Tips for Having Sex in the Water

July 29th, 14   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »

Having sex in the water is overrated. There, I said it. There’s so much extra stuff that has to be dealt with, and it honestly becomes more of a matter of “doing it’ than actually focusing on the pleasure. That having been said, it also is one of those things that people love to cross off their bucket list – and it can be naughty and enjoyable in the right context! With that in mind, though, it’s important that you do a bit of preplanning before having sex in the water. Whether you’re planning it in an ocean or in your own shower, water makes for slippery surfaces – and not-so-slippery private areas. With that in mind, keep some of these tips in mind before you start experimenting with your next underwater sex adventure.

Heat the Water: As most people know, cold water doesn’t do so well with the genitals – especially the male side. If it’s possible, heat the water to a comfortable temperature. In some situations, like in the ocean or a pool, this may not be possible, so allow your body some time to get adjusted to the temperature – and be flexible if the cold water is getting in the way of sexual functioning.

Get Into a Safe Position: While it shouldn’t have to be said, safety comes first, and when we’re turned on, finding a safe position might not be at the forefront of our minds. However, it’s important that you both have good footing and a good grasp on one another before getting too rough. Especially in your own shower or bath, don’t be concerned about getting down onto hands and knees. It’s much better to have your stability than to end up in the ER because of awkwardly-explained broken bones. Some sex toys companies now make specific shower sex accessories just to help you achieve the perfect position in your shower; consider those as an option if you’re looking for shower sex.

Be Ready with Lubricant: You might be extremely turned on, but with water involved, the water can wash away a lot of the lubrication that females produce. You don’t want an uncomfortable penetration, so be ready with some lubricant on-hand if possible. Water-based lubricant will wash away in the water, but silicone-based lubricant should stick around despite the water. Silicone-based lubricant will keep everything slippery for an enjoyable romp in the water.

Understand Condom Difficulties: Not a ton of research has been done, but a few studies have shown that condoms are affected by use underwater. Hot water and chemicals can affect a condom’s durability, so make sure to have other condoms at-hand. In the best case, not relying on condoms or other latex barriers (having other protection sources) would be optimal.

Water Safety: It’s also important to keep the safety of the water in the back of your mind. Some sources of water really weren’t designed to be sanitary or clean – and that’s especially bad during sex. The same can be said about a hot tub or Jacuzzi that isn’t properly taken-care-of. Unsanitary water can cause rashes, irritation, or worse. Try to make sure that your source of water is clean. Of course, the easiest way to do this is to have sex in your own home or pool, but using reasonable precautions in other bodies of water can also help.

Legal Issues: If you’re not having sex inside your home, and instead, doing it in public, do be aware of legal issues. In most places, having sex in public is illegal.

With all of those things in mind, if you want to have sex in the water, have at it! Just make sure to do some fore-planning and keep safety in the forefront of your mind. Enjoy!

Lipstick Vibe in Metallic Silver Review

July 16th, 14   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »
Lipstick Vibe in Metallic Silver

Front of the packaging

The Lipstick Vibe Metallic Silver is a cute little discreet vibrator made by Pipedream Products and sold at Adult Sex Toys. It’s a multi-speed vibrator that was intended to look like a little tube of lipstick. Mine comes in a gorgeous silver casing that looks like a lipstick tube. There’s a turn-dial down at the bottom, and there’s an obvious battery compartment line as well. The top of the vibrator pops off to reveal the actual “lipstick” portion which does look realistic in its red. In fact, it’s not made of plastic (like the rest of the sex toy) – it’s made of an interesting rubber that makes it even more flexible and looks more realistic.

The packaging for this discreet sex toy is pretty basic. It includes a gorgeous see-through box that lets you see the Lipstick Vibe sitting inside its box. My box had a blue color theme, but other colored versions of this sex toy have different color themes. The front claims it to be waterproof, ultra-discreet, and multi-speed. This box is a regular-made plastic box, so I don’t know if I’d consider this an option for long-term storage – it’s not strong enough to hold up to wear and tear.

Lipstick Vibe in Metallic Silver

Back of the packaging

The bottom of the Lipstick Vibe twists off to reveal the battery compartment. This vibrator takes four watch batteries which are included. There’s a paper wrapped inside of the battery compartment to help reduce the noise of the vibrations, and I honestly would suggest you leave it there as well. The watch batteries do come wrapped in plastic to keep all four together – it works with the plastic on, but I recommend you take the plastic off before long-term use.

Lipstick Vibe in Metallic Silver

Lipstick Vibe with the lid on

When you turn the plastic dial around the bottom, the vibrations will turn on once the batteries are in. If you plan on carrying this around in your purse, this may become problematic because if the batteries are in, moving it around may cause the dial to turn slightly, and quite honestly, I wouldn’t want to have to track down four watch batteries in my purse, then fumble putting them in, when I wanted to use it.

This has about six distinct settings, but it can honestly be hard to tell them apart from one another since it’s all on the dial base. All the vibration levels are strong which was something I was amazed by. I don’t normally expect such strength from a watch-battery vibrator. However, in sacrafice for the strong strength, this isn’t exactly discreet when it’s turned on. It would be discreet enough for closed-door bedroom use, but if in a public bathroom, this would be so, so obvious. If you want to take it out for the “public” naughtiness, go for it, but don’t expect to be able to use it there unless you’re in a crowded club.

Lipstick Vibe in Metallic Silver

Lipstick Vibe with the cap off

Using it with or without the cap on doesn’t seem to matter. The vibrations are centered right in the middle of the toy, but they travel nicely up into the cap/lipstick part depending on which you want to use. This also is pretty strong on the fingers, so your hands may get numb after a long play session with it.

My biggest complaint with this vibe? The battery compartment and the twist-vibration dial are pretty obvious markers that this isn’t a regular lipstick tube. I wish they could have made it where the dial was somewhere else and possibly the lipstick tube came apart in the middle where it wouldn’t be noticed so much. *However*, this does look like a tube of lipstrick from far away which will work great if this is just for a discreet vibrator at your own home – just don’t expect it to pass a close inspection. When it comes to kids though, no kid would think this was anything but a tube of lipstick.

The Lipstick Vibe in Metallic Silver is a pretty inexpensively discreet vibrator. It has really strong vibrations for its size but it does sacrifice some quiet for that. I wish it ran on different batteries as well, but it does work well on the watch batteries. This is a great vibe to use if you don’t expect it to be closely inspected nor do you need whisper-quiet. This sex toy store sells this discreet vibrator, so pick up the Lipstick Vibe Metallic Silver today.

SpareParts Deuce Magnum Male Strap-on Harness Review

July 08th, 14   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   1 Comment »
Deuce Magnum Men's Double Penetration Strap-On Harness

Packaging for Deuce Magnum Men’s Double Penetration Strap-On Harness

Designed specifically for men, the SpareParts Deuce Male Strap-On Harness Magnum is a harness that allows for double penetration. Whether it’s with a biological penis alongside a dildo or just two didos, this harness includes two holes – unlike the standard harness that just includes a single one. Featuring a 4-strap design that allows the harness to fit like a jock-strap harness, the Magnum size features larger penis holes for those who want to use larger dildos or have a thicker biological penis. This harness is also available in Size A or Size B for different body sizes. The under-the-butt straps adjust via buckles while the waist straps adjust through a Velcro system and buckles for minute adjustments.

The packaging for this harness is fantastic in terms of presentation as well everything it includes. You have instructions about how to use it, and the inside is even wrapped in nice tissue paper for a luxurious touch. The harness comes packaged in a simple, zipper-shut bag; it fits back into this bag for really easy storage. The box is fantastic for gift-giving, and if you choose not to use the zipper bag (I’m not sure why you wouldn’t), the bag can work for storage as well

Deuce Magnum Men's Double Penetration Strap-On Harness

The buckles to allow you to easily adjust the sizes

Like all Spareparts harnesses, this harness is extremely comfortable. It was really designed for comfort, even. Many harnesses are designed more for short-term use, so while they’ll be tolerable for comfort in a short bedroom session, they won’t be comfortable for long-term wear. The Spareparts Deuce harness is comfortable for both short-term and long-term wear. The spandex material means that it stretches out where you need it to while also being breathable and really comfortable.

One of the biggest concerns about a strap-on harness for guys is whether it will have the needed extra room for testicles. This was specifically built to provide the room you need, and it does a good job of it. If anything, it might have almost “too” much room from our testing. However, this extra room means that it’s comfortable to keep the penis inside of the harness when it’s flaccid instead of sliding it outside of the harness. It gives you options for whatever makes you most comfortable.

Deuce Magnum Men's Double Penetration Strap-On Harness

Sizing for the harness. Find your perfect size!

During use, everything lines up really well. There will probably be a slight “off-set” depending upon your anatomy since not everyone is built in the exact same way, but from our experiences, the off-set is so small that it’s barely noticeable. The harness is extremely comfortablet to wear, and nothing is “pulling” awkwardly.

On the other end of that, once in place, the two penises line up relatively well. You might have to do some minor adjustments, but it’s easily do-able to enjoy double penetration while wearing this harness. It took some work on the angles to get both at the same type and depth of penetration, but once you get used to dealing with a second phallus, the harness does a fantastic job of making it possible to enjoy both at once.

Deuce Magnum Men's Double Penetration Strap-On Harness

Showing the front of the harness

I love that it includes a flexible penis hole. If you’re hard or want to, you can slide your penis through the included hole to include your penis in the fun. If you aren’t hard, you can still use the hole if you want, but the penis can also be kept inside the harness instead of through the hole instead. There’s enough room in the “pouch” to have the flaccid penis resting inside of the harness instead of pushing it through the included penis hole if you want. It’s up to you.

This is a size Magnum because it’s designed to have a larger-than-average biological penis hole. For those that find many condom brands are uncomfortably tight, the Magnum size might be a much better choice for you. Length doesn’t really make a difference, but it’s more about the girth of the penis around the base. So if standard condoms don’t really bother you, definitely go with the standard-sized Deuce harness, but if you find that standard condoms feel too tight around the base, the Magnum Deuce is better for you.

Deuce Magnum Men's Double Penetration Strap-On Harness

Showing the dildo hole plus the pouch underneath

When it comes to the O-rings for both the penis and the dildo, they are built-in. You can’t exchange them for other sizes. However, the O-rings are relatively flexible and stretchy. This means it’ll stretch out to fit a dildo much larger than it seems, and when stretched out, it actually does quite a better job of holding the dildo “in place” as well.

Deuce Magnum Men's Double Penetration Strap-On Harness

Showing the zipper pouch for the harness

To clean this male strap-on harness, you’ll want to use warm water and anti-bacterial soap. To make it even easier, though, if you want, this harness is machine-washable and can be washed in your dryer. It shouldn’t be put into the dryer, though (I’ve been known to accidentally put mine in the dryer, though, and it survives fine). For simple storage, it fits really easily right back into the drawstring bag. To keep your harness looking nice, it seems to work best to wash it right after use to get any fluids or lubricant off of it. Again, always allow the harness to air dry for best care.

Overall, the SpareParts Deuce Magnum harness makes it really easy to explore double-penetration without having to bring another person into the bedroom. The Magnum size is much more comfortable for those with a thicker penis while the harness fits really comfortably on the body as well. The velcro adjustable waist straps make it easy to adjust on-the-go, so there’s no more fiddling with buckles when you just want to play with the action. The Deuce is designed well with multiple options for how the guy wants to use his biological penis – including the option to just use two dildos instead of a biological one. If you want to try double-penetration, this is honestly one of the best harnesses you could buy. Thanks to Dallas Novelty for providing this male strap-on harness for my SpareParts Deuce Magnum review.

Sealed with a Kiss Adult Game Review

July 01st, 14   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »
Sealed with a Kiss Adult Game

Sealed With a Kiss Packaging

The Sealed with a Kiss game is a pretty basic game sold by Adult Sex Toys. The game includes a deck of cards (54 of them), a rubber band, a small instruction manual, and a small booklet of ending rewards. This game really resembles Uno, just with less cards and with more sexual instructions. The game is intended for two adult players. The cards are the size of regular playing cards and seem as well made as regular playing cards. The tagline is “A Romance Game for Grown-Up Couples”. This game is manufactured by California Exotics.

All of the pieces come in a box that’s purple, decorated with kiss prints, and shows the title in large letters on the front. The box isn’t exactly discreet, but it isn’t shouting “sex” either with nude models. It’s done tastefully and makes the game look fun to play. The box is about twice and wide as a card and is the same height. It works well for storage if you want to keep your cards protected from harm.

The game is intended for two adult players. However, the rules of this game aren’t too racy. If you have four or less players, you should be able to get away with playing this with no problem. However, with anything more than four, you’ll want a different deck. While this does play like Uno, it doesn’t have as many cards, so the pile will deplete really easily. Also, if you plan on playing in a large group, you may want to discard the “ending prize” since those tend to be blatantly sexual as opposed to just the kissing cards found throughout the game itself.

The game is ridiculously easy to play. If you’ve ever played Uno in your life, you’ll be able to jump right it without looking at the instruction book. You just have the regular cards, and they have a number and color on them. Both players take turn placing a card in the center pile that is either the same color as the card in the center pile or the same number. This continues, back and forth, until a player doesn’t have a card they can play. Then, if they have one, they can choose to use their “Kiss Card”. A Kiss Card is the equivalent of a Wild Card in the original Uno game. This allows you to place the card on whatever card happens to be in the pile, and you choose what color to go next with. However, since this is a “Kiss Card” and not a Wild Card, you then have to perform whatever kiss is described on the card with your partner before you can move on.

From there, you just keep playing until one player has rid themselves of all of their cards. The first player to have no cards left is the winner. The winner then chooses an unseen card from the top of pile and that number is the number of activity they get to choose from the Ending Rewards booklet. The booklet includes multiple pages of the same number, so you can flip through and have your favorite choice. The rewards are very widely varied – very widely. One reward requires you to give your partner a back scratch or a kiss while another requires you to go straight into 69. Another requires you to jump into the shower and have fun there while other rewards require you to brush your partner’s hair. If you are uncomfortable with certain actions, this allows you to pick an action that you want to do. (For example, if the winning player wants to go straight to something sexual, they can choose that. If the winning player wants to do something romantic then play another rounds, there are actions for that too.)

Sealed with a Kiss Adult Game

Examples of some of the playing cards

The game was definitely enjoyable to play. We had a lot of fun playing multiple rounds of the game, and the Kiss Cards really add a fun, romantic aspect to a regular game of Uno. For the four of us to play the game, it took less than five minutes per game. For two of us, it was even less. The games run so short because of the Kiss Cards. It seems like there are more Kiss Cards than you’d expect to have in a game like this (like 10 out of 52 cards are Kiss Cards), so you end up getting quite a few “PIck a Colors”. And no one is left with that inability to play their last card if their last card is a Kiss Card. So the games end much more quickly. That isn’t a bad thing though; it was actually enjoyable enough to want to play it right away again.

Some examples of some of the Kiss Cards: “Give Your Lover a hot, passionate kiss”, “Kiss your lover softly on the lips”, “Give your lover a kiss with lots of tongue!” All of the kiss cards, as you can imagine, describe different types of kisses to give.

Examples of some of the Ending Rewards: “Get naked and demonstrate a “dry hump on your partner”, “Tell your partner the hottest thing about them”, “Demonstrate your sexiest walk”, “Be spontaneous! Have sex right now”, “Describe what you would like to do with a vibrator”, “In an ideal world, how many times would you have sex including masturbation?”, “Give your partner 1 minute of only oral sex.” Things of that nature. In this booklet, there are 200 different ending rewards to choose from – each number 1-10 to give you choice when you choose that end card.

While this is just an Uno deck with some kiss cards added, I can’t say I’m complaining. The idea was neat, and it made for a fun game to play. It’s certainly not the most sexual game on the planet, but it definitely is one of the more fun games – especially for the price. It’s not absolutely amazing, but it is definitely amusing and while some of the rewards can seem a little lame, we still had a lot of fun playing it – both in the group and couple setting. This adult store stocks this adult game. I loved Sealed with a Kiss, and I think you would too.