Sexual fetishes allow people to explore their kinky fantasies and add some variety to their sex lives. There are many different fetishes kinky people enjoy these days, but today, we are going to talk about having a foot fetish and include some tips for finding a good foot mistress. Finding a person who has the same fetish as you, depending on the fetish, may not be too hard, but finding a foot mistress who is compatible with you on all levels is definitely more of a challenge. After all, having a similar kink is only the first step. Do the two of you like the same thing about the kink? Do you have the same idea about a foot fetish scene outline? Are you looking to enter into the same type of relationship (whether casual, professional, dating, or otherwise)? That said, here are some of the tips that will help you meet the foot mistress of your dreams.
You Have to Know Where to Look
First of all, finding a foot mistress is not an easy thing to do. In general, most prodommes don’t talk about their job during family or friend get-togethers for the obvious reasons. This means that you probably won’t hear them talk about it on your best friend’s birthday party. No, if you want to meet a foot mistress of your dreams, you have to know where to look. The best places to look for these women are foot fetish websites, BDSM dungeons, and BDSM private parties. These places allow you to talk honestly about your fetish, and you’ll find that a professional dominant feels comfortable disclosing her career choice when she’s around people who understand it.
Choose a Woman You Find Arousing
Some people might say that a foot mistress doesn’t have to be attractive and beautiful because you are only interested in her feet. To be fair, this is somewhat true, but if you want to have a wonderful foot fetish experience, a foot mistress has to be beautiful as well. If someone is stepping on your body with their high heels and putting their feet in your mouth, there’s certainly more to them than just their feet. Beauty, of course, is in the eye of the beholder. Just hire a professional who looks beautiful to you.
Don’t Hire the Cheapest Foot Mistress
A lot of people are unpleasantly surprised when they see how much a BDSM mistress cost. If you are paying for your foot fetish session, you should be prepared to compensate your partner for a good treatment. You’re paying for her time and her expertise, and a lot of people don’t quite realize how much goes into running a prodomme business. It’s a high-risk business for your dominant’s safety, and aside from that, you have to remember how much time, money, and effort goes into knowing how to perfectly cater to your fantasies, to show up looking drop-dead gorgeous, to having a website and marketing and being available when you need her, and lots of other things.
Of course, compensation rates for a professional fetish dominant will vary from dominant to dominant. Most of them are pretty similar in range, though, so I’d highly recommend selecting a dominant based upon compatibility instead of hiring the cheapest rate. You’ll be much more-likely to enjoy yourself when you’re playing with someone who’s a good fit. Is it worth saving the $50 for a less-personalized experience?
Be Specific about the Things You Want Her to Do to You
This is one of the most important things you have to do when hiring a foot mistress. Remember, it doesn’t matter how good she is, she won’t be good enough for you if you don’t tell her what you like and what you want her to do. You might be in the position of a slave, but you are the one who is hiring her, and she’s there to make sure you enjoy yourself. Therefore, make sure to be very specific about your kinks. What do you like about foot fetishism? What are you looking to experience? Make sure what you’re hoping to experience doesn’t fall onto her “hard limits” list, and you both will have a much better time. She isn’t a mind-reader, and she’ll appreciate knowing how best to approach your foot fetish to ensure you leave happy and satisfied.
Make Sure to Find Someone Who Will Respect Your Agreement
When hiring a professional dominant, some people forget about their own safety. Your pleasure is important, but your safety should be your top priority. Luckily, most professional dominants are just there to do a job – and providing abuse or danger instead of pleasure will shove them out of business pretty quickly. However, that doesn’t mean some people don’t slip through the cracks. If possible, inquire about their reputation at BDSM events. If that’s not possible, consider a short online or phone call conversation before your session to relieve your doubts. If you’re still unsure, offer to compensate her to meet at a public place of your choosing in order to have an everyday conversation before hiring her for a playdate. And don’t forget to pay attention to third-party reviews (if possible!) before hiring!
