Tips for Taking the Perfect Sexting Photo

February 07th, 18   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comment

Sure, word-based erotic sexting can be HOT – but what about those times where you want to share more with your partner? What about times where your body just feels so smokin’ that you want to use it to arouse someone else? What if you just feel like an erotic photo session? When inspiration strikes, make sure you follow some simple tips for the best nude photos you can manage. You’re already hot – but make sure your shots portray that as best as possible with these simple tips:

HAVE CONSENT! Before you ever consider sending a nude or erotic photo to someone, you should be damn sure you have consent. What consent looks like for you and your partner might be different than what consent looks like for someone else. Maybe it’s something as simple as “I’m feeling a bit naughty this evening. Would you like me to show you?” or maybe it’s something as explicit as her text saying “Show me your cock”. Whatever it is, if you’re not sure that it’d be a welcome addition to your conversation, DON’T. Make sure both parties think it’d be fantastic – or you’re just going to turn-off your sexting partner anyway – which defeats the point.

Clean Your Location: First off, pick a good location. You don’t have to overthink this, but there are some places that are likely a “definite no” – such as while on the toilet (unless that’s your kink), with lots of garbage in the background, or anywhere near children. Other possibly awesome places may include in front of a bedroom mirror, in the bathtub, on the bed, or on your couch or chair. If you know you’re going to be taking photos, if you have time, try to clean off any garbage or clutter near your photo space so everything will look nice and neat when you’ve finally memorialized yourself. This can be as easy as shoving everything further away from your photo space to make everything “appear” clean. Hey – we don’t always have time for cleaning when we’re wanting to take nude photos.

Pick Good Lighting: Many of the best casual photos are taken in natural lighting with the sun offering most of the gentle, flattering lighting that’s great for a lot of us. For most of us, however, our sexting playtimes likely come in the middle of the night – or at least when it’s dark outside. This can make it harder to get flattering lighting – but it can still be done. Try to pay attention to where your shadows are falling. Shadows can be your best friend – and they can be your worst enemy. Even when working with indoor lights, just try turning in a circle while looking at the screen and see where you think your body looks “best” – and use that position. Some lighting scenarios will be better than others. And please no – don’t even think about turning on your phone’s “flash”. Turn on some other lights long before you resort to that. Your phone’s flash is the last resort.

Come Prepared with Back-Up: Depending on what the two of you are sexting about, you can always “come prepared” to your sexting session. As long as you protect your photos and your device, there’s no reason that you can’t have some “favorite” sexting photos saved on your phone for sending at a later date. Not only does this give you the flexibility to choose when your energy is high, your outfit is perfect, and the lighting great, but it also means that you might be able to focus better on your own pleasure (rather than getting shots) during the sexting itself. You can even mix prepared photos with on-the-fly photos for a good mixture of higher-quality and “look what I’m doing right now”.

Start Small: There’s no reason that you have to strip off every strip of your clothing for your first sexting photo. In fact, don’t! Part of the allure of sexuality can definitely be the lead-up and the tease. Consider starting off fully clothed with photos that get more erotic as time goes on. Consider slipping a bra strap down your arm or a shot of the bulge through your jeans long before you’re ever entirely naked for the shot.

Protect Yourself: Unfortunately, not everybody looking to sext has the best intentions in mind. Unless you are entirely, 100% trusting of the intentions of a person, NEVER send a sext with identifiable information in it. This can be as obvious as your face – or as innocent as a street sign in the background of an open window or the exposed address of an accidentally-left-out bill on the table behind you. Make sure to comb through your photos before sending them out. Don’t forget about the non-visible data as well. Many cell phones offer “geo-tagging” and other automatically-tagging services. Make sure your photo is wiped from that data – and you may wish to turn off that feature for future photos as well. (I always keep mine turned off just to prepare for that one time I might accidentally forget to wipe it off a photo.) While you’re at it, make sure your photos aren’t automatically backing up to the cloud (unless that’s something you want).

Be Creative: You don’t just have to use your OWN image for inspiration. While you shouldn’t go about pretending someone’s erotic photos are your own, there’s nothing wrong with finding an explicit video clip online and sending it to your partner as “Something you’d like to do with them”. As long as it’s obvious that it’s not you, it’s fair game. Let their imagination run wild – without needing to take a single photo.

Out of ideas? Consider these photo taking ideas no matter what your gender identification:
Fully clothed, Pulling up the shirt to display your midsection, Pulling down a waistband to display underwear, Pulling down underwear and a waistband to display bare skin, Pulling up a shirt enough to display the bottom of a bra, Completely shirtless, Completely shirtless while wearing a bra, Completely shirtless while wearing a bra while flirtily pulling at a shoulder strap, Completely shirtless with long hair covering bare breasts, Completely shirtless with an arm covering bare breasts, Shirtless without pants while still in underwear, Shirtless without pants while teasingly pulling down the underwear waistband while still not exposing anything, A shot of your butt while standing, A shot of your butt while laying and bent over, Naked face-down on the bed with a shot that shots the curvature of your butt and back from over your shoulder, Laying in bed with blankets strategically covering your naked body, Naked except for a robe, Taking a bath with bubbles and water hiding specific areas.

Of course, that’s only the visual ideas; you can always go for more explicit sexual shots like masturbation or penetration as well.




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