There’s no denying that feeling the freedom to explore your own sexual fetishes can be really healthy. This exploration allows people to explore their bodies and sexual fantasies, which in turn improves their sex lives. However, being that most fetishes are not completely “accepted” as the norm in our society, finding other kinky people can be difficult. Kinksters tend to hide from the public and the case is the same with men and women who have a latex fetish. Therefore, if you have this kink and you want to find other latex fetishists, you might have to get a bit creative to find others who share your interest. Here are the five easiest places to start:
Kinky Sex Shops
If you’re lucky enough to live in a progressive and populated enough area that you have a local brick-and-mortar kink shop, this might be one of your first places to stop. While non-kinksters and kinksters alike tend to utilize a local sex toy shop, kinky sex shops (like those that sell bondage equipment and more!) tend to draw the kinky people. Many kink shops (if you have one!) are the “pulse” of the local scene – and might host regular events or classes as well! This can be a great place to start when you’re looking to meet other latex fetishists.
Specialized Dating Sites
Finding other latex lovers isn’t quite as easy as just “finding other kinky people”. Not all kinksters are into latex – and in fact, some kinksters are pretty allergic to it! This means that you might find your best luck with specialized dating sites. In the age of internet dating and meet-ups, it’s a lot easier to find specialized sites for people who are into exactly what you are! All you have to do is spend a few days working on your account and you will be able to meet other latex lovers. Just don’t forget to put your best foot forward!
Dating Apps for Kinky People
If you lead a busy lifestyle, creating and using an account on a dating site might be too complicated and time-consuming for you. If that is the case, don’t worry; there are a few of dating apps for kinky people that are much simpler to use. Making an account on some of these apps is easy and will help you find kinky people living nearby. Just make sure to take your privacy settings and comfortability into account. Some of these apps are specifically designed for location-based “hook-ups” – and if that’s not what you’re interested in or comfortable with, it might not be a good fit for you.
BDSM Dungeons
If you’re serious about your latex fetish, you should probably visit your local BDSM dungeons. You might think that your area doesn’t have these dungeons, but trust us; they are there, perfectly hidden from the judgmental public. (Depending on where you live, you might need to drive an hour or two, though!) Finding these dungeons won’t be an easy feat, but if you ask some of the folks you meet at your local sex shop, via kinky websites, or on fetish dating apps, we’re sure that they will help you find them. Visiting these dungeons allows you to surround yourself with people who understand your kinks and have kinks of their own! Just make sure to ask about the dungeon’s latex policies if you plan on going in full-latex! Due to allergies, some dungeons don’t allow latex during specific events.
Private Parties for Fetishists
Public dungeons are not for everyone. Some people are simply not comfortable with that setting and they want to enjoy their latex fetish in a more relaxed environment. If you are the same way, you can ask some of the people you’ve met on BDSM dating sites or in dungeons and see if they know someone who organizes private parties for fetishists. These private parties have a much more exclusive guest list (and probably a whole lot less kink furniture!), but they might be an option if your local BDSM dungeon isn’t a good fit for you. (I know that I, in particular, love the quiet atmosphere of a private party compared to the loud music of most BDSM dungeons!) However, be aware that private parties are, by their nature, private. You’ll need to “earn” your way into an invitation, and it usually comes by being active in the community.
