Sexy Roleplay Ideas

May 02nd, 15   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comment

Looking to liven up your bedroom time with your partner? There are tons of options: BDSM, sex toys, new positions, and more. However, some people choose to try roleplaying. Roleplaying allows both you and your partner to “pretend” to be people that you really aren’t. This allows you both to experiment with pleasurable and kinky roles that may not be otherwise (socially or practically) possible.

Have no idea where to start? This list of general ideas will give you a good idea of some roleplay ideas to experiment with.

  • Student/Teacher: One of the favored classics. Whether you want to pretend it’s a college course or a high school course (or maybe even just a library lecture), you can have a lot of fun with this. There’s something attractive about someone who is very knowledgable about what they’re teaching. Your roleplay can happen right after class or when you come in for a private “help” session – or maybe you just need to do a special “something” for that grade you need to graduate.
  • Police Officer/Offender: Uh oh – is someone misbehaving? The police officer can set them right! Local adult stores will sell handcuffs if you’re interested, but make sure to use the handcuffs with care. For a more public thrill, if you own two cars, have the “officer” pull over the first car, and let your imaginations take you from there. Of course, always ensure safety and legality when doing anything in public and near vehicles.
  • Nurse/Patient: While this might not be so enjoyable if someone is sick, it can be a fun way to experiment with the nurse/patient dynamic. It’s especially easy to pick up all sorts of creative costume accessories for a nurse outfit right around Halloween.
  • Callgirl/Client: You can get really creative with this one. If you want a weekend away from “home” without actually going out of town, consider booking a room at a local hotel and roleplaying this fun scene. The callgirl can be as high-class and expensive-looking as you both prefer. Don’t forget the money as well. Play money can work, but some people say there’s a special “thrill” about actually having real money involved for this fantasy.
  • Boss/Employee: While this one isn’t so fun in the actual workplace, it could be an enjoyable adventure for the two of you in your bedroom. This would work especially well with one person doing bookkeeping/bills while the other person interrupts with their sensual plan. (Of course, make sure this is consented to ahead of time)
  • Potential Employer/Interview Candidate: Just like some popular adult videos, this can be a fun one to play out. The inherent “power difference” between an employer and someone who needs a job can make it fun. All it requires is a pretend “job” to apply for as well as two different types of seating. This could be particularly fun in a home office.
  • Vampire/Victim: With the popularity of vampire novels and movies, this could be a fun one to play out. If you have a partner who especially loves biting, this one could be perfect for you.
  • Stranger/Stranger: This one tends to work best in an agreed upon public place where sexual tensions tend to run high – such as a bar or night club. Pretend you don’t know each other and enjoy the flirtation. Depending on how much you enjoy the show, you may want to make it obvious to one another that the two of you “just met” and will be going home together. It’s really up to your imagination!

While you don’t need anything in order to roleplay, you both may find it more realistic if you purchase accessories to go with your costumes. Adult fancy dress ideas may allow you both to see each other as your “roles” instead of the partners that you’re accustomed to. If possible, you may enjoy setting up a time “ahead of time”. This allows you both to meet up in your prospective roles instead of staring at each other and going “Okay! Now I’m this person!” For many people, meeting up gives you the personal time you need to make that mental transition into making the situation more believable. Of course, experiment with what method works best for your partner and yourself for the best results.




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