actually really easy. Since it’s waterproof, you don’t have to be too careful while handling it. That, partnered with the fact that it doesn’t have too many “nooks” in it, will allow you to clean it pretty easily. Use warm water and anti-bacterial soap for regular cleanings, but if you want to sterilize it, I’d recommend using a water and bleach solution to get everything clean. When it comes to lubricant, water-based lubricant is really the most recommended. Some silicone-based lubricants may harm the surface of your vibrator.

Overall, it’s not a bad vibrator, and I’m not sure if I have a bad toy or if they’re all like this, but charging the vibrator needs to be much, much easier before I’d easily recommend this to others. It’s great that the vibrator is waterproof, but I’m not sure most people will be able to get it to charge after they run out the initial charge. It’s innovative, and I love the idea of being able to have a double-ended wand massager like this, but it looks like this sex toy might have some issues to iron out. Thanks to California Exotics for providing this wand massager for my Embrace Body Wand review.

FunFactory B Balls Anal Kegel Balls Review!

November 08th, 14   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »
FunFactory B Balls Anal Kegel Balls

FunFactory B Balls Anal Kegel Balls

Have you ever been jealous over the idea of kegel balls – and want to use them anally? Lots of people have done reckless things like using regular vaginal kegel balls anally, but if you know much about anal safety, you’ll know that causes a lot of concern because the lack of a flared base. While some people do it, I’m sure it has caused quite a few hospital visits as well! The B Balls are designed to be the answer to this problem. Looking pretty similar to Fun Factory’s line of kegel balls, the B Balls come equipped with an anal-safe flared base that makes them much, much safer for anal use.

The Fun Factory B Balls are made from non-porous silicone for simple cleaning. It’s made from a flexible silicone that will bend pretty nicely with your body. The smaller ball has a diameter of 1.3″ while the larger ball has a diameter of 1.4″. The two balls are connected via the silicone, so they cannot be disconnected from one another. Each one of the balls is made from ABS Plastic, so you’ll get a filling sensation from the balls while the silicone keeps the balls together and allows for flexibility for the most comfort.

FunFactory B Balls Anal Kegel Balls

FunFactory B Balls Anal Kegel Balls with its bendable silicone design

I wish the base of the B Balls was slightly larger in size. It is slightly larger in diameter than the largest ball with a large retention neck, so there haven’t been any issues, but having a slightly longer base just would have made me feel better. The base of the B Balls is made out of a much less flexible silicone, so it doesn’t “bend” like the rest of the toy does. This allows it to do its job in keeping the B Balls outside of the body. The base is also slim and slightly resembles the FunFactory Bootie anal toy base. People fell in love with the Bootie base because it was very comfortable, and the B Balls anal toy base is exactly the same way. As long as you keep the B Balls lubricated, the toy just feels really pleasurable without any of the “bad” aspects of anal toys which can occasionally include uncomfortable bases, internal jabbing, or sliding out.

On that note, the B Balls don’t really slide out, either. The retention neck appears to be long enough to keep the B Balls inside very comfortably. Unless you’re really trying to push them out, there haven’t been any problems with the BBalls coming out on their own. Coupled with the comfortable anal base and the flexible silicone body, it means that the BBalls could easily be worn for hours at a time without any problem. In fact, we’ve had no issue with wearing them throughout an entire workday with a couple reapplications of lubricant, so the BBalls were definitely designed to be as comfortable as possible.

FunFactory B Balls Anal Kegel Balls

FunFactory B Balls Anal Kegel Balls packaging

When it comes to size, these anal kegel balls may not be the best fit for someone who hasn’t played with anal sensations before. They aren’t huge, but they are over an inch in diameter (almost 1.5″ in diameter), and both balls must be inserted for play. For that reason, I’d really recommend that you at least have some anal experience before playing with this. You definitely don’t need a lot, but if you’ve tried anal sensations and toys around an inch before, the B Balls will probably be an okay choice for you.

When the B Balls are inserted, they can’t be heard. That’s for the best since it definitely could be embarrassing if the rattling of the balls could be heard. Even with the most intense of movements (jumping, running), all that can be heard is the rustling of clothing – no rattle movements.

As for how it feels, it’s not always possible to feel the “rattling” movement of the interior balls – however, it’s definitely noticable quite a bit of the time. More physical movements tends to lend itself to a more noticeable sensations. Anytime you’re still, the inner movement will be still as well. Things like walking and running seem to have the most noticeable movement. Wiggling your hips while sitting also adds some sensation to the interior balls.

FunFactory B Balls Anal Kegel Balls

FunFactory B Balls Anal Kegel Balls to show the dimensions and base size

Since FunFactory made these B Balls from silicone and ABS plastic, they’re designed to be extremely simple to clean. Since the interior plastic balls aren’t removable from the silicone shell, you won’t have to worry about cleaning in odd crevices. It can be simply cleaned with warm water or anti-bacterial soap. For sterilization, you can clean it in a water/bleach solution or boil it. Since it’s made from silicone, it’s only compatible with high-quality silicone lubricants or water-based lubes.

Overall, the B Balls are a safe and fun way to add more sensation to a standard butt plug. They are really simple to use, are sized well-enough to work for most anal enjoyers, and have a safe base that’s really comfortable. With its design, the interior balls move around enough to be felt without heard while adding just an extra spark to your usual anal sensations. They are made from body-safe materials and are a breeze to clean. There’s no reason I wouldn’t recommend this to anyone who’s interested, so if you enjoy anal pleasure, the B Balls could be perfect for you. Thanks to FunFactory for providing these anal kegel balls for my B Balls review.