In case you missed it, I’m trying something new out: some semblance of a femdom podcast that’s focused on providing educational information for femdoms in an easy-to-listen-to format. No reading here; just listening to me talk about the topics – with all of the pauses and tangents that entails. (Hey, at least I nailed the audio. That’s some niiiice-sounding audio.) Today’s topic? Plus Size Strap On Sex Tips.
This “femdom podcast” audio focuses on plus size strap on tips – which is hard-as-hell to find on the internet. Turns out if you take two “niche” topics – like fat body size and plus size strap on sex – it becomes hard to find advice mixed for both of them.
This audio episode includes tips and tricks about pegging while you or your partners are thicker in body size. Most importantly, I’d argue, is getting a good strap-on harness and dildo – which we cover. You’ll probably want a longer dildo than many pegging peeps.
We also talk about pegging harnesses when your body is larger than the “largest” size that most strap-on harness companies make – including DIY options if budget or size limitations are causing issues.
I also talk about using sex furniture and props to find different ways to help your bodies fit together.
Open and active communication is pretty vital to make plus size strap on sex better for you both. You’re not expected to have sensation in the dildo – which means talking about things becomes even MORE important.
This dedication to open communication can help you both find positions that are more comfortable, discuss when you need to switch off as the active partner, and discuss ways to ensure you both get pleasure.
So, let’s dive straight into this femdom podcast episode all focused on plus size strap on sex tips:
This femdom education episode brought to you by NudeLive.
I recommended some products/information during the “femdom podcast” which you can find here:
- Sex positioning shapes/furniture: Liberator Wedge Plus-Size (adds extra width), Liberator Wedge. (I really need to update that review. It’s atrosciously old, and I still use the Wedge regularly.)
- My go-to pegging harness: the Spareparts Joque – which has gone up to 75″ hips for fit for me. I recommend any Spareparts harness – though their non-Joque varieties aren’t available in as large of sizes.
- Custom-made harnesses for thick bodies. I have one by Wild Wolf Leather but I know Emma Alamo does gorgeous stuff and measures for your body’s size.
- Low-cost harnesses for thicker bodies. I have their 55″ thigh harness (you may need to message them; they’re very inclusive-friendly for sizes. It’s the rainbow harness shown above!)
- Strap on harness made of rope: AFemmeCock had a gorgeous-looking rope strap on harness tutorial. Watts the Safeword has a less-pretty – but much more beginner-friendly – design. I almost exclusively use the Watts the Safeword design – but just modify it for using on my thighs.
- Get more pleasure out of pegging: how to help a woman orgasm from pegging.
- Enjoy better pegging: how to reduce a pegging poop mess.
- Find better positions with the best pegging positions for beginners.
- Learn more about thigh harnesses: Why I Prefer Thigh Dildo Strap-On Harnesses for Pegging
If you’re more of a reader (I got you), most of the same advice – without personal stories and all that – is included in my article over here.
