Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager Review

March 17th, 17   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »
Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager

Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager

Based off of the award-winning “Rude-Boy” offered from Rocks-Off, the Wild Boy offers more texture and width than the standard “Rude-Boy” that many have fallen in love with. Available from Good Vibrations, this prostate vibrator is waterproof and offers 7 speeds of vibration. This prostate massager is made from silicone and includes the batteries needed for operation. The Wild Boy is a vibrating toy that comes in two parts: the silicone “Wild Boy” sleeve itself with a RO-80mm Rocks-Off bullet vibrator that can be removed.

The Wild Boy comes in standard, yet classy, sex toy packaging. It gives a clear view of the vibrator inside, but the packaging is mostly designed to be disposable, so you won’t have much of a reason to keep it around after you get the toy out of it. There is some basic information on the back and sides of the box to tell you a bit more about the toy you’ve ordered.

Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager

Showing the packaging

Standard to a lot of the Rocks-Off toys, the vibrations from this prostate massager comes from a removable vibrating bullet that slides into the silicone “shell” of the prostate massager. The vibrator then vibrates the entire silicone portion. If you don’t want to use the vibrations, you can just leave the vibrator out, and if you would rather upgrade to a stronger or different bullet vibrator, that can be done as well.

Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager

Showing how the bullet vibrator is removable

When it comes to the exterior texture on the silicone shell, the “Wild Boy” is different than a lot of the other Rocks-Off sexual products. It has an interesting texture on both ends. The insertive end features a slight twisting texture to it that runs around the shaft. The texture is definitely noticeable while inserting – especially if you haven’t used enough lube – but it doesn’t seem to make too much of a difference once it’s in. It does look pretty neat though. The exterior/perineal portion of the vibrator has a “dotted” texture along it. This texture is a lot more noticeable on the exterior skin of the body. We’ve found that it causes some annoyance and pain if you’re rubbing against it unless you’ve very lightly lubed it. The lubricant helps turn those bumps into a pleasant sensation instead of an annoying one.

Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager

Size of the Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager

The vibrator is really easy to control, and if you’ve ever used a bullet vibrator, it takes a similar structure to it. Just press the button and watch the vibrations come to life! Yeah, that’s it, really. When the vibrator is inserted, the bullet will usually be located near the testicles area, so it does make it easier to control the vibrations. There isn’t too much awkward hand-reaching that has to go on unless you insert it a different way.

Because the vibrator is just slid into the solid silicone, it doesn’t transfer vibrations as well as if the vibrating motor had been built in. You can still feel the vibrations throughout the tip, but if you’re depending on harder vibrations to provide prostate pleasure, this is not the toy for this. If you usually enjoy non-vibrating prostate toys and was just hoping to add a little bit of extra sensation to your prostate pleasure, the “Wild Boy” works great. Most of the vibrations tend to be felt along the perineal area (since that’s where the vibrator is located). You can still feel them in the tip, but don’t expect them to be earth-shattering. Changing out the bullet vibrator to a stronger vibrator does help (though the RO-80mm bullet vibrator isn’t bad in strength for a bullet vibe), but the design means that prostate tip will never receive the full intensity of the vibrations.

Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager

How flexible the silicone of the Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager is

The Wild Boy prostate massager was designed to fit most body shapes, though. The joining “center” part of the silicone does have some flexibility to it. Both of the sides of the vibrator are a lot more rigid (though not entirely rigid), but that interior connector bit has some flexibility that will allow it to properly “stretch” to fit onto most people’s bodies. The plug doesn’t have a lot of stretch, though, so once it’s in place, expect the toy to make a bit of a “clamping” motion onto your body. This will add more stimulation to the perineal area while you’re using it.

The curve of the Wild Boy may be able to hit your prostate, but it seems to be a bit of hit-or-miss. Sometimes it seems to work well and sometimes it doesn’t. It seems to matter how my partner is laying. Laying in more of a “curled up” position seems to help the Wild Boy hit its mark better while laying flat seems to mean it misses that pleasure spot. More arousal and experimenting with positions might help you find where it hits best; I wish it was a bit longer and included a bit more of a curve to it. I think that’d help hit the spot better for most.

Cleaning is made easier by the fact that the vibrator pulls out from the silicone casing. Both the silicone “Wild Boy” and the bullet vibrator that slides into it are waterproof, so it’s really easy to clean. Just use warm water and anti-bacterial soap and clean each piece separately. Make sure to clean inside the bullet’s cavern – especially if you added lubricant to it. You can boil or use a water/bleach solution on the Wild Boy sleeve itself for further cleaning. For lubricant, water-based lubes tend to work better for silicone toys, so keep that in mind.

As a “pro tip”, if you’re looking to make it easier to remove the bullet, is to put a drop of lubricant onto the bullet and twist it as you slide it in. It’ll lubricate the interior of the chamber and make it easier to slide out later for cleaning. Just make sure you slide it out for cleaning or you’ll have dried lube, and that’s not fun at all.

Overall, If you like texture and would like something a bit more substantial than the look of the Rude Boy, I think the “Wild Boy” could be a better choice for you. It’s not my partner’s favorite prostate massager out there, but it does seem to work in some positions. I think a bit of design change and some stronger vibrations would really help it stand out, but if you were a fan of the “Rude Boy” or other Rocks-Off toys and wanted a larger and textured change, this could be a good toy for you. Thanks to Good Vibrations for providing this prostate massager for my Wild Boy sex toy review.

Double Dildo Strap Connector Review

March 10th, 17   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »
Double Dildo Strap Connector

Double Dildo Strap Connector

Double-ended dildos have had their spotlight in adult videos and fantasies for a long, long time – and why not? For some people, it’s extremely erotic experience, but finding the perfect double-ended dildo for such activities may not always lead to the sensations both parties want to end. That’s where the Double Dildo Strap Connector from the Sh! Women’s Store comes in. Made from neoprene, this accessory allows you to insert two dildos into the connector – base to base – and button the buttons. So simple, but after inserting them, you’ll have a double-ended toy made entirely from your own favorite toys.

Double Dildo Strap Connector

Double Dildo Strap Connector packaging

Sh! doesn’t spare any expense with the packaging for this double dildo connector. The connector comes packaged in a white box with a foam padding. The box includes a lid as well and is entirely square in design, so it’s extremely easy to wrap this toy up for gifting purposes. The packaging, however, doesn’t have any information about the connector, but really, there’s not much necessary. You’ll figure it out quickly.

Double Dildo Strap Connector

Double Dildo Strap Connector comes in nicely-wrapped packaging

The Double Dildo Strap Connector was designed to be easy-to-use – and it is. The strap easily unsnaps to reveal two separate flaps of neoprene – both with a hole through the middle. Each neoprene’s flap’s hole was designed to have a dildo slipped through it – with the bases touching each other in the middle. Only standard, flat flared bases will work in these. You’ll want particularly slim bases as well. Most of the visions of Bad Dragon toys, Fuze silicone toys, or oddly-shaped bases won’t work. It works perfectly for most of the toys sold by Sh! Women’s Store as well as many Tantus or Vixen Creations toys. Anything with a standard, flat base in terms of base compatibility.

Double Dildo Strap Connector

Showing how well two dildo bases fit in the Double Dildo Strap Connector

It definitely does need to be noted that this Double Dildo Connector was designed for small-to-medium toys. Size queens and kings will likely need to modify this connector (and weaken the durability) or consider a different option. You can pretty much go as slim as you want (thickness wise) without much of an issue, but trying to get my Tantus Gary O2 in here (which has a diameter of 1.5″) definitely seems to be about the limit for what these holes were designed to take. It was a very tight fit – and the Gary O2 isn’t a particularly thick toy to begin with! I was definitely concerned about ripping while putting it in. I would love to see an alternative option for thicker toys from Sh! Women’s Store – or maybe just a rebuilt design that allows interchangeable O-rings to allow for the perfect fit for all types of options. Either way, choosing to use this toy with a smaller or standard-sized dildo will ensure everything fits without rips.

Double Dildo Strap Connector

How a dildo fits into the Double Dildo Strap Connector

As for the durability, however, if you use the connector how it was designed, it doesn’t look like you’ll have too much of a problem. The only concern I have with the connector is the size of the holes on either side. I imagine that regular stretching of these holes to accommodate larger-than-designed dildos will end up tearing the neoprene. As the neoprene just seems to be a single layer of neoprene without much stitching or reinforcing done, it’s definitely possible to rip it. I think the biggest danger to safety will be trying to insert too-large toys. It doesn’t look like anything you’ll do would rip the toy during use.

Double Dildo Strap Connector

Another look at two dildos filling up the Double Dildo Strap Connector

While manufacturer-made double-ended dildos will work just fine for some people, others are going to prefer the flexibility of the Double Dildo Strap Connector. After all, many of the double-ended dildos are made of concerning materials. Aside from that fact, though, it’s quite possible that the two people enjoying a double-ended dildo together just enjoy two separate sensations. Maybe one person loves a thick dildo with lots of texture. The other may prefer a slender toy with a g-spot curve. Good luck finding those two items on the same double-ended dildo. That’s where the Dildo Double Strap Connector comes in. It’ll allow you to use your own two favorite toys.

Since this is going to get near lube and genital areas, this is definitely something you want to clean – and the neoprene material of the connector makes it simple. Use warm water and anti-bacterial soap to rinse down the entirety of the connector. It’s entirely waterproof, so you can submerge and clean the connector as much as roughly as you’d like. As for storage, it’s, again, very flexible, so you can store it however you’d like as well. Just try to avoid crumpling it into a ball.

Overall, the Double Dildo Strap Connector is going to be a dream accessory for people who want to experiment with a double-ended dildo that’s on the smaller size, width-wise. Not only is it easy to use and clean, but it’s extremely affordable, and it does its job – and does it well – without requiring any fancy instructions or tools. While I’d love to see Sh! Women’s Store offer one that’s better suited for larger toys, this one is certainly going to become a favorite for people who have been unsatisfied with manufacturer-designed double-dildo offerings. Thanks to Sh! Women’s Store for providing this make your own double dildo strap for my Double Dildo Strap Connector review.

10 Suggestions to Ease Yourself into Kinkier Sex

March 10th, 17   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »

Very few sensations compare to the enjoyment of making love. Sex is a sensation unto itself, but there are moments where it can feel a bit stale. Whether you are dating a new man, or simply looking to spice up your tired sexual routine with your long-term partner, there are ways to make even the standard sex acts new and exciting. You might not be ready to jump straight into the “handcuffs” and “blindfolds” – and that’s okay. Consider some of these slightly-kinky suggestions to ease yourself into the idea of kinkier sex – and go further if you want. Or don’t if you don’t. That’s the beauty of sexual experimentation – you only have to do what feels fun for you!

1. Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want
For some people, speaking out in the bedroom can be tough, but your partner may find it incredibly sexy when you can share your fantasies and your needs. Whether you are canoodling before the act or you’re in the middle of sex, don’t be afraid to share your desires. How do you expect to have the best sex ever if your partner doens’t know what “the best sex ever” even includes?

2. Make Eye Contact
The eyes are the window to the soul, and there is no sultrier a moment to lock eyes than while you are going down on your partner. Look up, make sure they see you, and keep doing what you’re doing. It is an easy way to take an ordinary blowjob from average to extraordinary.

3. Take the Lead
If you are normally submissive, surprise your lover by taking control of your bedroom activities. Most people love it when their partner takes charge – and they get to be the lazy one and lay back and just enjoy the pleasure. Whether it’s something as simple as being the aggressor during a make-out session or you want to be on-top during sex, taking the lead can offer new possibilities for sex.

4. Vibrators Aren’t Only for Solo Play
Bust out the vibrator next time you are playing in the bedroom. While they are a great tool for solo orgasms, they can also be used to bring your duet action to new heights. Use a bullet to stimulate his shaft while you go down on a penis, or let your partner have control of the vibrator to bring you to orgasm using your favorite sex toy with the wonders of technology.

5. Masturbate In Front of Them
Masturbating in front of your partner might seem like a weird way to turn them on, but what partner doesn’t like to see their partner enjoying themselves? You can keep it simple by just playing with yourself, or pull out all the stops and let it lead into penetration. Whatever you feel like doing, you should do.

6. Grind Slow While You are On Top
Your hips don’t lie, and moving them during sex ensures they don’t. When you are on top, try grinding your hips against your partner. Hip movements are erotic, and the sensations and the view partner together for a potent erotic cocktail. There is more than simple thrusting for penetration, and you can use this to your advantage.

7. Ask Them about Their Fantasies
All people want to feel desired and loved. They also want to know that you care about what they like. Ask your partner to jot down his top 5 fantasies. Take a look at his interests, and try to find a way that they could fit into your own pleasure profile. Do they want to watch as you strip during amateur night at the local strip club? Well, maybe that one isn’t within your comfort level, but you’d be willing to hop onto the (sturdy, please!) living room coffee table for a private strip tease while they sit on the couch.

8. Use Your Hands
Once you and your partner get used to having intercourse, the days of handjobs and slipping a hand up someone’s skirt might fall by the wayside. It doesn’t have to though! Not only does manual stimulation offer the flexibility of way more positions, but it’s something that can be done in public – or when one of you isn’t feeling like full-intercourse.

9. Don’t Forget the Perineum
The perineum is the sensual spot between your partner’s genitals and their anus. It is full of nerve endings – no matter the gender. Rub gently and caress the spot as your partner gets close to orgasm for an out-of-this-world experience. Some people, however, are uncomfortable with touches in this area, so it will depend on your partner.

10. Slip a Condom on with Your Mouth
While more of an erotic visual than a useful technique, it can be hot to watch a partner apply to condom in this unconventional manner. For the beginner, you might want to try using your hands for a bit of help. Keep your lips close to the penis as you apply the condom, and as your hand rolls down the condom, follow the condom with your lips for a “faux” mouth application.

Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillow Case Review

March 01st, 17   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »
Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillow Case

Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillow Case

For those times when sex might get a bit “wet”, the Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillow Case is there for you. Created for the Kink.com line designed by Doc Johnson, this pillowcase is sold by Eden’s Toy Box. Waterproof and designed to fit onto a standard pillow, this pure-black pillowcase offers a fold over flap design for further protection. The pillow is heat sealed at every seam for leak-proof protection, and the pillow is machine washable for easy cleaning.

Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillow Case

Showing the waterproof interior lining

I bet you’ve never considered the packaging for a pillowcase before, have you? Well, now is your time to start. The Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillowcase ITSELF comes in a non-discreet, relatively large box emblazoned with the Kink.com and Doc Johnson logos on it. Eden’s Toy Box ships this box inside of a brown, completely-discreet standard box. All of the features of the pillowcase are printed on the sides of the pillowcase’s packaging. The box is a bit of an oblong shape, so it’d be difficult to wrap as a gift, and it really doesn’t have a use for storage. It will get the pillowcase to you safely, though, and stand out on a retail store shelf.

Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillow Case

Packaging for the Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillow Case

I could spend a long time trying to tell you exactly how to put this pillowcase on a pillow, but I think you guys can figure it out. This one makes it particularly easy as well. The pillowcase is like a standard pillowcase with one of the ends of the case entirely open and ready to accept your (standard-sized!) pillow. Just open up that side and slide in the pillow. As an extra layer of protection for the pillow, however, the end also has an extra layer of material (a flap) that covers this opening to prevent liquid from getting inside of the pillowcase. So, just slide the pillow into the pillowcase and fold over the flap. Done!

Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillow Case

Showing the fold-over design of the Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillow Case

The waterproof pillowcase feels pretty good. As you can tell from the pictures, it has a bit of a rubber-y look to it, and that actually works well for it. It’s not satin-soft, so your head/body won’t just slide off the pillow. It has a little bit of a grip to it, but it’s a nice grip to it. Closer to nice leather car seats versus vinyl car seats.

Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillow Case

Part of the Kink.com Wet Works line

And how well does it work? After all, most people will be purchasing this in order to enjoy the waterproof aspect of the pillowcase. The first thing to realize is that this system isn’t foolproof. Since the pillowcase’s fastening method is only a strip of fold-over material, that’s not 100% waterproof. If you’re planning on protecting your favorite, passed-down-through-the-generations pillow with this case, you may want to consider a waterproof, bedbug covering that zips up around all sides with this black covering over that layer. That will provide the 100% waterproof necessary to truly protect the pillow. Why would you do it that way? Well, that way, you get the true waterproof capabilities from the inner layer while the outer layer looks sexier, is more comfortable, and can be easily stripped on and off for machine wash-ability. The likelihood that any liquid will touch the interior pillow is minimal, so it basically makes clean-up after a wet session turn into “just pull off and wash” instead of worrying about the entire pillow. This is a similar system to how almost all sex furniture is designed.

Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillow Case

Showing the material shine of the Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillow Case

As for how that works, though, the pillow works pretty well – especially for smaller spills. Semen, squirting, lubricants, food play, and liquids wipe up seamlessly off the surface of the pillow. After you’ve wiped up the mess, the entire pillowcase can just be placed into the washing machine. It’s an extremely simple system. However, without adding in the above-mentioned second layer of protection, I would be careful about doing anything that would submerge this pillow in water or other liquids such as intense watersports play. The fold-over design isn’t foolproof on its own, and it’s likely to get a bit of the mess into the pillow if you’re in a puddle/pool of a liquid.

The Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillowcase was specifically created to help keep pillows dry from liquids or lubricants. This gives it use for watersports purposes or female ejaculation purposes. It also can be an easy-cleaning solution for laying-down “titty fucking” (I hate that term, but it’s the easiest visual I can come up with) positions. It also can be used for people who want a “safe” headrest for Nuru massage sex or other super-slippery types of sex. If any of your types of play tend to get a bit messy, this Wet Works Waterproof Pillowcase just ensures that you still have a dry pillow – and that you can easily wash the pillowcase afterwards.

Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillow Case

Another view of the fold-over design

When it comes to cleaning a pillowcase like this, it’s designed to be as easy as possible. After all, you’re going to be getting it pretty messy. The pillowcase can be washed in the washing machine. The box specifically says you can machine wash the pillowcase, and it should be hung to dry. You’ll definitely want to open up and squish around this pillowcase before you remove it from the washing machine. Don’t be like me. As the Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillow Case is, well, waterproof, it retains water well. Which means any water that gets inside the pillowcase *stays* inside unless you dump it out before removing it after. Or you can remove it before dumping out the water and end up dumping all the water on yourself. I did that one. Either way, the pillow case is super easy to clean for, and all of the messes easily wash off the surface of the pillowcase in the wash.

Overall, the Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillow Case is definitely going to save your pillows from any sort of messes that you might be making. While it’s not a “be all, end all” solution since the fold-over flap doesn’t seal in any fashion (and that’s my sole complaint), it’s a very, very good solution for people who enjoy wet play or tend to get semen/squirting/lube all over the pillowcase on a regular basis. The pillow is simple to take care of, easily fits on most standard pillows and without much of an issue, and it feels pretty sensual to the touch as well. Plus, the Kink Wet Works line also makes a matching bedsheet set! Thanks to Eden’s Toy Box for providing this waterproof pillowcase for my Kink Wet Works Waterproof Pillow Case Review.