Penis strokers can be a blast; not only do they allow you to submerge yourself into fantasies, but they can provide hot visuals, completely different experiences from a hand, new sensations, and hands-free pleasure. Depending on how you use them, they can also be used for stamina training or kinky purposes too! But if you’re looking for a penis stroker for small penis, the wide variety can actually be a serious pain point.
That is, just like a lot of things in the world, there are hundreds of different “types” of penis strokers. While normally I applaud capitalism for things like this (more options means more chances to find something that works for your body!), it also means an overwhelming number of options – and hundreds of strokers on the market that may not be pleasurable for you.
Problems with finding a penis stroker for small penis aren’t just unique to those with smaller-than-average sizes either; believe it or not, the exact same problems can happen to those who are larger-than-average – or those with thinner than average or thicker-than-average widths. Turns out, most manufacturers just want to sell the most sex toys possible.
That’s all to say: none of this is a reflection on you or your body.
In the world of capitalism, it’s all because a company wants its product to appeal to the widest possible audience. In that case, it means catering to penises that are about 5.5″ in length. I have a similar issue trying to find g-spot toys for myself; my g-spot is extremely deep, and most g-spot toys are built for the average g-spot which is much shallower than my own. (And boy, has that been frustrating.)
It’s entirely possible to find a penis stroker for small penis, though. Many of the options out there will work for you; it’s just a matter of knowing what to look for – and what to avoid – to make more penis strokers work best for pleasuring your body.
So, if you’re looking for a penis stroker for small penis, let’s go through some tips to help you find one that’s actually going to work.
Pay Attention to Measurements
Especially if you’re buying online, it can be really tempting to just look at the pictures and then add the product to your cart. I’m not going to say I haven’t done that while shopping online.
When you’re looking for a penis stroker for small penises, though, this method can make things harder. It can be hard to estimate the size of something just through pictures alone, and you can end up with a stroker that’s gigantic – and may not be a good fit for you. (Do you know that full-size Fleshlights are about a foot long?)
Instead, after you find something that looks visually appealing, try to take the time to read the written description and see what the measurements are for the stroker. How does it compare to your length? How does its diameter compare to your width? Does the company list the unstretched and/or stretched diameter of it?
This can give you a good idea of whether this stroker is going to be a good fit for your pleasure.
Go for Soft, Squishy Strokers
Your #1 priority for finding a penis stroker for small penis is to look for strokers whose tightnesses are controlled by how firmly you grasp the stroker.
By selecting penis strokers that get tighter (or looser!) based on how tightly or loosely you grip the stroker, you can help customize the tightness to a point that’s pleasurable for you. You don’t have to worry so much about hoping the manufacturer made the internal chamber the correct tightness; you can simply tighten it up a bit more yourself by squeezing a bit more!
This means looking for a stroker that places your hand directly on the soft, squishy parts of the penis stroker without any cases, plastic bits, or mechanical action in-between you and the experience.
Which leads me to my next point…
Avoid Hard, Plastic Cases
The latest masturbation sleeve trend sees masturbation sleeves held within a hard, plastic case. This can help make long, wiggly strokers more compact and easier to handle with a single hand. An external plastic covering also makes it easier to travel with the stroker, protects it from hair and dust, and makes it easier to tuck into furniture for hands-free use of the penis stroker.
However, that same plastic case means you can’t tighten your hand around the stroker. With a penis stroker that’s inside of a plastic case, you’re stuck with the “default” tightness that the manufacturer designed for the stroker. When looking for a penis stroker for small penis, this could mean that the stroker’s internal chamber is simply too large to feel fantastic for you – and you won’t have an easy way to fix it.
So if you want to purchase a penis stroker in a plastic case, take an even-closer look at the measurements – including finding a measurement for the internal chamber’s diameter when at-rest. If possible, you may want to try to find a local brick-and-mortar store that has your potential penis stroker out on display in order for you to see how it feels on your fingers (as a comparison for how you think it might perform on penis).
(Protip: If you ended up buying a penis stroker with a plastic case, all isn’t lost! If possible, consider trying to use it without its plastic case. For some strokers, like the unwieldy Fleshlight, this will be a non-starter. For other strokers, however, this can be a viable way to get more sensation out of toy you already bought – even if it takes both hands to enjoy it.)
Look for Short, Open-Ended Strokers
Another option can be to go with penis strokers that don’t have a “set” penis length in mind. Think about a penis stroker that’s about 2″ in length – and has an open end on both ends. These types of “strokers for partnered use” have no set penis length in mind – and are designed to allow the shaft to poke through the opposing end of the stroker.
An example of this can look like the Quickshot:
See how it has a pretty short length – with two ends open for enjoyment? This can make penis length less of a concern.
With these types of strokers, though, thickness concerns may still impact your enjoyment, though, so try to pay attention to the measurements.
Penis Stroker for Small Penis: Read the Reviews
If you can get ahold of sex toy reviews for your potential penis stroker, try to read those. It can be a treasure trove of good information. If you see a lot of complaints about the stroker being too small – or too tight – it’s a good indication that this stroker runs on the smaller side of things. Another thing to look for can be complaints about “bottoming out” – or not being able to fit enough of the penis into the stroker.
On the other hand, complaints about the stroker being untextured or not stimulating are probably a giant red flag for you. Either the stroker isn’t very well designed (which, red flag on its own), or others are finding that their penis size isn’t able to touch the manufacturer-designed texture.
Consider Other Types of Sex Toys, Too
I’m not sure how large your penis is that you’re looking for a penis stroker for small penis. If you’re in the micropenis designation, you might find that finding a penis stroker can be particularly difficult. It’s still possible – no matter your length – but I’d recommend opening up your idea of penis pleasure toys, too.
Luckily, there’s an entire treasure trove of other types of sex toys you can explore. Consider looking for clitoral strokers (designed as strokers for large clitoris’s) and comparing measurements to see if that may be a good fit for you.
Think about giving vibrators a try; there are lots of penis vibrators on the market nowadays. Without the requirement of filling up an internal chamber to get the sensation, penis vibrators can provide a lot of pleasure (and orgasm, for many!) without penis size getting into the equation.
Penis Stroker for Small Penis Examples
Okay, so you have what to look for. But what does that look like in reality? Well, here are some stroker ideas I would recommend for a small penis:
Tenga Egg
This bad boy is the Tenga Egg. It looks like a tiny little “egg” until you place it onto the top of the shaft. Then you can use the stretchiness of the material to pull it down as far as you want. Since the Eggs use your hand as their level of tightness, they can be as tight – or as loose – as you want!
Only downside? The Eggs are designed to be semi-disposable. The Tenga GEO is the reusable version of the Eggs, but the material is a bit thicker and the starting shape is a bit wider which will require a tighter grip to get the same sensation.
Fleshlight Fleshskins Blue Ice
Think of this as a Fleshlight material – but without the case. Instead, to make it actually usable, Fleshlight built finger holes into the material itself. (Honestly, it feels pretty awesome, and I have an entire review over it.)
Because the stroker has no case and is super squishy, you can tighten your hand around your shaft as much (or as little) as you want for sensation. The Blue Ice is also about 5″ in total length, so you won’t be left with inches upon inches of excess material. (There’s a hole in the top of the Blue Ice for the penis tip to poke through if you’re longer than 5″)
No real downside to this one, honestly. It doesn’t leave a residue on your hands, it feels really fun to handle, and it comes with its own case.
Oh, okay, I do have one downside! Because the fingerholes are harder to get in and out of than a simple grip, you generally have to leave your hand in the Blue Ice throughout a use. You can’t easily stop stroking with it to two-hand something else.
Fleshlight QuickShot
If your concern is length, and not width, the Fleshlight Quickshot might be a good fit. Think of it as a super-short version of your favorite stroker varieties. Because the Quickshot has an insertable length of 3.5″, it can be a good option if you want the feeling of a plastic case. With a deliciously textured interior, the Quickshot feels fantastic without the standard length of a cased penis stroker.
However, if your width is what is making you seek out this article, avoid the Quickshot. It has the “plastic casing” we talked about earlier that may not make it a good fit for thinner widths.
Arcwave Voy
The Arcwave Voy also has a case – but hear me out: the Voy’s claim to fame is its adjustable width system. The Voy’s internal chamber can be tightened down – or loosened up – using the “Tightness Adjustment System” they’ve claimed. (If you’ve ever dealt with apertures, it’s essentially the same tech.)
This means that you can have your cake and eat it too! The plastic casing won’t necessarily get in the way of enjoying the stroker since internal mechanics will do the “work” we previously expected your hand to do.
As far as I can tell, the Arcwave Voy’s tightness system will adjust down to a diameter of 1.29″.
Sir Richards Vibrating Edging Trainer
If you’re open to vibrations instead of just stroking, the Sir Richards Vibrating Edging Trainer is probably one of the first options I’d start out with. The vibrations won’t be powerful as more expensive toys, but it can be a good one to dip in your toes.
Why? Because it features an open-ended, flexible design. This will let you “wrap around” those vibrations to any spot on your shaft – regardless of length or width. Unlike some penis vibrators, which are built to a specific diameter or length, this toy lets you wrap the vibrations around your customized size.
(The tunnel with, with no modifications, is a diameter of 0.95″ – workable for most widths!)
If you end up liking vibrations, the Lovense Gush or Fun Factory Manta (or Volta, depending on your diameter!) may be a good second step. The vibrations will get stronger, but they cost about 3 times as much too.
CalExotics Trans Masc Stroker
If you’re under 3″ but above 2″, I’d recommend this stroker. While it is designed for clitoral use for those with a large clitoris, it works just as fantastically for penile use. It features a cylindrical design complete with internal texture and a closed end for additional suction. While CalExotics isn’t my favorite company to recommend, this could end up being a really good fit if you’re finding that most of your penis stroker for small penis options aren’t a good fit for you.
Shotpocket Pleasure Sleeve
Another sleeve designed for enlarged clitoral use, the Shotpocket Pleasure Sleeve could be a good fit if you’re under 2″. Reviewers wish it had a bit more texture, but the additional, plushy layer around the shaft and the added suction are likely to be a fantastic addition to your stroker play if you’re finding that other strokers are much too large.
Avoid These for a Penis Stroker for Small Penis
And avoid these types of strokers when looking for a penis stroker for small penis:
Penis Strokers with a Plastic Case
Most full-sized Fleshlights. See how these bad boys all have plastic cases that prevent you from handling the interior stroker at all? If your penis doesn’t fit the manufacturer’s expected measurements, it’ll be hard for you to get the tightness that you’re looking for in a stroker. Which means it’ll be loose and not all that stimulating.
Boo.
(And this isn’t your fault either! A) Fleshlight makes stupid-big strokers. A foot-long stroker is unnecessary for virtually anyone. B) People with vaginas have a similar issue with rabbit vibrators too. A manufacturer has to build them to some specification, and it regularly means they won’t fit your unique anatomy!)
KIIROO KEON. I love the shit out of my KEON, but it is plastic layer upon plastic layer. If you don’t fit the manufacturer’s specs for their sleeve, it is going to be wildly disappointing.
(If you’re really jonesing for a sex machine stroker experience, the Quickshot, from the above recommendations, can be used in the Fleshlight Quickshot Launch, so you can still have that sex machine fun!)
“Pleasure Spots” at a Specific Depth
Arcwave Ion. You’re going to want to avoid toys that hide the “money spot” at a specific depth. In the case of the Arcwave Ion, the air suction sensations are near the tip of the toy. This means the shaft needs to make it almost to the end of the toy to get the sensations that the toy is designed for.
While the Arcwave Ion has a unique design (air suction), this type of design can apply to a lot of other toys as well. For example, if you purchase a stroker that features a “swirling tip”, if your shaft doesn’t reach the tip, you won’t be able to enjoy that expensive feature you purchased.
So keep an eye out!
Too Much Length or Width
“But Mistress Kay,” you say. “I followed all your instructions. This one above doesn’t have a case. The texture is all the way through. It’s soft. It’s open ended. Why isn’t this a good fit?”
You’re right. You did. Honestly, at first glance, this might seem like a perfect option. And you could probably use it without a second thought.
But this example clocks in at 7″ in length with a width of 3″. Neither of those are necessarily a dealbreaker, but depending on where your concern is (length or width), you might find this stroker more frustrating than necessary.
For example, if you have a length of 4″, that means 3″ of stroker is just going to be always flopping around at the tip of your penis while you use it. If you have a width of 1.2″, that means you need to squeeze through about 2″ of space to get it to feel snug (talk about a grip workout!)
So even if something looks fantastic at first glance, double check the measurements to make sure it’s a good fit for your body.
Originally Published: August 10, 2022.
Updated: March 2024, February 2024, December 2022.
