Sex Advice

This is a small collection of sexual advice articles I’ve written. If any of it interests you, feel free to check it out. (Some of these links may lead to other websites I’ve written for, but all of the websites I list here are just as “safe for work” as Kinky World is.)

Healthy Self-Focused Sex Life
How Sex Journaling Can Improve Your Sex Life
How to Break the Cycle of Performance Anxiety

Healthy Relationships
Setting up a “Relationship Agreement”
These 5 Books Will Answer All Your Questions About Polyamory

Sex Positions
6 Sex Positions Made for Big, Beautiful Bodies
8 Shower Sex Positions That are Both Possible and Fantastic

Erotica
How to Find Good Erotica

Sex Toy Stores
5 Tips for Finding a Brick-and-Mortar Sex-Positive Sex Toy Store

Sex Toy Recommendations
Vegan Toy Suggestions for Strap-On Play
Sexy(ish) Gift Suggestions that Are Perfect for a New Partner

Sex Toys
Vibrator Basics
Options for Sex Toys for Men
How to Choose a Vibrator
Help! My Vibrator Won’t Turn On
Help! My Partner is Afraid of Sex Toys!
Using Sex Toys Completely Hands-Free
9 Ways to Use a Wand Massager in the Bedroom
How to Use a Rabbit Vibrator to Rock Blended Orgasms

Pegging
The Step-by-Step Guide to Giving Your First Pegging
A Beginner’s Guide to Strap-On Sex
Pegging: Everything You Need to Know to Make It Pleasurable for You and Your Partner
Pegging Tips for Plus-Sized People
How To Build Your Own, Personalized Strap-On Kit
How One Woman Went from Hating Pegging to Making It a Weekly Part of her Sex Life

Buying Sex Toys
10 Steps for Choosing a Vibrator
8 Steps to Choosing a Dildo
7 Steps to Choosing a Male Masturbation Sleeve
7 Steps to Choosing a Cock Ring
6 Steps to Choosing Sex Furniture
6 Steps to Choosing Bondage Restraints
6 Steps to Choosing a Flogger
6 Steps for Choosing Kegel Exercisers
5 Steps for Choosing Nipple Clamps
Top 4 Types of Anal Toys for Beginners
8 Steps to Purchasing a Sex Machine
8 Tips for Choosing a Butt Plug
8 Steps for Choosing a Prostate Massager
5 Unique Toys Designed for Temperature Play
7 Things to Think About When Choosing a Wand Massager
7 Tips for Choosing a Squirting Dildo
5 Tips for Choosing Anal Beads
8 Tips for Choosing the Slipperiest, Sexiest, Most Satisfying Lube for You
7 Tips for Purchasing Giant Sex Toys
8 Tips for Buying Your First Sex Swing
6 Tips for Purchasing a Penis Pump
Yes, You Can Find Body-Safe, Affordable Sex Toys

Lubricant
7 Fun Ways to Use Flavored Lube

Male Sex Toys (Sex Toys for a Penis)
How to Improve your Fleshlight Experience
Different Sexual Positions for the Fleshlight Top Dog Mount
Should I Buy a Fleshlight?
8 Steps for Choosing a Strap-On Harness for Men
6 Tips for Purchasing a Penis Pump

Anal Pleasure
Beginner’s Guide to Anal Stretching
How to Use an Anal Training Kit
Plugs and Beads: How to Get Started With Anal Sex Toys

Uses for (Surprisingly!) Sexy Items
Bondage with your Sexy Suction Cuffs
Finding Cheap Kink Toys (AKA Pervertables)
How to Use your Webcam as a Sex Toy

Having Good Sex
Tips for Having Sex in the Water
Sexy Roleplay Ideas
8 Tips to Make Roleplay Sexy – Not Silly
6 Tips for Having Multiple Orgasms
10 Ways to Prioritize Sexual Intimacy on a Busy Vacation
5 Tips for Finding that Elusive “Nipplegasm”
How to Have Multiple Orgasms Using Sex Toys
Explore the Unforgottable Blended Orgasm
How to Have Period Sex – with No Mess
How to Deep Throat
Top Solo Sex Tips for Vulva-Owners

Keeping It Secret
Keeping Your Sex Life Private in An Apartment
Keeping Your Sex Life Private when Living with Others
Creative Ways to Hide your Sex Toys (and Still Be Able to Find Them)
13 Ways to Keep Your Masturbation Discreet with Others in the House

The Social Aspect
Finding Kinky Friends in Not-So-Kinky Areas
How to Introduce Your Partner to Kinky Sex
Guys Tips for Successfully Using CraigsList to Hook-Up
8 Reasons Why You Might Love a Sex Convention

Your Perfect…
Pick Your Perfect Strap-On Harness
Pick Your Perfect Beginner G-Spot Toy
Pick Your Perfect Anal Toy