MEO.de Black Berlin Speculum Review

April 01st, 17   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »
MEO.de Black Berlin Speculum

MEO.de Black Berlin Speculum

Whether you’d like a speculum for medical curiosity or kink reasons, MEO.de has a huge selection of sex speculums. One of those items is the Speculum Black Berlin. Made from stainless steel, the width is variable between 1.2″ and 1.6″ with a possible spread of up to 4″. This black speculum can be used vaginally or anally, and it offers two ways to adjust the spread.

The Speculum Black Berlin comes in pretty basic packaging. It will be in a sealed plastic bag that will need to be destroyed in order to get the speculum out from the bag. Outside of that, the speculum comes with no instructions or other packaging. If you’re unfamiliar with how to use a speculum, I’d recommend doing a bit of reading online before taking it for its first trial run.

MEO.de Black Berlin Speculum

Showing the adjustable aspects of the MEO.de Black Berlin Speculum

While this black speculum might look confusing, the control of it is relatively simplistic. There are two screws with bolts on them. One of the screws controls how “wide” the two pieces will go apart from each other at the end that’s furthest away from the tip. The other screw controls how far apart the two “bills” will go. You’ll most-likely want to set the former before you insert the toy then manually open the speculum with the lever and set the other screw to hold the internal widening that you’re wanting. It’s a two-point system, and it works particularly well. You’ll understand it really quickly once you have the speculum in your hands.

MEO.de Black Berlin Speculum

Tip design of the MEO.de Black Berlin Speculum

With a toy like this, you’re usually worried about sharp edges or badly-designed corners. There’s no reason to worry with this one. All of the edges are entirely smooth. The “duck bill” is gently sloped for a comfortable insertion, and even the undersides of the “bill” are entirely smoothed. The only part of this speculum that has any texture is the nuts and bolts for size adjustment, and those will not come in contact with the wearer’s skin.

MEO.de Black Berlin Speculum

Easily-adjustable design of the MEO.de Black Berlin Speculum

The other concern with a speculum is about pinching. In this case, you, again, have nothing to worry about. The two “bills” of the speculum are slightly different in length. This means that when opening or allowing the speculum to close entirely, there’s no chance of internal skin getting stuck between the toy. On the external spectrum of things, there is a small screw that might touch the skin during the widening process, but there’s absolutely nothing that’s going to pinch the skin. The manufacturers ensured that all of the “clampy bits” were on the side facing away from the person being penetrated.

If you’re looking for a toy that’s going to allow you to spread your partner pretty wide (and hold it there), this is going to do exactly what you need. Once slipped into your partner, the design allows you to slightly force it open then hold the speculum at that width. Once your partner is comfortable at that width, you can easily increase the width and have it hold that. It allows for easy incremental adjustment to achieve a wider spread over time (instead of starting gung-ho from the first time!) It’s comfortable and easy to hold onto – even with lubricated hands – and it operates without pinching anyone.

MEO.de Black Berlin Speculum

Showing the widest settings of the MEO.de Black Berlin Speculum

Designed to be sterilized for use over and over, this speculum is made from stainless steel. The toy should be bathed in warm water and anti-bacterial soap before and after every use. For sterilization, you can boil it or use a bleach/water solution. You’ll want to regularly use a toothbrush or other cleaning brush in order to clean around the smaller areas of the nuts and bolts. You can use any type of lubricant you’d like with this speculum (though I recommend you use a lot of it!), and it can be stored any way you’d like. Just make sure that you don’t unscrew the bolts so far that they become separated from the speculum. If so, your speculum won’t hold itself open as nicely as it was designed to do.

Overall, if you want to play with a speculum, you’re going to have a harder time finding a more comfortable, affordable, and high-quality option other than the Speculum Black Berlin. It adjusts really easily, doesn’t scratch or pinch the wearer, and it just looks pretty sexy too. It’s easily to sterilize and clean, and it’s something that offers a wide variety of adjustability too. Thanks to MEO.de for sending along this stainless steel black speculum for my Speculum Black Berlin review.

Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager Review

March 17th, 17   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »
Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager

Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager

Based off of the award-winning “Rude-Boy” offered from Rocks-Off, the Wild Boy offers more texture and width than the standard “Rude-Boy” that many have fallen in love with. Available from Good Vibrations, this prostate vibrator is waterproof and offers 7 speeds of vibration. This prostate massager is made from silicone and includes the batteries needed for operation. The Wild Boy is a vibrating toy that comes in two parts: the silicone “Wild Boy” sleeve itself with a RO-80mm Rocks-Off bullet vibrator that can be removed.

The Wild Boy comes in standard, yet classy, sex toy packaging. It gives a clear view of the vibrator inside, but the packaging is mostly designed to be disposable, so you won’t have much of a reason to keep it around after you get the toy out of it. There is some basic information on the back and sides of the box to tell you a bit more about the toy you’ve ordered.

Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager

Showing the packaging

Standard to a lot of the Rocks-Off toys, the vibrations from this prostate massager comes from a removable vibrating bullet that slides into the silicone “shell” of the prostate massager. The vibrator then vibrates the entire silicone portion. If you don’t want to use the vibrations, you can just leave the vibrator out, and if you would rather upgrade to a stronger or different bullet vibrator, that can be done as well.

Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager

Showing how the bullet vibrator is removable

When it comes to the exterior texture on the silicone shell, the “Wild Boy” is different than a lot of the other Rocks-Off sexual products. It has an interesting texture on both ends. The insertive end features a slight twisting texture to it that runs around the shaft. The texture is definitely noticeable while inserting – especially if you haven’t used enough lube – but it doesn’t seem to make too much of a difference once it’s in. It does look pretty neat though. The exterior/perineal portion of the vibrator has a “dotted” texture along it. This texture is a lot more noticeable on the exterior skin of the body. We’ve found that it causes some annoyance and pain if you’re rubbing against it unless you’ve very lightly lubed it. The lubricant helps turn those bumps into a pleasant sensation instead of an annoying one.

Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager

Size of the Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager

The vibrator is really easy to control, and if you’ve ever used a bullet vibrator, it takes a similar structure to it. Just press the button and watch the vibrations come to life! Yeah, that’s it, really. When the vibrator is inserted, the bullet will usually be located near the testicles area, so it does make it easier to control the vibrations. There isn’t too much awkward hand-reaching that has to go on unless you insert it a different way.

Because the vibrator is just slid into the solid silicone, it doesn’t transfer vibrations as well as if the vibrating motor had been built in. You can still feel the vibrations throughout the tip, but if you’re depending on harder vibrations to provide prostate pleasure, this is not the toy for this. If you usually enjoy non-vibrating prostate toys and was just hoping to add a little bit of extra sensation to your prostate pleasure, the “Wild Boy” works great. Most of the vibrations tend to be felt along the perineal area (since that’s where the vibrator is located). You can still feel them in the tip, but don’t expect them to be earth-shattering. Changing out the bullet vibrator to a stronger vibrator does help (though the RO-80mm bullet vibrator isn’t bad in strength for a bullet vibe), but the design means that prostate tip will never receive the full intensity of the vibrations.

Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager

How flexible the silicone of the Rocks-Off Wild Boy Prostate Massager is

The Wild Boy prostate massager was designed to fit most body shapes, though. The joining “center” part of the silicone does have some flexibility to it. Both of the sides of the vibrator are a lot more rigid (though not entirely rigid), but that interior connector bit has some flexibility that will allow it to properly “stretch” to fit onto most people’s bodies. The plug doesn’t have a lot of stretch, though, so once it’s in place, expect the toy to make a bit of a “clamping” motion onto your body. This will add more stimulation to the perineal area while you’re using it.

The curve of the Wild Boy may be able to hit your prostate, but it seems to be a bit of hit-or-miss. Sometimes it seems to work well and sometimes it doesn’t. It seems to matter how my partner is laying. Laying in more of a “curled up” position seems to help the Wild Boy hit its mark better while laying flat seems to mean it misses that pleasure spot. More arousal and experimenting with positions might help you find where it hits best; I wish it was a bit longer and included a bit more of a curve to it. I think that’d help hit the spot better for most.

Cleaning is made easier by the fact that the vibrator pulls out from the silicone casing. Both the silicone “Wild Boy” and the bullet vibrator that slides into it are waterproof, so it’s really easy to clean. Just use warm water and anti-bacterial soap and clean each piece separately. Make sure to clean inside the bullet’s cavern – especially if you added lubricant to it. You can boil or use a water/bleach solution on the Wild Boy sleeve itself for further cleaning. For lubricant, water-based lubes tend to work better for silicone toys, so keep that in mind.

As a “pro tip”, if you’re looking to make it easier to remove the bullet, is to put a drop of lubricant onto the bullet and twist it as you slide it in. It’ll lubricate the interior of the chamber and make it easier to slide out later for cleaning. Just make sure you slide it out for cleaning or you’ll have dried lube, and that’s not fun at all.

Overall, If you like texture and would like something a bit more substantial than the look of the Rude Boy, I think the “Wild Boy” could be a better choice for you. It’s not my partner’s favorite prostate massager out there, but it does seem to work in some positions. I think a bit of design change and some stronger vibrations would really help it stand out, but if you were a fan of the “Rude Boy” or other Rocks-Off toys and wanted a larger and textured change, this could be a good toy for you. Thanks to Good Vibrations for providing this prostate massager for my Wild Boy sex toy review.

Double Dildo Strap Connector Review

March 10th, 17   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »
Double Dildo Strap Connector

Double Dildo Strap Connector

Double-ended dildos have had their spotlight in adult videos and fantasies for a long, long time – and why not? For some people, it’s extremely erotic experience, but finding the perfect double-ended dildo for such activities may not always lead to the sensations both parties want to end. That’s where the Double Dildo Strap Connector from the Sh! Women’s Store comes in. Made from neoprene, this accessory allows you to insert two dildos into the connector – base to base – and button the buttons. So simple, but after inserting them, you’ll have a double-ended toy made entirely from your own favorite toys.

Double Dildo Strap Connector

Double Dildo Strap Connector packaging

Sh! doesn’t spare any expense with the packaging for this double dildo connector. The connector comes packaged in a white box with a foam padding. The box includes a lid as well and is entirely square in design, so it’s extremely easy to wrap this toy up for gifting purposes. The packaging, however, doesn’t have any information about the connector, but really, there’s not much necessary. You’ll figure it out quickly.

Double Dildo Strap Connector

Double Dildo Strap Connector comes in nicely-wrapped packaging

The Double Dildo Strap Connector was designed to be easy-to-use – and it is. The strap easily unsnaps to reveal two separate flaps of neoprene – both with a hole through the middle. Each neoprene’s flap’s hole was designed to have a dildo slipped through it – with the bases touching each other in the middle. Only standard, flat flared bases will work in these. You’ll want particularly slim bases as well. Most of the visions of Bad Dragon toys, Fuze silicone toys, or oddly-shaped bases won’t work. It works perfectly for most of the toys sold by Sh! Women’s Store as well as many Tantus or Vixen Creations toys. Anything with a standard, flat base in terms of base compatibility.

Double Dildo Strap Connector

Showing how well two dildo bases fit in the Double Dildo Strap Connector

It definitely does need to be noted that this Double Dildo Connector was designed for small-to-medium toys. Size queens and kings will likely need to modify this connector (and weaken the durability) or consider a different option. You can pretty much go as slim as you want (thickness wise) without much of an issue, but trying to get my Tantus Gary O2 in here (which has a diameter of 1.5″) definitely seems to be about the limit for what these holes were designed to take. It was a very tight fit – and the Gary O2 isn’t a particularly thick toy to begin with! I was definitely concerned about ripping while putting it in. I would love to see an alternative option for thicker toys from Sh! Women’s Store – or maybe just a rebuilt design that allows interchangeable O-rings to allow for the perfect fit for all types of options. Either way, choosing to use this toy with a smaller or standard-sized dildo will ensure everything fits without rips.

Double Dildo Strap Connector

How a dildo fits into the Double Dildo Strap Connector

As for the durability, however, if you use the connector how it was designed, it doesn’t look like you’ll have too much of a problem. The only concern I have with the connector is the size of the holes on either side. I imagine that regular stretching of these holes to accommodate larger-than-designed dildos will end up tearing the neoprene. As the neoprene just seems to be a single layer of neoprene without much stitching or reinforcing done, it’s definitely possible to rip it. I think the biggest danger to safety will be trying to insert too-large toys. It doesn’t look like anything you’ll do would rip the toy during use.

Double Dildo Strap Connector

Another look at two dildos filling up the Double Dildo Strap Connector

While manufacturer-made double-ended dildos will work just fine for some people, others are going to prefer the flexibility of the Double Dildo Strap Connector. After all, many of the double-ended dildos are made of concerning materials. Aside from that fact, though, it’s quite possible that the two people enjoying a double-ended dildo together just enjoy two separate sensations. Maybe one person loves a thick dildo with lots of texture. The other may prefer a slender toy with a g-spot curve. Good luck finding those two items on the same double-ended dildo. That’s where the Dildo Double Strap Connector comes in. It’ll allow you to use your own two favorite toys.

Since this is going to get near lube and genital areas, this is definitely something you want to clean – and the neoprene material of the connector makes it simple. Use warm water and anti-bacterial soap to rinse down the entirety of the connector. It’s entirely waterproof, so you can submerge and clean the connector as much as roughly as you’d like. As for storage, it’s, again, very flexible, so you can store it however you’d like as well. Just try to avoid crumpling it into a ball.

Overall, the Double Dildo Strap Connector is going to be a dream accessory for people who want to experiment with a double-ended dildo that’s on the smaller size, width-wise. Not only is it easy to use and clean, but it’s extremely affordable, and it does its job – and does it well – without requiring any fancy instructions or tools. While I’d love to see Sh! Women’s Store offer one that’s better suited for larger toys, this one is certainly going to become a favorite for people who have been unsatisfied with manufacturer-designed double-dildo offerings. Thanks to Sh! Women’s Store for providing this make your own double dildo strap for my Double Dildo Strap Connector review.

10 Suggestions to Ease Yourself into Kinkier Sex

March 10th, 17   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comments »

Very few sensations compare to the enjoyment of making love. Sex is a sensation unto itself, but there are moments where it can feel a bit stale. Whether you are dating a new man, or simply looking to spice up your tired sexual routine with your long-term partner, there are ways to make even the standard sex acts new and exciting. You might not be ready to jump straight into the “handcuffs” and “blindfolds” – and that’s okay. Consider some of these slightly-kinky suggestions to ease yourself into the idea of kinkier sex – and go further if you want. Or don’t if you don’t. That’s the beauty of sexual experimentation – you only have to do what feels fun for you!

1. Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want
For some people, speaking out in the bedroom can be tough, but your partner may find it incredibly sexy when you can share your fantasies and your needs. Whether you are canoodling before the act or you’re in the middle of sex, don’t be afraid to share your desires. How do you expect to have the best sex ever if your partner doens’t know what “the best sex ever” even includes?

2. Make Eye Contact
The eyes are the window to the soul, and there is no sultrier a moment to lock eyes than while you are going down on your partner. Look up, make sure they see you, and keep doing what you’re doing. It is an easy way to take an ordinary blowjob from average to extraordinary.

3. Take the Lead
If you are normally submissive, surprise your lover by taking control of your bedroom activities. Most people love it when their partner takes charge – and they get to be the lazy one and lay back and just enjoy the pleasure. Whether it’s something as simple as being the aggressor during a make-out session or you want to be on-top during sex, taking the lead can offer new possibilities for sex.

4. Vibrators Aren’t Only for Solo Play
Bust out the vibrator next time you are playing in the bedroom. While they are a great tool for solo orgasms, they can also be used to bring your duet action to new heights. Use a bullet to stimulate his shaft while you go down on a penis, or let your partner have control of the vibrator to bring you to orgasm using your favorite sex toy with the wonders of technology.

5. Masturbate In Front of Them
Masturbating in front of your partner might seem like a weird way to turn them on, but what partner doesn’t like to see their partner enjoying themselves? You can keep it simple by just playing with yourself, or pull out all the stops and let it lead into penetration. Whatever you feel like doing, you should do.

6. Grind Slow While You are On Top
Your hips don’t lie, and moving them during sex ensures they don’t. When you are on top, try grinding your hips against your partner. Hip movements are erotic, and the sensations and the view partner together for a potent erotic cocktail. There is more than simple thrusting for penetration, and you can use this to your advantage.

7. Ask Them about Their Fantasies
All people want to feel desired and loved. They also want to know that you care about what they like. Ask your partner to jot down his top 5 fantasies. Take a look at his interests, and try to find a way that they could fit into your own pleasure profile. Do they want to watch as you strip during amateur night at the local strip club? Well, maybe that one isn’t within your comfort level, but you’d be willing to hop onto the (sturdy, please!) living room coffee table for a private strip tease while they sit on the couch.

8. Use Your Hands
Once you and your partner get used to having intercourse, the days of handjobs and slipping a hand up someone’s skirt might fall by the wayside. It doesn’t have to though! Not only does manual stimulation offer the flexibility of way more positions, but it’s something that can be done in public – or when one of you isn’t feeling like full-intercourse.

9. Don’t Forget the Perineum
The perineum is the sensual spot between your partner’s genitals and their anus. It is full of nerve endings – no matter the gender. Rub gently and caress the spot as your partner gets close to orgasm for an out-of-this-world experience. Some people, however, are uncomfortable with touches in this area, so it will depend on your partner.

10. Slip a Condom on with Your Mouth
While more of an erotic visual than a useful technique, it can be hot to watch a partner apply to condom in this unconventional manner. For the beginner, you might want to try using your hands for a bit of help. Keep your lips close to the penis as you apply the condom, and as your hand rolls down the condom, follow the condom with your lips for a “faux” mouth application.