About

So, who is Mistress Kay? After reading a few pieces here, you might be left scratching your head. After all, I am this oddly eclectic human who collects dildos for a living and is apparently incapable of not bringing up sexual and kinky topics when placed into a group of people. (As a friend put it, “She’s an amazing person, but she definitely takes some getting used to. Definitely an odd one.”)

Y’know, I don’t think I’d have it any other way. “Odd” feels right to me. In a world that’s decidedly sex-negative and considers small talk the only way to have “appropriate” discussions, I’d like to be that oddball who’s regularly unable to accept the norms. I’m sex-positive, unable to tolerate long periods of fluff-level conversation, and constantly seeking to expand my horizons through new education and learning about the experiences of others – essentially, an Aquarius in a nutshell, really.

When I’m not working or crafting amazing content here on Kinky World (which, let’s be fair, is the vast majority of time I have in my life), I’m probably spending time with my partners, editing the never-ending backlog of photos I have, listening to a kink or sex podcast while on a walk, or exploring new places.

Kinky World is a passion project that I’ve been doing for over 12 years now (yes, that long!). While it started with a focus on sex toy reviews, I’ve slowly expanded my focus over the past couple of years to include lots of sex and kink education – especially with a slant towards underrepresented femdom perspectives. My ultimate goal? Helpful, free sex and kink education that helps you live your best life – and makes you feel less alone in the world.

I write regularly for:
Kinkly
The Cage

You can also keep up with Kinky World on:
Twitter
YouTube
Fetlife

(Though I am, admittedly, absolutely terrible at keeping up with social media. I have yet to figure out how people have enough time to keep up with the multiple posts a day that every social media marketer recommends I do.)

Kinky World continues to garner attention for some of the work I’ve done too: (To be honest, it’s really refreshing to think some people value the work I do here – and I’m not just a hamster on a spinning wheel.)

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Want to contact me? (Sex toy reviews, press releases, questions, suggestions, advertisements, etc.) My email is the.mistress.kay at gmail.com . I’m pretty lousy at responding within 24 hours, but I’ll try my best to get back to you as quickly as possible!

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