Tired of the “standard” black bondage gear? Has the Barbiecore craze been hitting you especially hard? Does a collection of pink BDSM toys sound like the perfect addition to your dungeon scenes?
I own a surprising number of pink BDSM toys – even though pink isn’t my favorite color. I have them for a few reasons:
- My partners love the color pink.
- I love matching my kink toys to the outfits my partner(s) and I are wearing. This requires having gear in a rainbow of colors.
- I already own a lot of black bondage gear. Sometimes, I’ll buy the versions offered in another color by default, just to avoid adding to my black bondage gear.
Whatever the reason, there are a surprising number of pink BDSM toys out there to explore. Let me try to make it a bit easier for you by listing some of my favorites in one place.
Super Cool Pink BDSM Toys
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Luna High-Waisted Strap-On Harness
I literally can not imagine anything cuter than the Off the Tongue Luna high-waisted strap-on harness. Honestly, I would have bought one years ago if they could support the extra-large O-ring I need for the type of pegging play we do. Please, get one and let me live vicariously through you. (Official model photo from Off the Tongue.)
Posture Collar with Mouth Cover
I don’t know what it is about a posture collar that’s so extreme that it covers up the lower half of the face too, but I love it. I own this one, and while it takes awhile to lace up (on the back) to get it at the correct tightness, I love the resulting look it offers. (Official model image from Sub-Shop themselves.)
Mercy Industries Customizable Blush Pink BDSM Collar
Not only is this collar pink, but it also includes an adorable bow on the front with the option to personalize the heart-shaped tag off the front of it. I’m beyond-impressed with the quality on the one I own, and it’s probably my favorite pink collar.
Beatings on a Budget Vinyl Chain Flogger
I was not expecting to find a flogger made of chain in pursuit of the coolest pink BDSM toys, but that’s exactly what I found.
I’ve purchased some items from Beatings on a Dime, and the quality is there. They might have a few scuffs (as their mission is to reuse and repurpose items), but they’ve held up really well to heavy spankings.
MFP Hot Pink UV Bondage Rope
If rope bondage is more your bae, Agreeable Agony has this amazing hot pink, UV color I absolutely love. Their MFP rope is moderately spun (in a good way; we don’t have as many rope burn problems with it) and can be bought in gigantic lengths if that’s more your style. They also have an Etsy store if you’re more comfortable shopping there.
Liebe Seele Fairy Pink Ball Gag
Super cute, high-quality, and made from a pastel pink and white coloration, this breathable silicone mouth gag looks absolutely adorable.
Only word of warning: the diameter on this ball gag is 1.7″ – which is pretty large. Those with smaller mouths who struggle with gigantic burgers may find this gag too thick.
Sissy Word Collar
I don’t often see pink word collars, but this “Sissy” one from Sub-Shop is absolutely adorable. It looks just like some of the word collars I had when I first started kink, but this one is adorably pink and glamourous!
Le Wand All That Glimmers Petite Wand Massager
I’m trying to avoid going too deep into the world of pink sex toys because this is an article focused on pink BDSM toys, but this Le Wand deserves an honorable mention. Since forced orgasm scenes orchestrated by wand massagers are a center point for many kinky players, you should know that it can be pinkified too.
The pictured Le Wand All that Glimmers Petite Wand Massager is absolutely freakin’ adorable, but if you’re going for power, you might want to upgrade to the less-sparkly-but-more-powerful Doxy wand massager in pink.
Deep Throat Trainer – Special Edition Pink BDSM Toys
When I set out to make this list, this isn’t the type of thing I thought I’d be including, but here we are. The Deepthroat Trainer company makes a pink version of their Wi-Fi enabled cock sucking training toy. (Yes, the internet has revolutionized a whole lot of things.)
Using an optical distance sensor to track head position, you attach a suction-cup dildo to the plate on the toy, and it “counts” how well you’re doing getting down the length of the dildo. It’s pretty nifty!
Ceremony Leather Sequin with Shaker Bow Collar and Leash
Well, this is absolutely adorable. This vegan collar and leash set is made from beautiful pink leather with a puffy shaker bow detail filled with sequins. I am really, really resisting the urge not to buy it right this second.
(If collars are your jam, I have some tips for buying the right collar for you.)
Locking Hot Pink Silicone Wrist Cuffs
I’m super fond of silicone bondage gear if you’re someone who likes to get a little messy. Not only can the stuff be sanitized, but it also won’t ruin it if you play with bodily fluids, squirting, enemas, or lots and lots of lube. I think this pink set of silicone wrist cuffs is the only set of pink silicone cuffs I’ve ever seen.
Pink Candy Minx Strap-On Harness
If you love leather harnesses, you’ll probably fall in love with the Pink Candy Minx harness too. It has a lace-up back that’s absolutely adorable with contrasting white/hot pink leather. We own this one (and love it!), but be aware that it definitely fits on the low waist compared to some high-waisted strap-on harness options.
BumpHer
Speaking of strap-on play, the pink BumpHer might be a fun addition to your toybox. If you haven’t seen one before, this dildo base covering is pretty cool. Essentially, the BumpHer is hollow on the inside. You wrap the BumpHer’s material around the base of your dildo, tucking your dildo’s base into this hollow interior. This will attach the BumpHer to the base of your dildo, turning your dildo’s plain, flat base into a textured, hilly base that’s better for grinding against.
It’s designed to make it easier for a strap-on harness wearer to orgasm during strap-on sex. Heck yeah!
(I have a full review of the BumpHer, too, if you want more details!)
Ruff Doggie Styles Suede and Fluff Mini Flogger
The Ruff Doggie Styles brand is one of my favorites, and their Suede and Fluffy Mini Flogger is by-far one of my favorite floggers. It feels high-quality, but it also swings with the lightest touch to your bottom. It’s definitely a warm-up flogger or a flogger I pull out when someone likes the idea of flogging but isn’t in a place for heavy impact. It’s just adorable!
Ruff Doggie Styles Short Suede Flogger
If I want something with a bit more “oomph”, I’ll pull out this full-suede pink flogger by Ruff Doggie Styles. Same high-quality build, but now it has a nice thump, massage-y feel for the bottom during their flogging. I love how this one handles too.
Master Series Slim Kitty Ring Choker
This Master Series Slim Kitty Ring Choker has more going for it than just the pink; its hardware is also in the shape of a little kitty face. Just be careful if you plan on putting this on someone with an Adam’s apple. It’s adjustable to fit up to 16″ in circumference, and that kitty hardware will probably dig in if your wearer is nearing that 16″ max.
Stupid Cute Spanking Paddle
Stockroom has their entire “Stupid Cute” line full of pastel pink gear. High-quality stuff with the price to match, the Stupid Cute Spanking Paddle blows my mind with its adorable, sewn-in ribbon and bow.
Strict Bondage Harness with Bows
The Strict Bondage Harness with Bows is this cute, strappy hip harness that doubles as a bondage point with matching cuffs. The cuffs can be unclipped and reclipped to any O-ring along the hip harness itself, and the hip harness can be worn without the cuffs as lingerie or part of an outfit.
It’s a cute little set-up (and available in sizes up to 2XL).
WhyBeeNormal Cherry Pendant Nipple Clamps
I often see nipple clamps with pink charms, but I rarely see them with matching pink rubber tips. You get both in this set of nipple clamps with little dangling heart-cherry charms.
(If you’re new to nipple clamps, I have a ton of information about them – including whether this alligator-style clamp is a good beginner style. Spoiler, though: it is.)
Ruff Doggie Styles Double Heart Slapper
I haven’t used this one personally, but if you’re more of a paddling person, this Double Heart Slapper is absolutely adorable. Expect a whole lot of noise (as-is the standard for slappers!) that also comes with a pretty cute heart-laden visual.
Squish Paddle
Made from vegan leather, this super-cute, heart-shaped small business paddle offers a very different look from the standard spanking paddle. I really like it.
Liebe Seele Fairy Wrist Cuffs
Matching the ball gag from above (there’s actually an entire matching set), these wrist cuffs are so freakin’ pretty. From the white cuffs with pink accent to the rose gold matching hardware (which includes the chain to fasten the two cuffs together), I love this set.
KaysKittenCreations Pastel Pink Collar
I’m not used to seeing lace adorning a collar, and this one is absolutely adorable. From the jingling bell to the optional engraved tag and chains, this frilly collar stands out in a sea of BDSM collars.
(Just be aware that it ties with a ribbon in the back; it may not be the snuggest collar you’ve ever had.)
Sportsheets Whip & Tickle
If you love budget-friendly sensations with a long reach, that’s essentially what the Sportsheets Whip & Tickle “stick” is. On one end, you have a super soft, plushy ball of fur that’s great for sensual touch. On the other end, you have a rubber flogger that actually has some sting behind it.
While I don’t use these sensation play “sticks” as much as I used to, I still have a full collection of them, 15 years later. They work!
Updated: June 2024, March 2024.
