Frisky Fox Tail Butt Plug Review

January 29th, 16   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »
Frisky Fox Tail Butt Plug

Frisky Fox Tail Butt Plug Review

A plug attached to a long, fluffy tail, the Fox Tail Butt Plug is an anal toy sold by UberKinky. The plug is made from TPR material with a size that’s suitable for beginners with a tapered tip. The tail is a long, soft tail made from faux fur. The tail is 14″ in length while the plug has a length of 4.5″ with a round base that helps protect the tail from any bodily fluids that happen during play. The entire tail and plug combo is entirely scent-free.

The packaging for this Fox Tail Butt Plug isn’t too comprehensive – but it gets the product safely to you. The outer box has a rope cord that will allow this packaging to hang up in store displays. Inside the box, you’ll find the plug – and tail – in a plastic, resealable bag. The plug itself is again wrapped in plastic wrap once you open the plastic bag. The packaging isn’t particularly informative, but it will make sure you get your plug safely. It really isn’t a good way to store the tail long-term, however, as it’s pretty easy to crush a cardboard box.

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Packaging for the Frisky Fox Tail Butt Plug

The plug itself is a decent quality. It’s not made of super, high-quality materials, but it definitely works just fine as a plug. It has a slightly tapered design that makes it easier to insert – even for people who are still somewhat new to anal play. The size is slender enough as well. While most people with anal experience are going to find it a bit small, people without much anal experience are going to find this a decent size. The small, tapered tip allows beginners to start off easily and move towards more width as they become more comfortable. At the widest point, it’s still slightly smaller in width than an average human penis, but it’s getting close.

The plug does have some flexibility to it, but it’s not a lot. However, the slight flexibility makes it a bit more comfortable during insertion. It’s not long enough to poke uncomfortably at interior parts, so it sits pretty nicely inside the body without any fuss. The wider base helps protect the soft, fluffy tail from bodily fluids and lubricant while using it, but it won’t protect it entirely. Expect to get some lube or fluids on the tip of the tail from time to time – even if you try really hard to protect it.

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Showing how fluffy the tail is

This is a decent-quality fur. It’s a faux fur, so it doesn’t feel real (which I’m fine with), but it’s still soft at the same time. It’s quite fluffy. This isn’t a sad, droopy faux fur tail. Instead, it’s quite fluffy and has a lot of texture and substance to it. It’s hard to wrap my entire hand around how much fur the tail has without crushing or squishing the fur; that’s how fluffy the tail is. It feels quite soft, and I’d say that this is probably one of the highest-quality plug furs that I’ve felt before at this price. It’s even about as soft as some of my faux fur scarves.

With the design of the tail, this plug wasn’t really designed to be worn underneath clothing. The tail isn’t detachable, so if you tried to wear it under clothing, you’d have (literally) a giant, poofy tail hiding under your clothes. This tail was really designed for at-home wear or wear at kink events. It’s designed for places where you can wear the tail with a bare ass. Once the plug is in the butt, though, it definitely looks like a little tail. You can’t see the plug between the cheeks, so all you can see is the tail hanging off the body. It really looks like a realistic human-like tail.

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The plug design for the Frisky Fox Tail Butt Plug

The plug design could have used a bit more extreme size difference between the plug itself and the retention area. The plug does have a bit of a habit of trying to slide out. We haven’t had the entire plug push out all of the way yet, but it occasionally feels like it needs a bit of a push to help it stay in – until it occasionally starts to slide out again. As long as you aren’t doing a ton of moving around and standing up, it seems to have a longer “stay in” timespan.

Cleaning this plug isn’t difficult, but it does require a little bit of caution. While the tail should be cleaned as well, you don’t want to clean the tail with harsh chemicals or cleansers to damage the tail. You also want to make sure that you give the tail a thorough amount of time to fully dry out after use. Thorough cleaning will keep this plug safer to use. As the plug is made from TPR, it’s compatible with all types of lubricant. For storage, try not to store the tail crinkled up or squished. Laying it flat or just curling the plug and tail into a loose “ball” will be the best storage options.

Overall, the Fox Tail Butt Plug is a fantastic addition to your toybox if you’ve been wanting tail butt plugs without a really expensive pricetag. The plug stays in decently, the tail is a pretty high-quality and fluffy tail, and the two seem to be nice and firmly attached to one another to ensure long-term durability. Thanks to UberKinky for providing this dog tail butt plug for my Frisky Fox Tail Butt Plug review.

Pleasure Works Maven Dildo Review

January 14th, 16   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »
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Pleasure Works Maven Dildo

Made from 100% silicone, the Pleasure Works Maven dildo is a body-safe toy sold by Good Vibrations. Compatible with strap-on harnesses and safe as an anal toy, this toy is 7.75″ in length with a width of slightly over an inch and a half. Made in the US, it has a semi-realistic design with a circumstized head. It also features a slight curve, but as the dildo is pretty flexible, this doesn’t provide targeted pressure for those who are looking for it.

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Showing how flexible the Pleasure Works Maven Dildo is

The Pleasure Works Maven is packaged in some pretty standard packaging. Don’t expect a lot of it, but it will deliver your new sex toy to you safely, and that’s about all you really need it to do. The box is a light cardboard box that is about the exact size of the dildo, so it can work for long-term storage. However, the box is pretty flimsy, so it may get crushed during storage. The box is rectangular to make it easy to wrap as a gift, and it includes a lot of good information on the box including material information.

If you’re looking for a semi-realistic dildo, the Pleasure Works Maven will suit your needs. It’s not quite as realistic as some other toys, and the material doesn’t feel nearly as “real feel skin” as others, but it still has that realistic-like design to it with a veined shaft and a circumsized head. It even has a urethra hole! It isn’t realistic enough to pass off as a “real” penis, though. It still has a slightly cartoon-ish design.

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Showing the head texturing

The Pleasure Works Maven is made with a nice silicone – but it isn’t nearly as “smooth” as some of the silicones I’ve felt. It definitely has a “tacky” feeling to it. It’s not gross-tacky like PVC toys (where it leaves a film on your hands), but your hands don’t glide down the shaft. They get stuck every couple inches or so. I particularly hate using this dildo without a condom as this material seems to eat lubricant. I’d really recommend a condom and lubricant for this one – plus, it makes clean-up easier anyway!

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Shaft versus head texturing

The texturing is definitely different on the Maven dildo. It’s actually surprising. There’s a slight bit of skin wrinkling and texture near the head, but the entire shaft is very smooth. There are a couple noticeable veins along the shaft, but it isn’t anything like the detailed texturing around the head of the penis. It actually looks like the texture was taken from a real penis – with the look of skin and everything. The shaft, however, looks unrealistically smooth. It’s an odd choice of design, but it doesn’t hurt anything, and it adds a bit of uniqueness to the dildo, so I’m not complaining.

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Base of the Pleasure Works Maven Dildo

Equipped with a base, this sex toy is compatible with strap-on harnesses – and it actually makes a pretty good strap-on toy too. The base is wide and stable, so it fits in a harness well and stays standing about how you’d like. The base isn’t too “pokey”, so the dildo will grind up against your body if you’d like added pleasure while wearing it.

Not only that, but this dildo can work surprisingly well for strap-on sex because of the length. This silicone sex toy has a standard width – but an above-average length. I personally love longer dildos for strap-on. It makes it easier to get things in as well as offers more length for the person receiving. I don’t like having to be afraid about pulling “too far out” and having things slip out. The longer length on this dildo really lends itself well to alleviating that concern. As a plus-sized girl, it’s especially helpful. For partners that can’t take wider widths (which usually correspond with longer toys), have a longer toy with an average width is awesome.

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Packaging for the Pleasure Works Maven Dildo

The base is entirely flat. It doesn’t have a concave design, and this toy doesn’t function well as a suction cup toy that will hold itself to flat surfaces. The base, however, is very sturdy, and it holds the toy upright with absolutely no problems. It doesn’t tip.

Cleaning this silicone strap-on dildo is pretty simple. It’s silicone! That’s what makes it so easy. Use warm water and anti-bacterial soap for regular cleaning, and it can be sterilized in boiling water or a water and bleach bath solution. Water-based lubricant is recommended – though I’ve used Wet Platinum with this dildo with no problem. For storage, this toy does seem to pick up some hair and lint, so I’d really recommend keeping it in a bag or a box to help reduce how much you’ll need to clean off before play. The material doesn’t attract “everything”, but it attracts a decent amount of lint and dust.

Overall, this is a fantastic dildo for strap-on play. It’s long, yet still average in width, which is great for plus-sized strap-on play. The toy has a really nice, natural shape to it, and the base isn’t thick – yet it’s sturdy – to allow it to fit nicely in a harness and stand up on its own. Thanks to Good Vibrations for providing this silicone dildo for my Pleasure Works Maven dildo review.

Enema Play 101: Everything You Want to Know about Giving Enemas in Kink Scenes

January 05th, 16   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »

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There are a plethora of guides online designed to help you give yourself an enema, and like anything else in kink, I recommend you read as much information as you can before you attempt something like an enema. However, this guide is much more focused on the kink aspect of enema play. Get a more comprehensive look at enemas by reading as much as you can – including this guide.

What Will an Enema Do?
An enema will, in simplistic terms, clean out the inside of the anal area. In more complicated terms, an enema adds fluid into the intestines which softens any mess inside the body to gently cause the body to have a bowel movement. Depending on what the state of your bowels are before you begin (how recently you’ve had a movement of your own), this enema can be almost entirely fluid or it can include small amounts of stool as well. An enema can usually be kept in the body from anywhere between 5 minutes to 30 minutes; it depends on what solution is used and how much is used. However, do be aware that you’ll probably want to have a toilet nearby. The first enema may be the messiest, but subsequent enemas will be cleaner.

Enemas have been used to clean out the bowels for a very long time. They’re used in medical settings for extreme constipation and some naturalistic lifestyles regularly use them as aids in relaxation and health. In a sexual setting, they are used for cleaning the rectum for anal play or for filling the butt for a pleasurable, full sensation.

Why Would Someone Want an Enema?
Some people enjoy the sensation of enemas purely for the sensation. Especially for those who enjoy anal sex, there’s an intense “full” sensation that comes alongside having fluid introduced to the body. For intimacy, many couples find that the act of retaining and releasing the enema fluid can be an entire exercise in trust. For those that prefer humiliation, there are many avenues in administering an enema that can be used for embarrassment and humiliation.

For other people, enemas are entirely used for the practical purpose of cleaning out the rectum and anal area for anal sex. Especially for any type of rough or deep type of anal sex, there’s a chance of encountering a bit of mess with anal. That’s just part of having anal sex. However, some people feel more comfortable knowing that their bodies are already cleaned out before any type of anal sex happens – and enemas reduce the risk of running into any related mess.

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What Supplies Do I Need?
Out of all of the kinky activities out there, getting supplies for giving an enema might be the cheapest of them all. For a bare minimum set-up, all you really need is a reusable enema bag, salt, lube, and water. Wal-mart (and other big box stores, but the photo is from Wal-mart) will sell these combination hot water bottle sets for around $5. (In any store, they’re usually located near the first aid or digestive items) If you fall in love with enemas, expect to replace this over time, but it will be sufficient for learning if you enjoy enemas.

There are multiple types of sets you can use to administer an enema. As mentioned before, the reusable hot water combination water bottle is the easiest one to find in stores. If you’re looking for a different type of receptacle, you may have to do a bit more digging. A “disposable enema bag” is available if you’re wanting to do a really messy enema that may be hard to clean. An “enema can” offers a metal canister to hold the liquid instead of the flexible bag, and they’re the easiest to clean, but they’re also the hardest to hide. A “bulb syringe” looks like a small nozzle attached to a hollow bulb. It allows you to easily draw water into the bulb and squirt it into the anus. Since the bulb is much smaller than any of the enema bags, it requires multiple “trips” to deliver the same amount of fluid. However, bulb syringes are extremely popular for humiliation scenes because of the interaction and need for multiple “fills”.

As you find that you enjoy enemas or want to enjoy different sensations, you can always upgrade your enema equipment. Various attachments are available (such as penis-shaped tips or anal bulb tips) as well as unique types of enema bags. Don’t forget that kits made from sexy colors (all black, etc.) and materials (high-quality silicone) are available as well. It’s worth an upgrade if enemas have become a regular part of your sex life.

Where Should I Do This?
An enema can really be done anywhere. However, as the retention time is a bit slim, you’ll most-likely want to do this somewhere where there’s a toilet nearby. If a toilet isn’t part of your scene, make sure you know of somewhere else that the enema can be released – a diaper, bucket, or other item. For most people, however, the most comfortable area for releasing an enema is going to be a toilet.

For administering the enema itself, you can use any surface. If you’d like to be as comfortable as possible, most people will enjoy having an enema done while laying on a bed. If you’re concerned about any potential mess or would like to be as close to the toilet as possible, the bathroom floor (with a towel placed on the floor for comfort) is a perfectly good place as well. If you’d like both comfort and location, consider folding up an easily-washed comforter blanket onto the floor on the bathroom.

If you’re using an enema bag, you’ll really just want to look for something that has the right height for hanging the bag. You want something that’s about two feet higher than where the butt will be. For some people, if you’re on the ground for the enema administration, the bathroom doorknob will work fine. For others, you may want to improvise with closet door handles, dresser handles, or anything else. The proper height is important to ensure the most comfortable enema possible.

If humiliation play is your intent, an involved scene could be done in public without an easily-accessible toilet nearby, but be aware that this scene could go wrong in a way you never intended very quickly, so have your scene thoroughly planned out before attempting something like this. Make sure you know how your partner’s body behaves with an enema as well. Have a Plan B in case things go differently.

How Do I Do An Enema?
Of course, this is the bread and butter of what you want to learn about, isn’t it?

Prepare: You need to prepare your enema before you can enjoy it. For most beginners, a plain water and salt enema is the best choice. Use clean water for your enema; for most places, tap water will be more-than-fine. Turn on the faucet and allow the water to run until it’s comfortably warm. You don’t want it to be hot, and you don’t want it to be cold. You want it to feel slightly warmed on your fingers. Around 95 to 105 degrees F is what most people tend to prefer. Too hot and you can harm yourself, but too cold causes cramping as well. The right amount of liquid is good as well. It’s always better to overfill the bag than underfill it, so fill the bag with a bit more water than you think you’ll need.

Add 1 tsp of sea salt for every liter of water you use. (Most enema bags are a standard 1.5 or 2 liter bag). Shake up the bag a bit to mix the solution before administering.

Before you continue, after the bag is filled with the solution, open the valve and let a little bit of the water flow into the sink. You want to ensure you have the air bubbles out of the valve. Air won’t hurt you, but it can produce a bit of gas, and most people aren’t looking for that. Thus, make sure the air is out before your enema.

You then need to find a good spot to hang the bag (assuming you’re using a bag. If not, you can use a bowl filled with the water you plan on administering via the bulb) for your enema. You’ll want the bag to be between 18 to 24 inches above the body while taking your enema. Too high can cause too much pressure. Too low may take longer to administer – but it’s usually best to err on the side of too low if there’s no other option. Drawer handles, door knobs, closet shelves, and anything else can be used to hang your bag; just make sure it’s sturdy. 2 liters of water can get heavy.

Position: You want to get into a good position to enjoy your enema. Lots of people recommend doing your first enemas while laying flat on your back. You can also do them while lying on your side. You can take in the “face down, ass up” position, but be aware that it will push the enema further into your body than laying with your body entirely flat. If you’re looking to retain more liquid, that position can be helpful, but if you’re looking for a shallower enema, having a level position is best. Any pleasurable position you imagine people could get into (including Perth escorts!) can be a position that you can enjoy a enema in.

Administer: Now it’s time to put it in. Lubricate the tip with your favorite lubricant, and slide it in. Once it’s in and you’re comfortable, you can unclamp the hose and allow the liquid to fill the body. There’s really no “wrong” way to do this. Continue until you (or your partner) says that they’re full, and then clamp off the hose again. For some people, this might be only a bit of water and for others, it might be more. Do what feels pleasurable to you.

Retain: Once you have the solution into the body, it’s time to retain the liquid. Just clench the muscles like you would to retain anything else that you would from the butt. If you prefer the extra peace of mind, consider pressing a hand against the area. While I wouldn’t recommend it for someone new to enemas, some people also like to add a butt plug in to aid in the retention.

The enema can really be held until it feels uncomfortable to hold any more. Some people will enjoy some discomfort while others mostly enjoy the sensation of the filling process. Hold for as long as you want, but be aware that, as a beginner, it may not even be more than two or three minutes. There’s no “have-to” time limit.

Expel: Once you’re ready to be done, you can move to the toilet and expel like you usually would. Even if it feels like you’re “done”, getting around and moving will probably cause a second trip to the bathroom, so it’s recommended to stay around the toilet for about an hour after an enema. After you’ve finished expelling, if your goal is cleanliness, you can move onto a second enema. For a clean feeling, most people prefer at least two enemas. If your goal was the play itself, a single enema will work just fine.

How Can I Fit This Into a Scene?
If you’re into humiliation, this becomes extremely simple to do. Tease them over what you’re doing to their body. Gently “fuck” them with the tip as you administer the enema. Consider locking the door to the bathroom and making them beg for the key as they retain the enema. Force them to stand up straight for an “inspection” as they try to retain the enema. As long as you get a bit creative, you can come up with a plethora of ways for an enema to add to further power dynamics.

Not into humiliation? You can use enemas in a different way. It’s very easy to use an enema as a caring and thoughtful gift that you give to a partner. Enemas can be given lovingly and gently as well. Consider gently laying out your partner in soft blankets as you prepare the enema, slowly lube up the tip, and slide it in. Let them languish in the pleasurable sensations as you touch their body. As they start to feel full, you can remove the tip. Consider more foreplay as they retain, and if your dynamic works best for it, leave them with privacy as they expel the fluid. Then you both will be ready for anal sex or other play; it can work as a wonderful type of foreplay for different scenes.

Of course, an enema can always be used as your own “private” scene as well. As you shave areas or wash up for particular anal pleasures, you can add your own solo enema to part of that solo preparation you do before meeting up with a partner. Figure out how to best fit an enema into what you want.

What Other Types of Enemas Are There?
There are a plethora of other types of enemas out there. As with anything involving kink, DO YOUR RESEARCH. Do not go about just using everything and anything in an enema without doing the research and thinking things through. I can really only recommend the basic salt and water enema for safety reasons, but if your curiosity is piqued by any of the other types of enemas out there, do your research and go very slowly.

Other enema types include liquids like milk and molasses, coffee, alcohol, soap, Epsom salt, yogurt, or others. Especially if you’re hoping to use this for punishment or embarrassment, consider doing more research about the different types of enemas. Some will cause discomfort, some will cause urgency, and some can have other side effects. ALWAYS know what you’re putting into someone’s body before you do it. This isn’t a time to experiment without your due diligence.

What Safety Concerns Do I Need to Have?
Enemas aren’t without safety risks, but most of the risks are relatively minor when you know what you’re doing. For one, avoid doing enemas on too-regular of a basis. Experts disagree on how often “too often” is, but more than one night a week may become problematic. You want your body to still have regular bowel movements and be able to balance itself.

For another, the act of having an enema can deplete the body of hydration. Make sure you regularly use salt in your enemas and avoid doing too many enemas at once. To help reduce the chances of dehydration, make sure to hydrate yourself the day of, during, and after your enema with regular water (you know, through your mouth). Using too many chemicals with store-bought solutions or plain water enemas may cause this to get worse.

Whether your bucket list includes enjoying deep anal sex, skydiving, visiting Brisbane escorts, or experiencing enema pleasure for yourself, you now have the knowledge to cross a couple of those things off of your bucket list. Make sure to do things safely – and of course, enjoy it!

Vegan Toy Suggestions for Strap-On Play

December 30th, 15   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »

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Spend a little bit of time in the BDSM community, and you’ll start to notice that a lot of the gear for kinky sex happens to be made from leather or other animal hides. While the feel and smell of this sensual material is part of the appeal, some people, for personal or ethical reasons, choose to avoid animal products in their day-to-day lives. While it definitely makes shopping for kink items more difficult, it can be done. Sticking to your principles just requires a bit more effort – and in some cases, vegan options may be cheaper too!

Finding vegan strap-on toys doesn’t have to be difficult. The most challenging part of the equation will be figuring out how to put all of these gorgeous toys together into a scene. While some items will be clearly non-vegan (any item made from leather is definitely not vegan), all it takes is a bit of research (and maybe reaching out to some manufacturers) to find toys that fit into your vegan lifestyle. Strap-on sex can be a wonderously enjoyable activity to enjoy with your partner, so don’t let finding vegan items stand in the way of your pleasure. I’m here to recommend some of my favorite animal-friendly items out there.

The most important item to for vegan pegging is the strap-on harness itself. While this one is by-far the easiest to shop for, it can seem like your options are pretty limited since most harnesses are made from leather. With a bit of digging, you’ll start to find harnesses made from nylon, spandex, and neoprene. By far, my favorites are any of the harnesses in the Spareparts line. The Spareparts Joque harness will always have my love, but all of the Spareparts harnesses are made from neoprene, fit onto the body like a second skin, are entirely machine washable, and many are easy to adjust by featuring Velcro or other easy adjustment pieces.

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If you’re going the body-safe materials route, it’s likely that your dildos will be vegan. However, if you’re experimenting with other types of materials, you’ll want to be careful. Rubber can occasionally contain casein or can be made using animal-based acids. Some toys, even those made from non-rubber material, can include animal ingredients in the form of dyes or other additives. Contact manufacturers to find out what their toys are made from and how they’re made, but as a general rule, non-porous and body-safe materials like silicone, glass, stainless steel, or wood are more likely to be vegan. For strap-on use, however, you’ll want something with a bit of flexibility, so you should stick with silicone. Sticking with high-quality silicone has a higher likelihood of being made from a vegan process. If you’re looking for good dildos to strap on, consider Tantus Inc. dildos for a wide variety of penetrating toys, FunFactory dildos for whimsical options, or Vixen Creations for realistic choices. For butt plugs to use underneath your harness, Tantus also provides quite a few silicone and body-safe toys.

Did you know your lubricant may not be vegan? Lots of lubricants contain dairy-derived enzymes such as lacoperoxidase. If you’re truly trying to rid yourself of all lubricants made from animal by-products, you’ll want to seek out lubricants that are made from 100% vegan ingredients. Don’t forget to check the ingredient label during your research; glycerin is a common source of animal byproducts; ensure the ingredients called for “vegetable glycerin” just to be sure. If in doubt, don’t forget that you can ask the manufacturer! For my favorite vegan lubes, check out what Sliquid offers. They have a whole range of types of lubricants including water-based lubes, anal lubes, and hybrid silicone-based lubes. Good Clean Love has also been one of my favorite organic lubricants as well; very thick and great for anal play.

As most people know, many condoms may not be vegan. The milk protein, casein, turns up in quite a few latex condoms, and non-latex condoms tend to be made from lambskin – which is clearly derived from animals. Where there’s a demand, there’s a product, though, and some companies now manufacturer vegan condoms – made from non-animal derivatives and devoid of casein. For vegan condom options, check out Sir Richard’s Condoms or Glyde condoms. Both are vegan choices.

Butt plugs, vegan strap-on harnesses, dildos, vegan lubes, and vegan condoms should all get you on your way to enjoying strap-on play that agrees with your lifestyle choices. If you want to add even more fun to your session (such as bondage!), don’t forget to check to ensure all of your pieces are vegan. Enjoy the orgasmic pleasure of pegging while sticking to your preferences!