Fetish Soft PU Leather Arm Binder Harness Review

June 30th, 16   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   1 Comment »
Fetish Soft PU Leather Arm Binder Harness

Fetish Soft PU Leather Arm Binder Harness

If you’re looking for affordable bondage toys, the Fetish Soft PU Leather Arm Binder Harness is where it’s at. Made from a soft PU leather, this arm binder offers adjustable sizing – it can be adjusted at the shoulders, upper arms, and lower arms. The interior is the backside of the PU material and is a clear white/unfinished material while the exterior is the soft, shiny PU imitation leather. The entire bondage item can be folded up pretty easily into a smaller package for storage.

You should be aware that this Leather Arm Binder Harness has a bunch of straps that you’ll need to put on. It’s pretty standard for an arm binder, but without instructions, it might take a bit of trial and error to figure out where you want everything. There are two straps that run from the arm binder itself, over the shoulders, and attach to the armbinder again. There’s a waist strap that looks like it was designed to hold the armbinder against the waist. There’s a small strap along the wrist area that tightens that area even tighter if need be. And of course, there’s the corset-like lacing throughout the entire binder that will make things tighter if necessary.

Fetish Soft PU Leather Arm Binder Harness

Corset lacing along the interior sides

You’re going to find the that waist strap is probably not going to fit, well, most humans. This was tried on someone with a 38″ waist, and it wouldn’t go around. I’d say that you need a waist of 34″ or smaller for a comfortable fit. However, if you turn the waist strap around, you can run it around the upper arms in the binder instead of running it around the waist – or you could remove the strap entirely. Putting it along the upper arms would allow you to get more tightness for the bind, however, if you prefer. It’s easy to remove it as well.

In terms of price, you probably aren’t going to find another more affordable arm binder out there. Especially for anyone buying multiple copies, this armbinder becomes particularly affordable. Some of that is reflected in the quality and the materials chosen, but for anyone that wants to start experimenting with armbinders or isn’t expecting a life-time purchase, this can work just fine for binding without any safety concerns.

Durability-wise, it will work. It’s clearly not thick, durable leather that’s going to hold in a very, very squirmy adult, but it definitely works to restrain someone who’s sole purpose isn’t to escape the bondage. The seams are finished, and I haven’t found any issues with any of the pieces coming apart after multiple uses. You’ll probably start to experience some failure along the shoulder buckles if you use the restraint regularly on the tightest setting you can manage, but it’s still going to take awhile before that happens.

While you’re using it, though, it definitely has the look you’re going for. While it’s not real leather, it still has a nice shininess to it that looks very “dungeon-esque”. It isn’t a very breathable material, so some sweating may happen as the person wears it. Expect the arms to feel relatively cold after your captive is released. When the arm binder is on,

If you’re looking for inescapeable, you may need to get a bit creative to make this arm binder entirely unescapable. If you tie it on tightly, it is definitely difficult to remove for the wearer. However, it isn’t entirely unescapable. If you’re looking to make it unescapable, adding a bit of tension on the front to grip the two shoulder straps together should make it a lot harder to get out of. (A belt, rope, etc. would work)

Fetish Soft PU Leather Arm Binder Harness

Tightening area near the wrists

When it comes to comfort, the Soft PU Leather Arm Binder works just fine. Like mentioned before, it isn’t too breathable, but it’s noticeably comfortable – even for longer limbs. It’ll hold someone in position without making them hurt – which is what good bondage should do. The material isn’t a soft, finished material on the inside, but it isn’t scratchy, so it’s tolerable.

This Soft PU Leather Arm Binder really shouldn’t get too much bodily fluids on it which should make it simple to keep clean. However, for regular cleanings, you will want to take a slightly damp washcloth and wipe the entire thing down. You may add a bit of soap to the washcloth, but be careful. Some leather materials don’t react too well to a lot of added soap.

Overall, if you’re looking for a good arm binder in a limited budget, this arm binder is going to be a great choice. It may not be the most sturdy armbinder out there, and it may not last year years to come, but it will do what you want it to do without costing a fortune, and it should fit most sizes without too much of a problem. Thanks to DealsMachine for providing this affordable bondage arm binder from their adult toys and games category for my Soft PU Leather Arm Binder Harness review.

B-Vibe Wireless Rimming Butt Plug Review

June 21st, 16   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »
B-Vibe Wireless Rimming Butt Plug

B-Vibe Wireless Rimming Butt Plug Complete Set

If you’re ready to experience the latest in wireless anal plug pleasure, you’re ready for the B-Vibe butt plug. Available in black or blue, this plug is made from seamless silicone and is splashproof. The toy offers wireless and on-toy control of the vibrations, and the toy is fully rechargeable via a magnetic design. This silicone plug is 6.1″ in total length with an insertable length of 4.8″ and a width of 1.5″. While the plug itself offers vibrations in the tip, the retention area is equipped with interior beads that move for a rimming sensation. It’s definitely the first type of anal toy of its kind!

B-Vibe Wireless Rimming Butt Plug

Wireless or manual control

The packaging for this plug befits its luxury design. The packaging is blue and black and very modern. The interior package is a sturdy cardboard box while the exterior cardboard slipcover includes a ton of helpful information on the packaging. Opening up the packaging is where things start to be impressive, however. Unlike any other sex toy I’ve seen, the B-Vibe comes with a sturdy, zipper-close metallic case. It holds its shape wonderfully, looks gorgeous, and offers structured support for the plug and the plug accessories (cord, remote). As it’s lacking in any type of obvious branding, it’s perfect for long-term discreet storage. It’s pretty much a perfect way to store this sex toy, and I’d be lying if I said that it didn’t increase my opinion of the plug at first glance.

B-Vibe Wireless Rimming Butt Plug

Showing how well the plug fits in the case with all accessories

Before you consider picking up the B Vibe rimming anal toy, make sure you have a bit of anal experience under your belt. While the B Vibe has a nice tapered tip and a standard butt plug design, the size itself is not exactly slim. While this is a fantastic design that helps keep the plug in a bit better, probably made space for more sensations in the rimming and vibration department, it’s a lot larger than a standard beginner plug. It’s nothing unreasonable, but it’s probably thicker than some human penises out there (but not by much). You’ll want to have some experience with at-least-average anal toys before you attempt to use the B Vibe.

Once you have the plug, though, you’ll be pretty satisfied with the standard, streamlined design. The design’s clear focus was providing a filling sensation without offering anything that will distract from the rimming sensation of the base. The silicone that covers the plug is nice and smooth, and there are no aggravating seams to be concerned about. Unlike many anal plugs, however, it has virtually no flexibility to it. Expect this material to be as thick as it feels; it doesn’t offer any flexibility or squishiness to it which means that sitting down with this plug in is akin to sitting down on a 5″ tall object – and yes, that’s a lot of sensation.

B-Vibe Wireless Rimming Butt Plug

Battery-operated remote control. Comes with initial battery

Before you do much else, you should always ensure your sex toy is fully charged and ready to go. The remote uses a button-type battery (a 2032, I think) which is available at many stores in the battery section. The plug itself is rechargeable. There are two metal prongs on the base of the plug that magnetically connect to the magnets of the magnetic charger. They just snap together when they’re near each other, and it’ll charge the plug relatively quickly with no fuss. The plug comes with a plug-to-USB cable, but you’ll need to either use a USB-enabled device to charge it or plug it into a USB-compatible wall outlet.

B-Vibe Wireless Rimming Butt Plug

Manual or wireless controls

Controlling the B Vibe was designed to be pretty simple. You’ll have to turn on both the remote and the vibrator. The vibrator itself may be locked from storage, but pressing the button under the toy makes it unlock pretty quickly. Once there, they connect effortlessly. Done. As long as you leave the butt plug’s power on, you can turn the vibrations and rimming feature on and off at will with the power button on the remote. The remote allows you to increase and decrease the power intensity as well as cycle through all of the available patterns (and increase and decrease the power on each one of the patterns as well).

B-Vibe Wireless Rimming Butt Plug

The packaging for the B-Vibe Wireless Rimming Butt Plug

As for the range, I’m extremely impressed. This is DEFINITELY designed for use in public – you’ll have no problems with it. It’s fantastic and has no cut-outs when inserted and played with at home. When adding clothes, still no problem. This makes it particularly well-suited to public play. It responds really well to all button presses you do, and I had no problem controlling it while I was sitting in a separate room as my partner went into another room. It still responded wonderfully.

My only complaint with using the remote to control the plug is the fact that it leaves the remote-holder guessing as to what the plug-wearer is feeling. Some remotes offer corresponding LED lights that may blink or display to the pattern that the plug is using. This one does not. It only has a light that turns on when the plug is on – and off when the plug is turned off. This doesn’t help me figure out if I’m putting him through the lowest intensity of a pattern – or the highest intensity of a steady-state vibration. That’s probably my biggest complaint about the plug and remote; I’d love to have more knowledge to interact better with what he’s going through.

B-Vibe Wireless Rimming Butt Plug

Control buttons on the B-Vibe Wireless Rimming Butt Plug

For those of you who don’t always have a partner around or hate fussing with wireless, the plug was designed for manual use as well. There is a button on the base of the B Vibe plug. Holding the button turns on the toy, and subsequent pressing will cycle through the various vibration modes – no wireless remote required! For those of you who (will remain nameless) who regularly lose the remote for things, this is a great way to still enjoy the plug without a frustrating couch search. You can access all of the regular features from the wireless remote from the base of the vibrator.

Now, as anyone who has used a rabbit vibrator with “beads” can attest, some of these beads are just known for locking up as soon as anything stronger than a breeze wraps around it. I’m happy to report that it isn’t a problem for the B Vibe. Yes, on some of the slower settings, intentionally clenching will lock up the beads and keep them from moving much. On the higher settings, though, even intentionally clenching doesn’t stop the beads. It may jam them enough to produce a whining sound (if you’re *trying* to stop them from moving), but it definitely doesn’t stop the sensation. If using this in public, I recommend not trying to resist the pleasure – unless you want people around you to know what’s going on by the whining noise. (Which is probably not what the manufacturers intended but I think it’s a nice by-product). The whining noise doesn’t happen under regular circumstances like the clenching of orgasm or near-orgasm spasms.

B-Vibe Wireless Rimming Butt Plug

Showing the body of the plug

As for the pleasure it provides, the B Vibe does a fantastic – and very different – job than most plugs. The vibrations are pretty standard. They’re pleasurable – and they can be intense. As-in, they can easily be felt if someone else touches the wearer’s abdomen. The rimming is really where the unique sensation is, though. It provides an intense additional pleasure to one of the most sensitive anal areas.

The “rimming” sensation, while pleasurable, may take a bit to get used to. I’d recommend at least turning at on at home before venturing outside. The “rimming” stimulates a lot of the areas that most plugs don’t, and it can feel like the plug is sliding out – when it isn’t. Once you’re confident the plug isn’t going anywhere, it’s a whole lot easier to just enjoy the unique sensation.

B-Vibe Wireless Rimming Butt Plug

Showing the decent width of the B-Vibe Wireless Rimming Butt Plug

That being said, the plug DOESN’T slide out. Depending on how experienced you are with larger toys, you might want to take it out after a bit because of the large size, but it doesn’t slide out on its own. Even when dressing, undressing, walking, sitting, lounging, etc. It had absolutely no problem staying in.

The only downside for wearing the B-Vibe is the base. Probably to help support the rimming action, the base of the B Vibe plug is particularly large. It isn’t uncomfortable during walking or other movements, but especially on hard surfaces, it can become uncomfortable to sit on – pretty awkward, really. It doesn’t seem to be too much of an issue with soft materials like couches but even a barely-padded restaurant bench was enough to require regular readjustments in position.

B-Vibe Wireless Rimming Butt Plug

Internal packaging set-up

For us, the anal plug wasn’t hands-free orgasmic, but it was pretty darn close. Depending on how easily you orgasm from anal stimulation, you may find yourself doing just fine with just this plug.

When it comes to cleaning, B Vibe makes it easy. It IS NOT waterproof, so don’t submerge it, but it is splashproof to make it easier to clean. After use, you’ll want to rinse the plug under warm water and use a mild soap to clean it. Make sure it’s dry before you put it away and then store it outside of direct sunlight (might I recommend with the remote and charging cable?) For lube, you can use water-based lubricants – though some silicone-based lubricants might work if you make sure to spot test a small area on the base before slathering it up.

Testing the plug in public

Testing the plug in public

Overall, the B-Vibe rimming anal plug is a fantastic plug for those with a little bit of anal experience under their belt. The wireless controls are absolutely flawless – even with actual, practical use in public. The plug offers an intense mixture of rimming and vibrations that are bound to make this one of your favorite toys in your collection. I’m really looking forward to seeing what new toys the company comes out with next. Thanks to B-Vibe for providing this wireless rimming anal toy for my B-Vibe review.

Exxxotica 2016: Midwest Sex-Inclusive Event in July!

June 13th, 16   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   1 Comment »

Exxxotica 2016: Midwest Sex-Inclusive Event

Sex toys, vaping, adult starlets, dance performances, swinging, kink, education, and more! That’s what you can expect to find at Exxxotica 2016. Coming to Chicago, IL, Columbus, OH, and Edison, NJ, Exxxotica is a public-friendly conference about all things sex. While it focuses on scatily-clad women, adult toys, and adult actresses, the conference offers a good amount of material for anyone that considers themselves sex-positive or sex-curious.

Since the Midwest rarely gets any such conferences, I think people should be particularly excited about the Chicago location. While their plans for a Texas location fell through due to problems with locals in the area, they still have quite a few stops to make this year including Columbus, Chicago, and Edison.

Exxxotica 2016: Midwest Sex-Inclusive Event

Exxxotica 2016: Midwest Sex-Inclusive Event

Exxxotica 2016: Midwest Sex-Inclusive Event

Exxxotica 2016: Midwest Sex-Inclusive Event

Exxxotica 2016: Midwest Sex-Inclusive Event

I headed out to the Chicago location last year, and yes, it’s about as awesome as it sounds. Last year was a blast. I saw and chatted with quite a few adult stars, browsed and purchased a ton of sex toys, watched someone work their artistic skills with nude body painting, saw life-size adult dolls, experienced a Sybian, attended a swinger’s meet-up, watched some great performers, and more. It was definitely an awesome way to spend a Friday night.

The conference runs a full weekend with Friday night being “Ladies Free” night. This year, the Chicago Conference is going to run July 8th through 10th.

Thinking about going this year? Well, you’re not alone. This year, you’re looking at female-on-female wrestling, a super-sexy cosplay contest, male erotic dancers, multiple kink/fetish performances, vacation giveaways, swingers parties, intense afterparties, tons of sex toy vendors and kink vendors, and much more! You can also enjoy appearances by Nina Hartley, Teagan Presley, Mick Blue, Alexis Texas, Stoya, Misty Stone, Sunny Lane, Ron Jeremy, Rubber Doll, Julia Ann, Stormy Daniels, Evan Stone, and a ton more.

Check out the Exxxotica website for information about Chicago (in particular) or the Columbus or Edison Exxxotica sex shows. If you’re a lady wanting to get on Friday, check out their Ladies Free Friday website to get registered (you need to register in advance).

Exxxotica 2016: Midwest Sex-Inclusive Event

Exxxotica 2016: Midwest Sex-Inclusive Event

Exxxotica 2016: Midwest Sex-Inclusive Event

Exxxotica 2016: Midwest Sex-Inclusive Event

Exxxotica 2016: Midwest Sex-Inclusive Event

IMToy Candy App-Controlled Kegel Exerciser Review

June 01st, 16   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   1 Comment »
IM Toy Candy Bluetooth Kegel Exerciser

IM Toy Candy Bluetooth Kegel Exerciser

If you’re looking to improve vaginal strength for overall better body health, the IMToy Candy is one of the more-advanced options out there. Built as a single-ball kegel exerciser, this toy is built with the gentle helping hand of technology. At 33mm in size and made from slick, silicone material, this toy is waterproof and its compatible app is designed to work with both Apple and Android products. The Candy comes with a wireless charging dock that also doubles as a UV sterilization station to ensure that your Candy kegel exerciser is always clean and ready to go.

The packaging for the Candy kegel exercise is thorough enough to make it easy to set-up. With a tech-connected device like this, I always worry. With this toy, however, you’re going to be impressed as you open it up. The Candy kegel ball is packed away inside its docking port which is stored inside a sturdy cardboard box with a cardboard slipcover. You’ll find an instruction manual, the charging dock, the charging dock cover, Candy itself, and a cord to power the charging dock. Everything packs up really nicely back into the original box, but honestly, with the charging dock and the cover, there’s no reason to need to put it back into the original box for standard bedside storage. It’s already pretty discreet.

IM Toy Candy Bluetooth Kegel Exerciser

What Comes in the Kit

A personal nitpick is the horrendous instructions. The instructions are *thorough*, but there are so many misspellings and bad grammar on it that it hurts. Since a lot of the company and website looks to be English-based, it’s really odd that the manual doesn’t look like someone even ran spellcheck on it.

I must admit: this is the first time I think I’ve ever had to review how well a sex toy connects to a cell phone. This is new! I have a Samsung Galaxy Note 5, and the vibrator’s app works just fine on my phone. It’s a relatively small app, and it doesn’t take long to install itself. Upon opening, it will want you to imput your personal details as well as create an account on their website. It’s a pretty painless process.

IM Toy Candy Bluetooth Kegel Exerciser

IM Toy Candy Bluetooth Kegel Exerciser sitting in the holder

The vibrator DOES a bit more painful if you forget to connect the Candy sex toy to your app before inserting. Before you actively insert the toy into yourself, you need to make sure to pair it with the app. You can’t pair it once the toy is inserted. You’ll get used to this chain of events after awhile, but it also means that if you wanted to double-up workouts, you’ll need to remove the toy to reconnect it to the app then insert it again. Not deathly annoying, but for this girl (who hates lube on her hands), it’s not my favorite.

What is that chain of events? It’s pretty simple – you just have to get used to the order. First, turn on the Candy vibrator. You’ll need to have Bluetooth on on your phone and to open the app. They’ll connect pretty easily to one another. You then need to add some lube to your kegel exerciser, and it’s time to slide it in. Once you have, you can begin your training program with the app, and it will provide vibrations to help nudge you along your training program. This isn’t an orgasmic toy – the vibrations are gentle. You can feel them, but they won’t be earth-shattering.

As you do your kegel exercises, the app will notify you about how far you’ve done and how long you are until you’re done. It has standard kegel exercises recommended by professionals such as tightening and holding, pulsing, etc. Some of the exercises include movement, too, like using the kegel exerciser during squats or while walking or climbing stairs. Each one of the workouts seems to be less than 10 minutes in length. To ensure you stick to a good schedule, the app also lets you set it up to provide a push notification reminder to your phone to do your next session.

IM Toy Candy Bluetooth Kegel Exerciser

The discreet case for the kegel exerciser

I was a bit surprised to find that it doesn’t seem to record anything about how tightly you clench or how intensely you grip the ball. It seemed like, with the technology that it offers and that some similar kegel items are out there claiming they can do that, that the Candy doesn’t offer such a feature. It will transmit data after your session about whether you finished the session or not, but I don’t have any cold, hard numbers to tell me whether the kegel exercises are making me tighter. I’m a bit of a number nerd, so I’m a bit sad. I was hoping to see whether morning weight lifting would make a difference or whether a night of drinking the night before might slow my reflexes – things like that. However, it doesn’t provide those numbers. It just tells you whether you finished the program or not.

As for the Candy Kegel ball itself, it’s a pretty manageable kegel ball. It’s 33mm in diameter which puts it at about the size of other standard kegel exercisers such as FunFactory’s UNO and DUO. It’s made from a super-silky silicone that feels really smooth against the hands. The retrieval string is made of the same, luxurious soft silicone. The retrieval string isn’t stretchy at all; it’s actually very stable. Don’t worry about it “snapping” back at you like a rubber band if you accidentally lose grip of it while covered in lube. It stays exactly where you put it – but it’s flexible enough to feel comfortable against your body if you choose to use the Candy kegel exerciser for fun out in public while wearing clothes as well. It has the single button on it that’s extremely easy to press with fingers. It shouldn’t accidentally get pressed with internal muscles with the design of the toy.

Another outstanding feature of the IMToy Candy is its charging base. Not only does this base function to charge the Candy kegel exerciser (taking 5 hours and including helpful lights that let you know when it’s done), but when the base is flipped over, it offers a UV sterilization light. With a magnet in the center that wirelessly connects to the Candy on the flat platform, it holds the toy in place as you close the lid, and it’ll clean the toy using ultraviolet light when you’re done with the toy. The base can just be turned right-side up, and it offers wireless charging. This multi-functional base just has a simple plug-in on one of the sides that powers the base, so your vibrator will always be ready to go.

IM Toy Candy Bluetooth Kegel Exerciser

Packaging

As a note, I’ve noticed that the Candy’s battery seems to die quickly – even in stand-by. It seems to be dead when I come to use it for the third use without recharging. For that reason, I’ve been keeping in the charging base without any issue. Since the base is pretty small and easy to carry, it works fine for travel purposes as well.

The Candy Kegel Exerciser seems very dedicated towards doing kegel exercises. Unlike other kegel balls which tend to market themselves as “pleasurable toys that can *also* be used to do exercises”, Candy is focused on the exercise portion. As far as I can tell, you can’t control the vibrations outside of a kegel exercise class through the app, so it’s not really designed to just be worn around for the pleasure. It feels comfortable enough if you just wanted to wear it for fun in public, but it won’t provide any particular sensation when using it like other stand-alone kegel balls can do.

When it comes to cleaning, after you’re done, you’ll want to wipe the kegel exerciser down with a slightly damp washcloth and possibly some soap (depending on your trust in the UV cleaning). As the kegel exerciser is waterproof, it’s really easy to clean without worrying about getting water in areas. Use the UV sanitizer base for sterilization. Water-based lubricants will work best with the Candy kegel exerciser, but you may want to do some experimentation with it before you go gung-ho on using it on your toy.

Overall, if you’re someone who really needs some help sticking to an exercise program and you want to see some improve in your vaginal muscles, the IMToy Candy kegel exerciser could really help. Similar to something like a 30-day workout program, the Candy offers precise, determined plans that will poke at you to complete them through your phone. However, it’s missing some of the technological features I would have really loved to see in a kegel exerciser like this – such as cold, hard data about all of the improvements I’m making. It guides you really well through kegel exercises that will leave you feeling a bit sore, but if you’re a self-starter who would stick to a program without the integration, you may prefer a cheaper option. For those who really like the kick in the pants to improve their overall health, the Candy kegel exerciser might be a good option. Thanks to IMToy for providing this app kegel exerciser for my Candy kegel exerciser review.