Can You Improve Intimacy with Sex Toys?

May 27th, 14   •   Posted by Mistress Kay   •   No Comment

There are many ways that couples can improve their relationship, but one of the most important is in the bedroom. Couples who have been together for a while know that sex can become monotonous. This type of monotony can negatively affect every aspect of a relationship. Why take that chance? Try spicing things up in the bedroom by throwing some intimate toys into the mix.

Every couple wants to improve their sex life at some point throughout their relationship. Sex is a healthy way to get closer to one another and improve a relationship as a whole. Although there is a negative stigma attached to the use of sex toys, they have been shown to improve both physical sex and emotional intimacy between couples, helping them avoid the potential monotony of monogamy.

There are many studies that have shown that around 75% of women are not able to even reach orgasm via penetration. This is where intimate toys can help. If a couple uses sex toys, the woman’s chance of reaching a satisfying orgasm is dramatically increased, which directly affects the success and intimacy that can be experienced by the couple as a sexual unit. Sexual satisfaction is related to a couple’s attitude about sex, so if their attitude is playful, the sex will be as well.

Many women have admitted that they have faked an orgasm at least once in their life. Faking orgasms can lead to many relationship issues, including an attitude of distrust in the bedroom. Vibrators have been shown to be especially effective in helping women reach climax. This is because most women require clitoral stimulation in order to have a full and satisfying orgasm. If both partners are able to reach orgasm, sex becomes no longer a frustrating experience, but a beautiful act of emotional and physical intimacy.

Sex toys are not only good for physical lubrication, but they also can aid partners with social lubrication. Many women suffer from negative body images and sex just brings these insecurities to the forefront of her mind. Sex toys ease these types of intimacy issues by taking the focus off of the naked bodies and putting it on the sexual intimacy of the encounter. Many couples use these toys during foreplay and during mutual masturbation to help bridge the potential barrier caused by negative body issues.

Adult intimacy products aren’t just for the benefit of the woman, however. They can help men feel more confident by assisting them in chaperoning their partner into the throws of orgasm. Jimmy Jane, an industry leader in sex toys, believe that these pleasurable aids remove performance pressure that enhances sexual satisfaction and can also strengthen the emotional aspect of the relationship.

Sex toys should be embraced by couples because they can increase overall intimacy, but also positively affect other non-sexual aspects of a relationship because of the trust and satisfaction they can bring to each partner. When introducing a sex toy, make sure to not spring it on your partner, focus on easing them into it by discussing their potential for relationship and sexual enhancement. Don’t get discouraged if your partner rejects the idea of a sex toy at first; bring it up at another time in a different setting.

If you aren’t having the type of sexual encounters you want, consider using intimate aids to help your relationship reach its full, culmination potential.




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